Worldly Question

Laitman_115Question: How does Kabbalah help in building relationships within the family? Since I have a large female audience, they are interested in how to find a partner and create a family with him?

Answer: Although this is a worldly question that is close to each of us, it is very complex. After all, we are just beginning to touch on the changes that we must go through in our existence from one cycle of life to the other.

Therefore, such questions can be asked, of course, but the answer to them is both complex and simple. Simple in the fact that no one will tell you anything about it because no one knows the answer. Only you can reveal your inner information, which you must implement either in a good way or in an evil way.

Precisely in how to realize yourself is the freedom of choice and the only opportunity for a person to apply himself correctly in his life.

As for choosing a partner, this already comes from the fact that you know exactly or at least more or less imagine who you are in your information core, the so-called Reshimo (the inner record of your soul, its future state) and whether you can realize yourself quickly, well, comfortably, correctly with this partner. This is not easy because it depends on the vision of his and your fate as something compatible.
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From KabTV’s “Together about Important Things” 7/14/20

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Blitz Of Kabbalah Tips – 5/10/20, Part 3

laitman_565.02Question: What is the group?

Answer: The group is the boat that takes you on a journey across the sea of life.

Question: Should we always forgive the egoists? Maybe this forgiveness can be a signal for them to stop?

Answer: There is no need to forgive anyone. It will lead to nothing. We need to educate ourselves and set an example for others on how to become better.

Question: How can we get out of our own egoism, out of our comfort zone? What is supposed to push me?

Answer: Try to find an environment that will push and disturb you all the time. Looking at it, you will feel that you are lagging behind others.

Question: Has the Creator given everyone an individual portion of egoism that one must correct?

Answer: Yes, of course. Everyone has their own individual egoism. In addition, we are required to correct it by connecting with all the other egoists.

Question: What is the final result of development?

Answer: To connect everyone by ties of love and for everyone to be absolutely comfortable.

Question: What can we give to our neighbor?

Answer: Nothing except to help him get in contact with the Creator. Only this!

Question: How did you realize that you stopped being an egoist?

Answer: I did not stop. There is still a lot of egoism in me that needs to be corrected. I am not yet a complete righteous nor a complete sinner, but somewhere in the middle.

Question: What should I do with the sense of guilt?

Answer: Stop eating yourself up because it’s not your fault. Only the Creator, who created the egoism, is to blame. And if we use it correctly, we will be very grateful to Him for it.
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From KabTV’s “Fundamentals of Kabbalah” 5/10/20

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That Is How We Were Created

75.01Rabash, Article 10, “What Is the Degree One Should Achieve in Order Not to Have to Reincarnate?” (1984): The thing is that we have to know that all of the souls extend from the soul of Adam HaRishon, for after he sinned in the sin of the Tree of Knowledge, his soul divided into 600,000 souls. This means that the one light that Adam HaRishon had, which the Holy Zohar called Zihara Ila’a [upper brightness], which he had in the Garden of Eden at once, spreads into numerous pieces.

There is a state called “one general soul” or Adam. This is a desire to receive, to enjoy, to fill one’s self, to be filled with Light.

In such a state this creature feels itself in the most minimal way because it has been filled quite a bit, like a baby who has been fed, had his diaper changed, lies in his mother’s arms, can smell her, and needs nothing else, he feels good.

The Creator does not wish to leave us in this state. He wants us to attain His state, which is the most mature state, and so He shattered this desire into 600,000 parts (souls), which are divided into an infinite number of sparks of the soul.

Each part differs from the others by its egoistic desire, which does not allow him to perceive the desires of others. There is a huge antagonism between them.

There is a particle of the general soul in each of us. Therefore, we don’t understand each other and cannot connect between us in any way. We can only feel that we depend on each other and that this dependence forces us to put up with each other. As long as I receive a filling in an egoistic manner, some benefit from others, I tolerate them next to me. If there is nothing I can gain from others, then I actually suffer from their presence and try to break away from them. That is how we were created.
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From KabTV’s “Fundamentals of Kabbalah” 9/16/18

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My Thoughts On Twitter 8/3/20

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We need to reach a state when we understand what and why mother nature, the Creator, requires of us, and to want to fulfill its demands with our consent, freewill, and personal drive, listening to it and obeying it joyfully!

There is no other evil besides egoism. If we protect each other from transmitting evil, the virus would disappear. The Creator wants us to have an intention to bestow, or to not harm the others. We will realize the spiritual manifestation of this law within us and advance toward understanding the Creator.

In the virus we see the work of the upper force, besides which there is nothing. What can be done to combat it, where can I find a cure for such a virus? But we don’t need a cure for the virus! We need to find a cure for our egoism, then we won’t feel any viruses.

I must condition myself to be responsible for others, and they are responsible for me, my family, and all of humanity. The coronavirus is teaching us mutual guarantee from afar. We already see a connected, unified world where everyone affects all others as they affect him.

From revealing the slightest influence of the Creator, we found ourselves in a new world within 4 – 5 months. We resist and disagree with this world, unwilling to embrace it. But we are entering a new reality. The old life will not return, we will have to live a new life and the restrictions will only exacerbate.

It is simply the mercy of the Creator to bring order with such methods. The virus has already forced us to close businesses that bring no benefit, and pollute the globe. We stop doing stupid and unnecessary things. All systems built for showing off before each other are collapsing.

See what the Creator is doing! We thought that a person could get new understanding and feelings only through blows such as world war, natural disasters, volcanic explosions, hurricanes or tsunamis. But this was not necessary. Quietly, the #virus appears and does all the work.

Media: #Israel has exceeded the US in the rate of #Covid cases per population. I’ve written before that since the world’s correction depends on the #Jews, they will feel nature’s pressure driving us toward correction. Therefore, over time, COVID will hit us the hardest.
From Twitter, 8/3/20

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Team Building Guide, Part 9

Laitman_524.01Principles of Forming a Team: Responsibility for Thoughts and Actions

Question: Eighth rule: you must be responsible for every word you say in the team and remember that our thoughts and actions affect the entire group.

In other words, frivolity harms most of all. It kills all attempts to build the correct connections and interferes with the team spirit.

How can a person control their thoughts?

Answer: Through preparation. Not at the time when thoughts are already appearing in you but in all previous states that determine these thoughts.

Question: There will still be conflicts and disruptions at the initial stages. What can we do if this happens? What types of punishment can we use?

Answer: None. In nothing and in no way. We just need to encourage people to behave differently.

Question: Let’s say that a person has somehow shown frivolity and criticism toward another. The other person was offended. What to do? The team is destroyed, they do not talk to each other.

Answer: On the contrary, we need to sit in a circle and discuss this problem. Resolve it in such a way that it only strengthens the connections between them. We must look at all such excesses as necessary ones during the building of a team.
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From KabTV’s “Management Skills” 6/18/20

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The Evil Eye Is The Power Of Thought

laitman_235Question: What is the evil eye? What is the mechanism of its influence? How does one counteract it?

Answer: The evil eye is the power of thought. Each of us has internal forces, and when we think badly about someone, as a result, a lot of bad thoughts about him have their effect on him. This is the impact of one person on another or even the whole society.

There are people who can look at someone and let’s say their temperature rises. I have seen such phenomena many times.

We influence each other because we are all in the same system, in the same desire. All of humanity is considered one. Therefore, our impact on one another is not so improbable. Being in the unified system already indicates the possibility of such influence.

Question: So it’s not something supernatural?

Answer: No, it’s just that people don’t have such special abilities right now. Once they were more pronounced, but people did not use them.

Question: Can you develop them within yourself?

Answer: Sure. But for this you need to go into reconnaissance, into certain circles. 🙂

Question: Can you resist the evil eye?

Answer: That is also taught there.
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From KabTV’s “The Post-Coronavirus Era” 5/7/20

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What Is True Unity?

laitman_943Question: What is true unity?

Answer: By true unity we create a force that is external to us. If I connect with you, a common force that does not exist in each of us appears between us.

It is actually thanks to the fact that each of us is an egoist that when we each reject our egoism, it enters the space between us and there a common force is created out of our egoistic forces, and we concentrate in it and reveal the Creator.

This is an internal action.
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From KabTV’s “Fundamentals of Kabbalah” 8/19/18

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How Can We Prolong Life?

laitman_560Question: In an experiment, homes for the elderly were connected to orphanages and researchers noted that the daily functioning of the elderly improved with the presence of children and the fear, insecurity, indifference, and restraint formerly observed in the children disappeared and they became like ordinary children, noisy and restless. How can we explain this?

Answer: This happened because the two parties lacked these things. The elderly lacked young restless kids, and the children lacked what kind adults can give them. This is the best way that life complements itself.

The orphans acquire an accurate and clear sense of security and kindness toward the world and toward life. The elderly people soften the feeling of the world in many aspects.

Even if they don’t have a special connection, the transmission of energy, the external connection, and even the insight that such a phenomenon exists, create a totally different picture and atmosphere.

In fact, according to nature we are built to live with three generations together—kids, parents, and grandparents. Two generations are not enough.

A child needs to see that just as his parents created him and his parents were created by their parents. Thus, he sees continuity, a flow, evolution. He sees how his parents relate to their parents, and this is a model for him as to how he should treat his parents.

He has to learn a lot from his grandparents because we know that “Israel, Saba (grandfather), and wisdom” are a whole system in our spiritual connection, and it is thus very important. Here, when we speak about orphans, the outcome should be incredible.
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From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman” 11/27/18

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