Answer: In order to do this, we must first connect with others, with their desires and needs, internalize these desires and needs, absorbing them into ourselves as our own.
Only afterward can we appeal to the Creator in order to fill them.
And then through myself, through my newly-acquired alien desires, which have now become mine, I already fulfill them. This is how it works.
From the Kabbalah Lesson in Russian 10/02/2019