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Posted on September 4th, 2024
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When a person is rewarded with a temporary illumination of Kedusha [holiness], it is considered that he has entered the Temple.
The ruin of the Temple is when the illumination is taken away from him. (Rabash, Assorted Notes, 566, “Cast Their Seed Among the Nations”).
Correctly using the glow of holiness means thinking only about the correction of the common Kli, the common soul, which is called Beit HaMikdash (Temple).
This is not a building that can be built in Jerusalem, but our common soul, which we create from all individual souls through unification, and inside it, in every heart, we prepare a place for the Creator.
You can sustain the glow with the help of prayer for correction, for merging of the hearts. We must unite all our individual desires into one desire, and the Creator will fill it.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 8/13/24, Writings of Rabash “Cast Their Seed Among the Nations”
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Question: What role do children play in the relationship between spouses?
Answer: Children should see that everything is fine in your family, that you understand each other, and live in harmony.
Question: We often have different views on how to raise children. But you say that our life together serves as an example for the children.
Answer: Of course. For example, if you are at home and your wife is at work, the children should see that you clean the house, wash the dishes, or do something else before she comes home.
In other words, each person should understand that they can do something nice for their spouse without being prompted or reminded.
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From KabTV’s “Man and Women” 7/30/24
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Question: According to The Zohar, I must constantly strive to earn my wife’s favor. On the other hand, it says that the husband (baal) is the master (another meaning of “baal“). So in what sense is he the master? This is a very interesting system.
Answer: This system dates back to ancient times, has gone through all stages of human development, and still, our nature somehow breaks through.
Question: Help me understand from the perspective of Kabbalah: in what way is a man truly the master, and in what way is he not?
Answer: If a man properly fulfills his functions, the wife, no matter how you look at it, depends on him. If he thinks about how to do something pleasant for her, something she needs, and cares for her, she will feel that she cannot do without him. In this way, she becomes dependent on her husband.
Question: What other pleasant things can a man do for his wife besides lifting her spirits, giving gifts, or flowers?
Answer: Women do not need much. The man needs to do just the minimum, but in a way that shows he is putting his feelings into it.
Question: Can you describe the specific functions of a man? What do they entail?
Answer: I do not think this requires much definition or explanation. If you focus on making your wife feel good, especially by uplifting her mood, you will notice how your life changes.
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From KabTV’s “Man and Women” 7/30/24
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Julia asks:
The Creator is a good screenwriter, in the drama genre. Can we know the ending of the story in advance and influence the course of events?
Answer: We know the ending of the story. It is the complete correction of human nature.
Question: Can we influence the course of these events?
Answer: No, we do not know how we should change or in what order we should correct ourselves. But in general, the path is clear.
Question: Then why is this being done? For example, the way is clear to us—rise above egoism, above our nature, but how to do this is not very clear. Why is all this being done? Point the way, tell us how to get there, and humanity will go accordingly.
Answer: The way is very simple: love your neighbor as yourself and be like the Creator, and so advance.
Question: But this is very difficult. Is it possible? Is a person capable of doing this?
Answer: Yes, we have the strength to ask for it.
Question: So it is on me to exert effort and raise a request, an effort and a request? Only this way?
Answer: Yes.
Question: Do all spiritual practices and all religions come from this phrase? Can I say this or not?
Answer: A person does whatever comes to his mind. But in the end, rising above our ego to love everyone is what is required of us.
Comment: There is this call, by and large, which resonates all the time. And a person, passing it through himself, makes all sorts of angles, spiritual practices, and religions and builds everything.
My Response: He dodges it.
Question: Can I tackle it directly? Is there a straight path to loving your neighbor as yourself?
Answer: No. One would not agree to accept such a commitment directly. A person cannot exist in this. But little by little, I think we will come to this.
Question: Come to live this way?
Answer: Yes.
Question: “Us and the Creator”—such a direct connection?
Answer: Yes.
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From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman” 7/1/24
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“Fear of sin” means that he is observing everything only for his own sake, that the reason is for himself. “Fear of heaven” means that the reason is the Creator, that he observes Torah and Mitzvot because this is the Creator’s will (Rabash, Assorted Notes, 250, “Anyone in Whom There Is Fear of Heaven – 1”).
We must reach a state where all our organs, desires, and intentions agree with what we do. Then, we will come to the correct fear of heaven.
The root of genuine awe and fear of the Creator is the desire of a person to bestow to Him. They fear they might be unable to give themselves entirely to the Creator.
We must strive for our reverence and fear before the Creator to assist us in our spiritual work so that we can direct ourselves to Him.
The fear before our friends lies in wanting to see the same feelings in their attitude toward us as we express toward them.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 8/14/24, Writings of Rabash “Anyone in Whom There Is Fear of Heaven – 1”
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Yet, this fear of heaven is akin to the fear of flesh and blood (Rabash, Notes, 250 “Anyone in Whom There Is Fear of Heaven – 1”).
Question: What does it mean that fear of the Creator is akin to the fear of people?
Answer: This is a complex degree. In our world, a person instinctively fears the authority and power of those around him. Therefore, one must strive to reach a state where he fears the Creator at least as much.
Question: What does it mean to fear the Creator? Regarding people it is clear: you see them, they affect you, and they can limit you in some way or punish you. But with the Creator, there must be some sort of connection?
Answer: Of course. Without a connection with the Creator, you cannot feel how He relates to you or what He does for you. Therefore, you will not be able to match Him in the relationship, “I am to the Creator, and He is to me.”
Question: For example, what does a thief fear? That he will be punished. But what is the correct fear concerning the Creator? Is it the fear that He will punish me, or is it the fear that I will fail to do something for Him, to show love?
Answer: Yes, all types of egoistic fear. Then ask for your fear to be above this, and when you receive it, you will understand that you have ascended.
Above egoistic fear is fear before the greatness of the Creator who rules everything and holds everything in His hands. All our states depend solely on Him.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 8/14/24, Writings of Rabash “Anyone in Whom There Is Fear of Heaven – 1”
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Question: On the spiritual path we are often overwhelmed by contradictory impressions. How can we understand whether we are approaching the Creator or moving away from Him?
Answer: You can understand this by the level of connection you have. The closer you are to each other, the more you can imagine that the Creator is also close to you, even though He remains concealed from you.
Question: If there are contradictions or conflicts between us, does that mean there is a conflict with the Creator?
Answer: There may be conflicts, even many of them, but these do not necessarily hinder your connection with each other.
Love can withstand any conflict, so you should never break the connection. That is something very important to keep in mind.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 8/13/24, Writings of Rabash “Cast Their Seed Among the Nations”
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