Answer: The fact that you are completely dependent on the vast, universal, eternal desire created by the Creator makes you eternal, perfect, and independent. You cannot get rid of the fact that you are a created being. Therefore, acknowledging you are a created being gives you the opportunity to reach the level of the Creator, to achieve adhesion and equivalence with Him.
Question: Still, how can an ordinary person become independent of others?
Answer: Start loving them. Then you will see that your love for them makes you higher than and independent of them, although you think about them and wish them well. This is the only way.
You cannot get out of the integral system. The only thing you can do is to ascend inside it. And to ascend means to take care of it.
From KabTV’s “Fundamentals of Kabbalah,” 4/19/20