We forget that we do not have to do anything, but only to ask the Creator to do it! We think about how I can make my heart open, how I can connect with another, and how he can connect with me. We should not think about this at all! We imagine connection in our egoistic mind, but it is nothing like what we imagine! This is the level of the upper world; a new reality is revealed to us! We must only ask, nothing else!

We learn that everything happens through a request. We raise a prayer, MAN, and in response, the surrounding light, MAD, comes and corrects everything, while we merely witness the correction. Everything comes from above; all that is required of us is a demand, a request, an aspiration.

The problem lies at this point. Are we turning to the Creator or are we trying to do everything ourselves? This is precisely where we make a mistake and remain stuck for many years, unable to change our direction even slightly and understand that there is nothing but turning to Him, demanding, and asking!

We must make an effort to reach this request, but only for that purpose. If we try to build the correct common system ourselves, based on love and friendship, it will be a long path that will lead us to understand that we are moving away from the goal, that we are insincere, that we hate one another and are not approaching unity.

Kabbalah must lead us to a very precise scrutiny. Do not try to connect with another person; you are incapable of doing so. You are an egoist and so is he. Only the upper light can do this. It must come and bind us together, only it!

Therefore, do not seek connection with one another, for it is said: “Husband and wife, the Shechina between them.” That is, between me and a friend stands the Creator. “He who makes peace in His heights will make peace upon us.”

Any approach we make to one another without the force that connects us is a false approach. When we embrace, we either do not truly want to embrace or we do so only on the level of our world.

Do we demand love, connection, or friendship from one another? Only on the level of this world. Who among us can serve as a guarantor for another person or even for himself? Where would we get the strength? We can aspire toward one another only through the upper one, who fills all the space between us.

If we demand that He fill the emptiness, connect us with one another, and remain constantly present between us, this will happen, and with ease. The wisdom of Kabbalah is meant to bring us to this correct attitude, but we, in our egoistic nature, constantly run away from it.

Let us not forget that “There is none else besides Him”! The Creator performs the action, but for this to happen, we must precede His action with our desire. This is called “making a covenant.” We make an agreement with the Creator; we demand, and He fulfills.

Just as little children walk along and pull adults after them, we draw the upper force toward us so that it will correct the nature it created, and then we will become equal to the Creator.

We cannot attain mutual guarantee or even truly desire it. As soon as we begin speaking about unity, we must remember the condition: “Israel, the light, and the Creator are one.” I, my friend, and the Creator between us, only the three of us together can attain true reconciliation and perfection.

It is precisely the aspiration for connection within the group that quickly brings us to the realization that we must turn to the Creator for every kind of help!
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From the International Kabbalah Congress 11/11/10, Lesson 8

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Question: Can a person turn to the Creator before fully examining and understanding their state?

Answer: It does not matter. As soon as you have an opportunity to turn to the Creator, do so! Do not wait for your suffering to increase and for your cry to the Creator to become more genuine.

Your cry will never be more genuine than when with every desire and in every state, you are connected to Him, because the light awakens the Kli.

Otherwise, you will only torment yourself, constantly eating away at yourself from within. So do not hold yourself back from continually seeking a connection with the Creator, with the light. The degree of the light determines the degree of the Kli, how deeply you examine your Kli, your recognition of evil, your turning to the Creator, and your awareness of His greatness.

Thus, if you do not turn to the Creator, you will remain trapped in your own desire, feeling only what that desire wants, without gaining anything from it. No action will come out of this. A true action must result from the influence of the light. Therefore, do not hold back from turning to the Creator. Under no circumstances! It is written in many places that we must always pray.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 10/23/26, Rabash, “What Is the Meaning of Failure in the Work?”

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We should understand what it means when we say, “We have no other king but You.” It implies that when we praise the Creator that “We have no other king but You,” then we are not like the nations of the world, who have many gods, while we have only You as our king (Rabash, “What Is, ‘We Have No Other King But You,’ in the Work?”).

Question: What does it mean, “We have no other king but You”? Does this mean that, in reality, there are other kings besides the Creator, and that we choose Him rather than the others? But isn’t it written, “There is none else besides Him”?

Answer: The point is that a person can only turn to the Creator, establish a connection, contact, and relationship with Him only through similarity of qualities. If a person acquires even one of the many qualities that belong to the Creator, they immediately enter into connection with the Creator through that single quality, through this similarity to Him. This is called “Emet”—truth.

That is why it is written that a person must know whom they are calling upon and must cry out in truth because contact is possible only through a quality that is shared by both.

In other words, I must somehow discover what qualities the Creator has, deeply desire them, and acquire them, starting from those that are easier to implement within my desire to receive, moving to qualities that are more distant, greater, and more difficult to realize. I must continue until I become like the Creator in all my qualities. This state is described as, “The name of the Creator is proclaimed upon you.”

This is what we learn in relation to raising MAN, a prayer. What is MAN? It is a need (Hisaron) for correction so that my qualities become like His: “Make your desire like His desire,” and so on. If my desire to become like Him has not been corrected, if it is fundamentally flawed, in other words, if I am still hold a mistaken conception in my understanding of who He is and what He is like, then I am not calling upon Him truthfully. In that case, this Hisaron is not called MAN and is not perceived by the upper one.

It is like the example given by Rabash: a child is ill, and the doctor says that he may be given certain things but not others. The child cries, screams, and demands only what he wants. If something the child asks for is among the things prescribed by the doctor, the mother gives it to him; if not, she does not. The same applies to our MAN. It is a request to which there can be a response only if my desire corresponds to His desire. “Make your desire like His desire,” that is, make His desire your own.

This general correction, so that our requests are for things that are true, is called faith. My request to the Creator cannot be genuine or correct if it is for my own personal benefit. It must be for His benefit, for the sake of bestowal. It doesn’t even matter what particular form this bestowal takes. The main thing is that, first of all, my request and my direction must rise above my desire to receive and above thoughts about myself.

Our requests must be for the acquisition of desires directed outward, toward bestowal upon another. The quality we acquire that allows us to think, not about ourselves, but beyond ourselves, that is, ultimately about the Creator, is called faith.

As a rule, the strength of faith comes from above and gives a person the ability to rise above their desires and stop thinking about them. But until a person acquires the ability to believe, that is, to rise above the demands of their body, they do not truly turn to the Creator at all. They turn only to themselves.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 10/15/26, Rabash, “What Is, ‘We Have No Other King But You,’ in the Work?”

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Question: What is the most correct prayer for me? My intention is to obtain a Hisaron. In other words, is an intention that comes from the most hidden, pure place within me a true prayer? Or should I clothe it in certain words?

Answer: Should prayer be expressed in words? The Creator does not see bodies. So what words are you talking about when you say you need them in prayer? Perhaps by words you mean an analysis of desires and intentions. But what are words?

There are no words in spirituality. Spirituality is a naked feeling, without any clothing. It consists of sensations and inner definitions that have no words. You can attach any names or numbers to them. The main thing is that others accept these names as well if you wish to communicate with them.

In relation to the Creator, you must attain a certain combination of concepts, feelings, thoughts, and intentions. There are no words here. You can call it “Reshimo X de Hitlabshut” and “Reshimo Y de Aviut.” That is all that defines the Reshimo.

We call this, for example, “NRN of the righteous,” the lights of the righteous. It does not matter; these are only names. Within them are inner sensations.

Comment: Every time I try to find the words, I find it amusing: why is this necessary?! The intention will reach its destination anyway.

My Response: Correct. Prayer is a sensation in the heart. Here, the heart does not mean our biological heart but all of a person’s desires. If within all these desires there is a certain overall, correct feeling directed toward the Creator, that is what is called prayer. “Directed toward the Creator” means the desire to acquire the same qualities as His.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 8/24/26, Rabash, “Who Testifies to a Person”

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Comment: You said that there are three conditions for a request: the Creator has what I want, He has the desire to give it to me, and I have the knowledge of how to ask Him for it.

My Response: Perhaps, in order to “truly call upon the Creator,” as Rabash writes, these three conditions are not enough. Perhaps several more can be listed.

I spoke about the conditions in our world. Imagine that you want to buy some new thing. What does the possibility of fulfilling yourself depend on? It does not matter whether it is for bestowal or for reception, and it does not matter which lights and Kelim we are talking about. The main thing is that you have a Hisaron (a need).

How do you attain the fulfilment of this Hisaron? You need to go to the store. In order to receive this thing in the store, I must pay money. In order for me to have money, I need to receive it. Where will I receive it from? From the owner.

But in order for him to give me money, I must work for him in return. In order for me to be able to work, I need energy, fuel. What is this fuel? My understanding that the shirt I want to buy in the store is important enough to me to obligate me to make an effort at work right now. In all these matters, I am dealing with the owner and the seller. The owner will want to give me money if I do a certain work for him; that is, there must be an equalization of desires and an understanding of the connection.

The same thing happens in every place. In this sense, there is nothing new in spirituality. We need similarity of properties with the Creator. “Know your Creator and serve Him.”

The first knowledge in contact with Him is faith, rising above the desire to receive. Therefore, Baal HaSulam writes that you have no greater commandment than this: to acquire faith, the Kelim of Bina, the properties of Bina.

When Malchut acquires the properties of Bina and rises to the degree of Bina, then everything is open; there are no restrictions. We are confused by the words we use: “faith,” “above knowledge,” “the righteous shall live by his faith,” and other concepts and sayings. But in essence, this action can be understood very well if one studies it. Without the ascent of Malchut into Bina, there can be no action.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 10/15/26, Rabash, “What Is, ‘We Have No Other King But You,’ in the Work?”

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How can we preserve a state we have attained for the future? Can I somehow guarantee what will happen to me? Of course not!

But my desire to guarantee this creates the next Kli (vessel) within me. I offer this Kli, this desire of mine, as a prayer, as MAN, to the Creator, to the higher degree, which preserves this Kli for me and prepares its fulfillment.

Under what conditions, should we establish a covenant between us? Surely it is not enough simply to say some words, asking Him that things not become worse than they are now? What does my signature under this covenant signify? What must I concretely create now in order to obligate the Creator to preserve the relationship between us?

For His part, the Creator adheres to this. He always relates to me well. How can I guarantee that I will always relate well to Him in one of the 620 channels of our connection with Him?

This can be done only by raising MAN, a prayer for what I want to receive in the future. I am very afraid that in the future I may become worse than I am now. Where does this fear come from?

As usual, we look back, and from this fear a Kli arises. I have fallen many times, suffered setbacks, and seen to what extent I suffer, how bad I feel when I have become detached from the Creator. Now this fear, these sufferings, have prepared me to raise MAN, to offer such a prayer that I say: “Let anything happen, only do not let me become distant from You.” As it is said: “Do not cast me away from before You, and take not Your holy spirit from me.”

If I truly have such preparation as a result of past sufferings, then my prayer is correct. Perhaps I suffer and cry pointlessly, like a small child, whereas within me a mature prayer of an adult must grow so that by means of it I sign the covenant. This signature implies the fulfillment of many conditions. It is not simple.

In fact, this is a long path. All the previous sufferings must necessarily be taken into account; they must be gathered and not lost. And we know that all the previous degrees disappear if we have not yet arrived at their final definitions and results.

Only the final definition, which is recorded in Malchut in each state exists, is fixed, and is preserved. All other definitions are erased, because they did not reach the final point of their development.

Therefore, we must constantly add to the work until we have worked through all the particulars. And when we have finished everything, we come to the conclusion that we ourselves are incapable of doing anything and that accepting the agreement is the best thing possible.

In our world, we come to an agreement out of hopelessness. But with the Creator, we must reach such a state that I sign a covenant because I have no better state (and there cannot be one) than the state that has come.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 10/8/26, Rabash, “What Is Making a Covenant in the Work”

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Question: On one hand, we say that one’s desire has to be clarified in order to know what to ask for. On the other hand, we do not know what is good or beneficial for us. How should we ask so that it is not according to the desires of the body?

Answer: I do not know what is beneficial for me and what is not. So how can I ask for anything?

The Creator does not take into account what you ask for. After all, you are like an uncomprehending infant. Rabash wrote in one of his articles about a child walking with his father and crying all the time, while the father does not react at all. They ask him, “What is the matter?” And he answers, “Do you know why my son is crying? He is asking for a pin so that he can clean his eye with it.”

Of course, the example is not entirely realistic. “Sight” and “pin” are all spiritual terms. The point is that the child is asking for something that could harm him. He does not understand what is good for him and what is bad. It seems good to him. So should we give him a pin? No, it is better to let him cry.

What is the benefit of tears? Why does the father not calm him down? Because in this way, through crying, the child will understand that his desires do not coincide with his father’s, and apparently the father knows better what is good for him. Then it is worthwhile to stop crying and start working on making his desires coincide with his father’s desires.

Let us say the father wants to buy him a beautiful book while the son wants a ball. But the father will buy the book anyway. And the child, through crying and tears, will nevertheless understand that his transition to the next state can happen only through the book, and gradually he himself will want it. And he will gradually examine his desire for the ball and come to the conclusion that all it does is make him cry, that it causes him pain.

At first, he will hate both his father and the book, and look for some other father who will give him a ball. But he will see that nothing will come of it until he wants his father as well as the book. Then he will definitely ask for the book because otherwise he will not receive it. And even if he does receive it, he will simply tear it apart. The father wants him to read it, while he would shred it. The book would be harmful to him.

Until the child learns how to use the book, and what benefit can be derived from it, he will not receive it. Look at the path he has to go through from his initial state, where he wants a ball, screams, and bursts into tears, to the desire to receive a book.

We are looking for how to approach people who want nothing but television, sex, food, and entertainment. How can you give them our books, which are so difficult, so that they will become interested and open them? People do not read anything at all.

How can we prepare a desire within humanity so that it will want Kabbalah, so that it will want a book instead of a ball? Two billion people watch football. If two million became interested in Kabbalah, the world would be turned upside down. And against the backdrop of what problems does the world watch these things?! What problems do people find themselves facing as a result?! It is something frightening. This is the power of the Klipa.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 7/30/26, Rabash, “What Does It Mean that Oil Is Called ‘Good Deeds’ in the Work?”

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Kabbalists have prayers that depict imperfect states using words that seem to be addressed to the Creator to someone who understands nothing. But one who understands sees from this text which of his inner desires and inclinations he should direct to the Creator. The prayer is composed in such a language that, in principle, anyone can adapt it to himself, depending on the level he is in: from zero to the level of the final correction.

Kabbalists have always used the language that Moses received and used to write the Torah, not only to specifically address those who study Kabbalah, but also to address everyone regardless of their spiritual level. If you delve into the prayers, you can see all the interactions and all the levels of every human desire toward the light, toward the Creator.

Moses described everything related to receiving the Torah and the ascent of the soul to Bina. This is his task.

Moses is the force that raises all person’s desires from Malchut to Bina, up to entering the Land of Israel. And afterward the corrections take place without him

Since the quality of “Moses” pulls Malchut to the level of Bina, his mission ends at this point, and he dies. He dies in Jordan, looking from afar at Israel, as it is said in the Torah: “He went up Mount Nebo and died there on the 5^th of Adar.” He was born on the 5^th of Adar and died on the 5^th of Adar. All of this is according to the spiritual roots…

It is not about the person Moses, but about the quality. I cannot imagine a person who would do this, it does not form any kind of picture in me at all. But it can also be understood that way, it does not matter.

Every spiritual root must touch our world, clothe itself in matter. Therefore, everything that should happen in the spiritual world must happen in this world with all of us. As of today, everything has been realized except Purim, except Gmar Tikkun (the final correction).
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson for the holiday of Sukkot, 9/25/26

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If a person correctly connects the right and left lines, such that they complement each other to the fullest extent with neither suppressing or dominating the other, it is called attaining a true prayer. One must ensure that both lines are in the proper combination and at the maximum intensity they are capable of. Only then is it called a prayer.

For such a prayer, a person already receives what is known as the middle line. I do not know exactly what the middle line is. It represents the birth of something new. That is, while I can compose a prayer within myself, receiving an answer to it means being granted something from above that I never possessed before.

What I receive from above is called the vessel (Kli) of my soul, a desire for spirituality that is now truly mine. It doesn’t belong to not the Creator (the right line) nor to the creation (the left line), that is, the nature from which I originated. It is something absolutely new, a fragment of my true self within the spiritual world. This is the beginning of the soul, a new Kli.

In this way a person begins to grow. This Kli constitutes the person’s “self.” They begin to view these two lines and relate to them as two angels, two parameters, two forces, and two distinct natures—the nature of the Creator and the nature of creation—which are given to them so that they can use them together correctly.

This is necessary so that a person gives birth to a third element. The middle line is that third element, something that never existed before, something that the person brings forth into being. Obviously, the Creator does this through the light, but the demand to fill the Hisaron (lack) must come from the person. The sensation of the Hisaron, the awareness of it, and the preparation for it must come from them. Until these exist within a person, nothing can be born.

The Kli born in the middle line is something completely new, something that never existed in reality before. And here the creation truly feels itself to be independent. The Kli is the screen and reflected light, and this is truly the “self.” I sense within them that this is my “self,” and that my “I” is, in essence, the desire to bestow, the desire to be similar to the Creator.

There is neither shame nor a feeling of baseness or discomfort there. All the negative sensations of a person do not come from their “self,” but from the Hisaron of the left line, which is given to us initially, because the Creator created it as “existence from absence” (Yesh Mi Ayin) only so that we could use it to perceive its complete oppositeness to the Creator.

The only choice a person has is to arrive at the correct combination of the right and left lines, which creates the prayer. What does prayer mean? It means the formation of a Hisaron to which we receive an answer from above. When the light comes to fill a specific desire, the proper Kli , screen (Masach), and reflected light (Ohr Hozer) are formed. The screen and reflected light are the vessel with which creation already begins to work independently.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 8/13/26, Rabash, “What Is Do Not Add and Do Not Take Away in the Work?”

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Question: What does the correct connection between the right and left lines mean?

Answer: Correct connection consists of taking the qualities of the Creator and the qualities of creation so that, based on them, creation can attain the Creator. What happens at the end of correction? The entire right line and the entire left line, and everything that is revealed in the process of attaining them, become united into one. What am I doing now? Now I use them to the extent that I am able to, to begin the correction and ask for it.

How is this done? Baal HaSulam says that you must connect yourself, your qualities (“Who am I and what am I?”), with the qualities of the Creator (“Who is He and what is He?”). In other words, your present action should be directed toward bringing these two together.

Start doing this now and observe what your inner resistance is like, the explosions that arise within you. This is how the forces for prayer are created within you. The fact that today you cannot connect these two lines, but you nevertheless make an effort to connect them, that itself is a prayer.

Prayer is not at all the state in which you have already connected everything: everything is, thank God, fine, and now you are in control of the situation. All these actions merely precede the prayer.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 8/13/26, Rabash, “What Is Do Not Add and Do Not Take Away in the Work?”

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