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What Is a Lie and a Truth?

207Question: What is a lie?

Answer: A lie is a quality opposite to the Creator, its reverse side.

In order to determine His qualities, we need to plunge into the qualities that are the opposite of Him in everything. Therefore, the Creator created darkness so that from feeling it we would come to understand what light is. Otherwise, we would not understand it because we cannot see anything in one solid white light.

Since we, as created beings, must feel the qualities of the Creator, we need to consist of two opposite sensations: darkness and light. On their contrast and various transitions, we build images of ourselves and the Creator and thus reveal Him.

Question: Does it mean that if we talk about the truth, then the Creator is the truth?

Answer: Yes, because we need to measure relative to something. If I measure relative to my egoism, that is one thing. But if I by myself (since I am constantly changing) want to take some more objective measure of reference, then I try to find the Creator to measure relative to Him.

After all, if He controls everything and dominates everything, then no matter whether I think about Him well or badly, I have to take Him as a starting point.
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From KabTV’s “I Got a Call. What Is a Lie and a Truth?” 3/12/11

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The Pain of a Kabbalist

294.4Question: As a Kabbalist, you feel the world differently than an ordinary person. Do you feel the general pain when something happens to the world?

Answer: And what do I do every day? Telling everyone and everywhere how to come to a better life not in a tragic way but gently, smoothly, quickly, and comfortably.

I feel the pain that all of humanity may experience.

Question: But not the current one?

Answer: The current suffering is not pain compared to what may happen. It is so small that it is not even worth talking about it.

Of course it is suffering. Of course it is a great torment. You look at the screen and see skeletal children without food, without drink, without medication, dying from infectious diseases. You see drug addicts and depressed people. And is it better for the rest? Look at what they are messing around with, what are they doing in general?

But compared to what may happen during this period when correction is realized not in a good way, but in an evil way… Can you imagine how much humanity needs to be beaten in order for it to correct itself, to turn it into awareness, from awareness to consent, and from consent to realization?

But here, it is right away—take it and implement it. Easy. After all, if the majority is together, then everything is easy.
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From KabTV’s “I Got a Call. What is the Pain of a Kabbalist?”

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“What does it mean to unite ‘as one man with one heart’?” (Quora)

Dr. Michael LaitmanMichael Laitman, On Quora: What does it mean to unite ‘as one man with one heart’?

“One heart” means that we are in a single desire to begin with.

This desire shattered and organized us into billions of people who are separate and distant from one another. In other words, in our current state, we have many hearts, or many desires.

Then, by correcting ourselves, i.e., by bringing ourselves closer together in a common intention to love, bestow and connect like the force of love, bestowal and connection that Kabbalists call “the Creator,” we come to perceive a different picture of reality: that there are not “many people,” but rather “one man.”

To the extent in which we bring ourselves closer to the Creator, adhering ourselves to the force of love, bestowal and connection, we come to perceive a single form of bestowal.

We then observe the state of unity “as one man with one heart,” in adhesion with the Creator.

Based on the Daily Kabbalah Lesson with Kabbalist Dr. Michael Laitman on May 16, 2023 on the topic of Shavuot, “As One Man with One Heart.” Written/edited by students of Kabbalist Dr. Michael Laitman.

What Is Envy?

579Question: What is envy?

Answer: Envy is when you feel the other above yourself. When you depend on him, you envy him.

We look at everything from the point of view of Kabbalah where everything is measured in measures: Sefirot, degrees, Partzufim, and we proceed only from that. There is a small desire and a big one, one relative to the other. There is love, the conjugate state; hatred, the opposite state, and so on. Everything is very simple. In our world, however, everything is confusing.

The quality of envy is given to us in order to envy others and ascend through it. That is, envy is a very good quality. It must not be destroyed in any case! You have to envy good, great people, and then you will grow up too.

Everything that is in us comes from the Creator, so there is nothing wrong. Our most terrible qualities can be extrapolated and applied correctly.
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From KabTV’s “I Got a Call. What is Envy?” 3/13/11

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What Is an Enemy?

235Question: What is an enemy?

Answer: An enemy is any desire of mine that is directed not to the realization of my personality.

Comment: But there is always some kind of personalized enemy.

My Response: No, it only seems to us that the enemy is external. But all of it is in fact inside of us. We produce our external enemies, these “dolls” that hinder us from within with our personal faults.

All these “dolls” do not have freewill. I must stick to the fact that they are all my inner forces that are projected in my imagination outside of me.

If we were corrected, we would see the world the same way.
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From KabTV’s “I Got a Call. What is an Enemy?” 3/5/11

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“What did Einstein really do that was so great that helped humanity?” (Quora)

Dr. Michael LaitmanMichael Laitman, On Quora: What did Einstein really do that was so great that helped humanity?

Einstein did nothing to benefit us.

Moreover, he helped build the atom bomb, and told us that there are properties in our world that we cannot understand.

It would have been better if he and the other nuclear physicists had done nothing. We can get along fine without nuclear power, and of course, without atom bombs. For all the praise Einstein receives, we have no need for what he brought us.

In general, I think that science of the 20th century brought no benefit to humanity. I do not want to deny its achievements, because science did quite a lot. The problem is that our scientific innovations and achievements have turned against us.

Indeed, we do not work as hard as we did in the past. We have made for ourselves all sorts of appliances and tools that grant us more free time. But what do we do with our increased free time? We bring ourselves more and more troubles and concerns, and we increasingly deplete the earth of its natural resources.

I do not see happier people as a result of our scientific progress. People used to engage in much more emotionally and mentally constructive activities. We used to spend more time listening to large works of music, attending theaters and reading thick novels and other literature. Today, people’s attention spans have drastically dropped, and we find ourselves more with our heads down, thumbing our phones, mindlessly scrolling down our social media feeds.

We have much more depression, loneliness, anxiety, stress, drug abuse and suicides than ever before. There might be an illusion that we became happier by not having to work as hard as we did in the past, but we see that less work and more luxury time does not equate to more happiness.

Although Einstein was sincere in his pursuits to create a better world, I see that he and many like him did not crack what it takes to make us happier people.

I say all this despite the fact that I like and encourage science. The problem with science is not science in and of itself, but its blending with human egoism, where we wish to use science for the purposes of overpowering, outcompeting, manipulating and exploiting others. This egoistic quality in man turned Einstein’s discoveries into the creation of an atom bomb. Therefore, the message here is not to do away with science, but that we should develop science after we correct the human ego. We first need to correct ourselves, i.e., to learn how to invert our inborn intention to benefit ourselves at the expense of others and nature, otherwise we will use science and any kind of innovation we make eventually to our detriment.

If it were possible, I would willingly go back to Einstein’s time and instead of developing science, I would introduce connection-enriching education that guides us on how to correct the human ego. Only after we develop frameworks for positively relating to one another above our inborn desires to exploit and abuse others, we should then let science develop.

Science would then benefit humanity. As a result of connection-enriching education, we would come to feel humanity like our family. Our research would then never lead to the creation of weapons and the atom bomb that we use to bring mass destruction and anxiety to humankind. We would only seek how to make creations that would make people happier, more confident and safer by increasing our positive connection to each other above our harmful egoistic drives.

Based on the video “Conversations with Michael Laitman” with Kabbalist Dr. Michael Laitman on May 13, 2015. Written/edited by students of Kabbalist Dr. Michael Laitman.
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The Role of the Creator

610.2Question: Everything in the universe has a certain role. What is the role of the force called the Creator?

Answer: The role of the Creator is unequivocal; it is to constantly educate the creation created by Him so that it comes to perfection.

The upper force is everything. It includes the force of desire, will, knowledge, and decision. Everything that exists in nature at all is just the single upper force.

The desire to enjoy is created within it. This single, great force of the field works on the point of the desire that develops under its influence and becomes equal to the force of the field. The desire as if swells to the size of the field, then bursts, collapses into many parts, and then begins to work on itself in order to gather together.

Gradually, it gathers into that single new whole that fits into the same field. The Creator and the creation like two flatbreads stick together and penetrate each other by diffusion.

Although they are different in their original nature, they have come to a state where they are absolutely similar to each other in the quality that now comes from them—the quality of bestowal and love. For the Creator it is primary, for the creation it is secondary, acquired.
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From KabTV’s “I Got a Call. What is the Creator?” 2/21/11

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The Birth of the next Degree

963.1Question: How can you explain the birth of the next degree?

Answer: The birth of the next degree is a continuation of the relationship between the male and female parts on the next level. Moreover, this level is usually higher.

A child is born from a man and a woman. But his basis is the next state.

The spiritual man and woman or a man and woman in our world are just the external reason that a child is born. Suppose a child is to be born, so a couple appears who have a craving for each other, they unite and conceive him because a certain number of souls in their bodily expression must be born in our world.

They themselves do not know why they suddenly start flirting with each other, start some kind of relationship. A desire is aroused in them when it is necessary to give birth to someone from within, from nature itself. Are we doing something on our own? Although it seems to us that these are our personal desires, they in fact come from the need to develop a common system.

We are inside this field like peas. What needs to be realized is aroused in us, and we involuntarily realize it, and we can realize not involuntarily, but based on our attainment. Kabbalah leads to this.
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From KabTV’s “I Got a Call. What is a Man and a Woman?” 2/21/11

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What Is a Family?

507.03Question: What is a family?

Answer: A family is a few related souls who appear to be closer to me than anyone else.

The role of the family is similar in its form to close cells in the body. It is mutual involvement, overcoming obstacles to help each other, and so on. There is nothing else, and as a rule it is not on the spiritual, but on the animal level of help and destruction.

On the spiritual level, only the group operates—friends who are similar to me in striving for the goal.
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From KabTV’s “I Got a Call. What is a Family?” 2/21/11

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“What makes you criticize others?” (Quora)

Dr. Michael LaitmanMichael Laitman, On Quora: What makes you criticize others?

We criticize others as a result of our egoism, which makes us want to enjoy at the expense of others, and which thus makes us enjoy viewing others as smaller and lesser than ourselves.

If we make no changes to our inborn egoism, then we live in this inclination to criticize others. However, if we strive to connect with others, we then start criticizing ourselves, because the egoistic inclination within us is the opposite of the inclination to connect with others.

If we wish to progress to a higher spiritual goal than our earthly corporeal ones, i.e., to a goal of enjoying through a new nature of giving, loving and connecting with others, then once we set that goal and place ourselves among the means to achieve it, we can criticize anything that counters the direction to that goal.

Based on KabTV’s “I Got a Call. What Is Criticism?” with Kabbalist Dr. Michael Laitman on February 21, 2011. Written/edited by students of Kabbalist Dr. Michael Laitman.