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One Enters Heaven Through Hell

202Question: A samurai came to a sage and asked him whether hell and heaven really exist.

“Who are you?” asked the sage.

“A samurai,” the warrior.

“You are lying,” said the sage. “You have the face of a beggar.”

The samurai drew his sword. The sage said:

“This is how the gates of hell open.”

The samurai understood and, bowing, put away his sword.

“And that is how the gates of heaven open,” said the sage.

My question is this: Is it possible not to draw the sword in response to any insult? In other words, is it possible to not to go through hell before reaching heaven?

Answer: It is very difficult. I think it is practically impossible.

Comment: So, the whole road to heaven is paved through the hell you go through. That is a serious matter.

My Response: What else can you do? This is how we were created. This is our incomparable egoism.

Question: In principle, it does not forgive anyone; it must immediately respond?

Answer: Yes. The first thought is to draw the sword, because that is how we are. There is no escaping it.

We cannot simply flip a switch so that good would govern us. Because “I created evil,” these are, in a sense, the words of the Creator. “And I created the Torah for its correction.” But initially there is evil.

Question: Why was evil created in the beginning?

Answer: It was so that a person could become aware of his nature from one extreme to the other, from evil to good. To experience both manifestations fully, and then incline toward good. Only then, will good govern the person over evil. But one cannot exist without the other.

Question: So, one way or another, we enter heaven through hell?

Answer: Of course.

Question: Then in what is the wisdom of a person? We say, “A person is wise.”

Answer: It means seeing in advance, without having to go through hell at every step, that you need to act differently. But this is acquired through very great trials and experience.

Question: So the experience of constant hell leads a person to become wiser?

Answer: Of course, like that Japanese sage.

Comment: You often speak of a person becoming resigned. You have even used the words “submission,” “annulment,” and “self-annulment.”

My Response: These are all very complex states that require a journey through hell. I do not believe that a person can overcome themselves in advance without extensive experience. It is impossible.

Question: You are talking about rising above one’s egoism. What does it mean to rise above egoism?

Answer: It means sensing egoism in all its possible manifestations in life, even in nature, and constantly rising above it. Bowing one’s head, that is, reducing one’s egoism, reducing it, belittling it, suppressing it.

Question: If one constantly performs this exercise of suppressing one’s egoism and annulling oneself, will it help?

My Answer: I do not think this exercise is even possible; it is philosophy. It is possible only through gradual training within a suitable society. There must an environment where everyone wants this. They cannot do it, but they want to.

Question: Do they feel that they cannot do it?

Answer: Of course. There must be a recognition of evil. And then, all together, facing one another and helping each other, they can crawl out of that stinking pit.

Question: Please tell me, who does the responsibility for climbing out of there actually fall on? On us?

Answer: On us! Ask, plead, think, speak, and show examples to one another, and thus act. And each one whose egoism is greater, they naturally rise higher. In general, this is the work.

Question: If this work is carried on within a society people who want to transcend their egoism, does it help others?

Answer: It helps others not merely by example. It does not even matter whether they see it or not. Because this is a force of nature, and in this way, it is added to the common equation of nature and first outweighs egoism, and then altruism.

Question: In principle, you are saying that if this group manages to rise above itself, it will begin to lift everyone else along with it?

Answer: Yes. We must act.
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From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman,” 6/11/23

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We’ve Grown Older But Not Wiser

600.04Question: Wherein lies our wisdom, our maturity? I mean, our growing up seems to be that when we give something to another person, we give them not the best and keep the best for ourselves. Why does this happen?

Answer: Because our egoism inevitably turns everything upside down.

Question: Are we aware of this?

Answer: We are aware of it. I even remember this from my own experience. When I was about two years old, I also behaved this way, I would give away the best. But then I felt compelled to spoil it. Someone gave me two postcards and told me to give one of them to my cousin. I didn’t know which one to give because they were both beautiful, colorful, bright, and attractive. I had to do something to one of them. So, I bent a corner, rubbed it a little, and then gave it to her. I was already wiser.

Question: But did you understand that you were deliberately damaging it so that you could give it away without any problem?

Answer: So that I would know which one to give. Otherwise, I couldn’t choose between the two.

Question: Does it become more frightening as we advance?

Answer: Of course!

Question: When does this feeling arise: “What am I doing?! How can I do this?!”

Answer: You have to study a lot and learn from examples. It isn’t simple.

Question: But does this realization come to a person, or might it never come?

Answer: It depends on the person.

Comment: So perhaps it does come, and then he is horrified to discover that he always wants to give others the worst.

My Response: Yes. You see, I still remember this example to this day.

Question: It really enters the heart, apparently.

When a person understands this and feels, “This is what I am like, and I don’t want to live according to this nature,” what should his actions be? Suppose I realize that I always give others the worst.

Answer: If this is already changing within a person, and he begins to become aware of it, then this is already the road toward correction, toward self-examination, and so on. That is already something significant.

Question: So can I tell myself internally that I have already begun along some kind of path?

Answer: Probably, yes. You are already getting closer to self-examination.

Question: I remember you telling us how you were sitting with your teacher, sorting coffee beans. And it was really getting to you that you had to sort every single bean, every single bean.

Suddenly your teacher said to you: “Think this way: You are sorting this particular bean for your teacher, for the coffee your teacher will drink from this bean.” And so on. And this one, for example, is for the friends.

Tell me, at that moment, does this give a person strength? You essentially regarded your teacher almost like a father. Does that give a person strength?

Answer: To be honest, I don’t think I understood it fully at that moment. But in general, of course, it is a great example.

Question: Did your teacher Rabash, live this way?

Answer: He lived this way. I remember when he told me this, I realized that I was completely missing the point.

Question: So when a person finally understands that he is “not missing the point,” does that mean he has come out onto some kind of straight line, onto the path?

Answer: Yes. It is good for a person to reach this state.
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From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman,” 8/19/26

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“Human Walker” Wanted

737.01In the News (“Loneliness will be the next great money spinner,” The Guardian):

 

“Isolation among young people is increasing, spawning a new industry in companionship. Soon paying for walks, dinners and dates will feel normal

“Chuck McCarthy, we heard last week, is an LA man who charges a per-mile rate to walk and talk with customers. Billed as a novel form of social interaction, his business is expanding – he now has five assistant walkers – and the service he offers is part of an emerging trend. Like others in what might be called the companionship industry, McCarthy is packaging up social connection into something we can buy.”

My Response: Indeed, even young people are becoming lonely, not to mention the elderly.

Once, we went to the cinema and to theaters. We went out into the street, and children grew up in the courtyard. Everything was completely different. We communicated with each other. I remember how I would jump out of bed in the morning and run outside to see my friends.

Today none of this exists, and it never will again. There are no courtyards; even in sandboxes, children play alone.

Question: So will there be an increasing demand for people-walkers?

Answer: I think that the “walker” will be needed by twenty-year-olds and thirty-year-olds, not by pensioners.

We are all becoming disabled by loneliness and will have a great need for human connection. Eventually, we will reach a state where we are forced to engage in direct face-to-face interaction because electronic contact cannot replace normal human emotional connection. And that is when we will finally have something to say to people.

Question: Do you think things will come full circle and physical interaction will return?

Answer: It will return, but not at same level. Now, it will be up to Kabbalists to “walk” people, to organize them into large circles.

This is the profession of the future: gathering large numbers of people in big halls, and working with them. Together they dance, sing, and discuss the nature of the world is and what they can learn and comprehend in their unity.

The most important thing is unity. This is precisely what people lack. But when one person walks another, it is all irrational and will quickly pass.

Such temporary fulfillment immediately disappears and leaves a void because people remain without the support of the next generation.

In general, everyone needs communication. That is our current program we are developing. It is intended for training specialists in communication; I would even say in unifying people.

This will be the most important profession—an instructor for uniting people into the system of “Adam”—because everything else will be done by machines. And this is what must be done by people.
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From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman,” 11/27/24

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The Spiritual Chip and the Corporeal Chip

219.03We see that nature is preparing traps for us that we will inevitably have to change, whether we want to or not. Moreover, we will have to change ourselves! Or at very least we will be compelled to recognize how we need to change, even if we might ultimately fail to do so.

Question: Can we reach what you call a “spiritual chip”? Is that what we are being led toward?

Answer: The spiritual chip is about unity. Nothing else. It is just like a chip operates—zero and one. That is all.

Question: Does the chip also work through this, through connection?

Answer: Only through that. Through the connection of duality, meaning through opposites.

Question: Is the spiritual chip the same thing? The connection of opposites?

Answer: Yes, above both opposing phenomena.

Comment: So one way or another the conclusion is still the same. We are being led toward this.

My Response: We are being led in such a way that we will simply lie down and agree to be “chipped,” that is, to be connected with one another in such a way that something intelligent is formed.

Just as chips are the center, the brain, and heart of a device, so too will we be ready for this.

Question: So is our unity also the brain and center of the device?

Answer: Yes.

Question: Of the entire universe?

Answer: Of everything!
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From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman,” 7/20/26

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The Harm We Cause Always Returns

623Question: Is there really a law of the boomerang?

Answer: In general, everything good and everything bad that we do comes back to all of us and, of course, our loved ones. And somehow, we must still track these things. Perhaps we should try to draw some conclusions for the future.

Question: So is there such a simple formula, that the evil one does returns to a person in one form or another? Does this law exist?

Answer: It does. That is, one must constantly choose very carefully what one does, what one engages in, and toward what one is heading.

Question: What about my bad thoughts concerning others?

Answer: The same applies to that.

Question: Will they come back to me?

Answer: They definitely return.

Comment: If only a person could feel this, perhaps they would be more cautious.

My Response: For this, one must constantly restrain themself. Every person must restrain themself and control their thoughts, desires, and intentions in general.

Question: Is it right to restrain oneself? That is, to say to oneself: “This is a bad deed; I will not go there.” Is that how it should be?

Answer: Yes, even in one’s thoughts.

Question: Even in one’s thoughts? But this is very difficult.

Answer: In our terminology, this is called intention.

Comment: But I don’t have control over my thoughts. We have spoken about this before.

My Response: It does not matter. You are not free in what is sent to you. But what you do with it afterward—that is where your choice lies.
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From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman,” 7/28/26

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When you Rejoice in Life

293.1Question: What if I keep advancing, I reach a certain spiritual degree, and suddenly it disappears completely?

Answer: Then I begin everything anew. That is wonderful! In fact, that is the most correct way.

Question: But at that moment I feel despair.

Answer: No. Why despair?

Comment: How could I not? I have come such a long way. I have devoted so many years to it.

My Response: So what? I am like someone who has just been born. Doesn’t a child open its eyes even wider?

Comment: That is true. You often remind us of a child in that way. Sometimes something suddenly amazes you. You still have that quality.

My Response: I do not feel tired. Of course, I may look tired because of my age and the passing years. But…

Question: You do not?

Answer: No. Every day, every lesson, every morning, I am ready to begin everything anew.

Question: To be born again?

Answer: Yes.

Question: When does a person begin to feel tired? Since we have touched on the subject.

Answer: When he no longer has the excitement of new desires and new questions. Then, of course, he can no longer reveal the child within him. Then he has already become an old man.

Question: Is that already movement toward death?

Answer: Yes.

Comment: So, when you speak about eternal life, you mean these constant…

My Response: Constant renewal.

Question: When is such constant renewal possible? Under what conditions?

Answer: Always. It does not depend on the body. It is the desire, and desire does not depend on the body.

Question: So should we always begin again? Constantly renew ourselves?

Answer: Yes, and it is wonderful!

Question: And what would you say to an ordinary person who does not study Kabbalah?

Answer: Nothing. Find yourself a hobby and keep at it.

Question: And keep rejoicing in new discoveries?

Answer: Yes. Just as my teacher used to say about a stadium, that it is a place that should be respected because it brings enjoyment to so many people.

Comment: That is amazing! I was always surprised that a religious man would say that. Religious people did not go to stadiums.

My Response: It is not that he did not go there, he had never been there even once.

Comment: Yet he still respected the place.

My Response: He had never seen it, but he knew that it was a game watched by one or even two hundred thousand people at the same time.

Question: So he felt that they had become like children again?

Answer: Yes, of course. They rejoice in life. And joy comes from the Creator. Therefore, he rejoiced for them because they were receiving pleasure from the Creator. At that moment, they were not cursing Him.

Comment: Then there is no suffering.

My Response: That is why such a place should be respected.
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From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman,” 7/17/26

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What Should Sports’ Medals Be Awarded For?

737.01Question: What has sport turned into?

Answer: Sport has turned into a hunt for prey! You step out as if into a jungle to hunt down a medal.

Question: You have to defeat everyone else. But what should it be instead?

Answer: People should strive for achievements that they attain together. Suppose, in a certain stadium, in a particular sport, under certain conditions, they achieve the highest possible result. That result belongs to everyone.

In general, I am against awards.

Question: Then what should a person strive for? What does you get out of it?

Answer: That is exactly your answer: “If there is no award, then what should I do?” It means you do not love sport; you love the medal.

Comment: Yes, the medal, or the admiration, the applause, that is what people want.

My Response: No, you can wear some kind of badge of distinction. You and everyone else. But I would not rank people by place. It’s about participation!

Question: Just participation? Do you think people would still take part?

Answer: If they truly love sport, then yes.

Question: What about when an athlete helps another athlete? For example, a runner gets tangled up, and another competitor helps him. Where would you place that on the podium? What place would you give it?

Answer: That is the most important thing! That deserves the medal.

Question: What should be the fundamental principle of sports?

Answer: Friendship and mutual help! To show all of us, and ourselves as well, what kind of potential is hidden within us. That is all.

Comment: But in soccer, one team plays against another. Where is the friendship in that? We have to win. We have to score in the other team’s net.

My Response: They should enjoy that. It all depends on one’s upbringing.

Comment: I enjoy scoring a goal. I enjoy seeing my team win.

My Response: And the others should enjoy it as well. It depends on the beauty of the game.

Let soccer be an art form: the way they keep the ball in the air, how beautifully they pass it. Rather than shoving and tripping each other.

Question: How should the spectators perceive it? After all, I am a fan of one club. How should I look at all this?

Answer: So what? You will support your club. You will feel the sting of defeat or the joy of victory. So what?

Question: But if the other team wins, what should I, as a spectator, do?

Answer: Then you will experience those emotions. That is what sports are for.

Question: What about combat sports? When it isn’t a team competition, like wrestlers or boxers, what should the mindset be there?

Answer: There, it is even simpler. It is all right there to be seen. You are fighting, and he is fighting.

Question: What should our intention be? What should we want?

Answer: To show beauty.

Question: Then what is beauty, in your opinion? What is the beauty they should demonstrate?

Answer: They need to find a way to demonstrate a benevolent kind of strength.

Question: Benevolent strength is still a force. How can it be benevolent?

Answer: Yes, there is benevolent strength and malevolent strength. The benevolent kind is when we demonstrate our good attitude toward one another. like the idea, “friendship wins.”

Question: So you really believe in that simple, childish slogan?

Answer: Without it, nothing good will come out of a sport. There will be drugs, doping, and corruption, people will do anything. Heaven knows what already exists in sports.

Question: If we do not put “friendship wins” at the center?

Answer: Exactly.

Question: I reminded of my early childhood, when I used to be told, “Friendship wins.” They would comfort me when I was a five or six-year-old by raising both my hand and the other child’s hand. Do you think that should apply to professional sports as well?

Answer: Yes. From a spectator’s perspective, I wouldn’t want sports presented in any other way, unless they demonstrated kindness and brought people closer together. The competition between them should demonstrate their struggle against their egoism.

Comment: That is beautiful! In other words, so they realize that they are egoists…

My Response: They demonstrate the struggle against their egoism.
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From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman,” 7/10/26

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When You Pass Through the Gates of Tears

625.07Question: What if you suddenly realize that you were mistaken? And you have already put all your cards into this one thing. You found what seemed to be your life’s work, and suddenly it turns out that you were wrong.

Answer: Then you must invest yourself beyond all limits into that one and only thing that remains for you, in which you now feel and discover that you were mistaken, that it is not the main thing and besides it, nothing else remains. Otherwise, you will be lost.

Question: You just said something that is not simple. You said: “You already understand, you now feel that this is a mistake, and yet invest yourself in it completely.” Above reason?

Answer: Of course. But that is only if you are certain that you have nothing else left, that you have given this matter everything, your whole life.

Question: And what will happen then? Here I am, walking into this black hole.

Answer: Then the Creator will help you. Then He must help you. In principle, this is exactly how it happens in Kabbalah.

Comment: There are all kinds of states.

My Response: There are many states, but in the end, we all arrive at just one.

Question: So that the Creator will help?

Answer: In a state of absolute disappointment in yourself, in the Creator, in the matter itself, in the goal—in everything!

Comment: After having invested your whole life into it.

My Response: Yes, and when you reach such disappointment, then you can let go of everything, and you will see success.

Question: Kabbalists write that when you have passed through all the gates, only one gate remains: the “Gate of Tears.” Is this what you are referring to?

Answer: This is beyond tears.

Question: You have already passed the “Gate of Tears”? So, your advice is to keep striking at that point until the very end?

Answer: If you can still keep striking and striking, then these are not yet the final gates.

Question: So this disappointment must be there? It must?

Answer: Absolutely! Because it goes against human nature itself, against the way the Creator created us. Therefore, it must be absolute disappointment.

Question: Where is the upper mercy in all of this?

Answer: It is beyond this. When the Creator leads a person through all these trials, then beyond them, the person reveals the Creator’s upper mercy.

Comment: One would have to be a very strong person.

My Response: No. I think no one is strong. Everyone is very weak. The Creator will do everything.
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From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman,” 7/1/26

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How Do We Get Into a Spiritual Disneyland?

760.1Comment: You say that everyone has their own path.

My Response: Of course!

Question: What does it depend on?

Answer: Within the global nature of humanity, we are so different so that, precisely through our future connection, we will create one universal structure called “Man” (Adam).

Question: Will everyone have their own place?

Answer: Yes.

Question: Every nation?

Answer: Of course! I may be spinning at tremendous speed, others spin more slowly, and still others even more slowly, it is just like in our body there are systems that operate with tremendous speed and intensity, while others function much more slowly. You can compare the fingernails and toenails. Fingernails grow about a millimeter a week, while the toenails grow about a millimeter a month. Each has its own rate, even though it is seemingly the same tissue.

Comment: Yet it is one organism.

My Response: Yes.

Question: You mentioned the goal. Is the goal the same for everyone or not?

Answer: The goal is the same for everyone. But who actually knows what it is? If we knew that we all have one goal, we would agree with one another. We would begin searching together for how to attain that goal.

But instead, we feel that everyone has their own. Egoism tears us apart and does not allow us to feel that we all must move together toward one goal.

Question: Can we nevertheless come to this? Will we be brought toward this one goal or not?

Answer: I think it must become clarified from within.

Question: What is that goal?

Answer: The goal is very simple: to attain the meaning of life.

Question: And what is it?

Answer: The meaning of life? It is to attain its meaning.

Questions: So the question arises, and I must?

Answer: When I attain the meaning of life, I feel absolutely fulfilled! I know why I exist. I know who governs me, to whom I turn, what I am carrying out at every moment of my existence, and where I am going. Ever new horizons open before me. I feel like a child who has entered Disneyland. And all of it is incredible! All of it is a fairy tale! This is how a person should feel when revealing the Creator’s plan.

Question: Does everyone have their own meaning of life, or not?

Answer: Everyone will enjoy it individually, because that is how we are made. But each will enjoy it from the fact that they are constantly connecting with others. The revelation of this spiritual “Disneyland” comes from the fact that we reveal the integral connections between us more and more. And they will be revealed precisely as the attainment of the upper world. It is a serious adventure.

Question: So now you have come to the conclusion that the goal of a person is to attain the upper world?

Answer: Yes.

Question: Is that the goal of a person?

Answer: Yes.

Question: And what is the upper world? We are speaking to people who do not study Kabbalah. Simply put, what does it mean to attain the upper world?

Answer: It is to attain the harmony of the interaction of all the completely different forces of nature. And to feel that harmony when you see how all problems, actions, thoughts, aspirations—everything, throughout all times—join together, and all of it turns out to be harmoniously interconnected, so necessary for one another, that the revelation of this harmony is the revelation of the thought of Creation, the Creator’s plan.

Question: And you constantly speak about revealing harmonious relationships between people. Is that included in this?

Answer: Of course! Naturally. That is the highest degree of all this harmony.

Question: The highest degree? That we are all harmoniously connected?

Answer: Yes.

Question: And this is the purpose of a person’s life—to discover this harmony?

Answer: Yes.
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From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman,” 7/8/26

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Learn to Use Fear

599.02Fear is a very good emotion that protects us; otherwise, we would be madmen. We simply need to learn how to use it correctly. Then instead of fearing it, we will bless it.

Question: What is the purpose of fear? Why does it arise?

Answer: The purpose of fear is to guide us correctly to the true path of development, to find the upper force of bestowal, love, and connection in our relationships with each other. Then there will be nothing to fear.

Question: Does this apply to anyone, to any ordinary person?

Answer: Today this applies to ordinary people as well. We see this by the state of the world we live in.

Comment: A state of fear.

My Response: The whole world is in a state of fear. Only someone who has no idea where they are could claim with bravado that they are not afraid of anything. That kind of attitude doesn’t show much wisdom. That is why we should actually bless fear; it guides us correctly toward the right goal.

Question: Toward one another then?

Answer: Yes, we need to understand that fear is given to us for a reason. It is a very positive quality.
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From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman,” 7/9/26

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