Answer: To bestow to others means to bestow to the group, all of whom together aspire to adhere to the Creator, think solely about that, and understand that it can be achieved only by mutually connecting without any difference between us.
However, in that case, it wouldn’t be the others any longer, but as if it were me, myself, adhered to the Creator. Still, I must first learn to bestow to the others based on what is written, “From the love of man to the love of the Creator,” since otherwise I will err, for my ego will confuse and deceive me.
Bestowal to the others is bestowal to the group in order to reach the common goal, which is to bestow to the Creator. You bestow all of your desire to the friends, thereby turning it into the place where the Light can be revealed. You are passing it to them!
If you are doing it with absolute devotion, in this part of your devotion transferred to them, they can reveal the Creator. And when everyone does the same and we reach the might of “600,000” souls, spiritual revelation will occur.
All of us together must think about how to create this common desire of the entire world Kli, to unify it so that it becomes fit to unveil this first portion of Light. Then, adhesion (Zivug) between all desires and the Light will occur. This will happen for the first time in history! In truth, everything that had taken place in the previous generations was a mere preparation for this.
From the 4th part of the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 12/9/10, Writings of Baal HaSulam