Building A Women’s Organization

blamingA question I received: I have a question about the women’s organization. I am afraid that it will gradually turn into an enterprise to support the men, the different projects, and so on. I feel that we women lack an inner connection, an adhesion of our desires, without any external actions.

In order to demand anything from the male part of the group, we have to have a clear understanding of what we are demanding. We have to be ready for what will be given to us. We need clarifications.

It seems to me that such clarifications should be performed by the women’s organization. We have to search for answers in the original sources. We have to understand everything clearly, see the general picture, and so on.

My Answer: I am not going to say anything else to you because everything has already been said. The only thing that remains is for you to perform the clarification and the realization.

My only advice to you is, to the extent it is possible, take your personal egoism out of your relationships, because the way things stand, one woman does not wish to listen and help another even for the sake of their mutual success.

3 Comments

  1. I think this Woman is right,there is a need for this and it feels so good to have Ravs support in this now. Hopefully we may succeed in bringing our egoism outside the relationships.

  2. “My only advice to you is, to the extent it is possible, take your personal egoism out of your relationships, because the way things stand, one woman does not wish to listen and help another even for the sake of their mutual success.”

    Rav,

    How can we overcome this? How can we overcome the feeling of not wishing well for another for the sake of mutual success? I have been asking this question over and over and can’t understand why this is so. I mean, it is really true but it is saddening. I’ve met women in the group that are “willing” to see a common goal but there really are some that resist the bond and it’s frustrating because it just makes it so difficult to cross that barrier.

    Is this something we need to accept or something that needs work?

  3. I’m brand new to Kabbalah, July 10, 2010. Stumbling in life to find the answer of “why am I here?” “Is this it?” In deep confusion & pain. When I stumbled into a video online done by Benei Baruch. I felt it as the beginning of an answer. I’ve taken one class online, through Benei Baruch. I don’t comprehend it. I have flashes of comprehension and understanding. I was reading in your blog “A Women’s Influence” and clicked on the link “Kabbalah organization for women”. It was not what I expected nor was this question…. “Our inner connection”, “enterprise to support the men”, “demanding”? ??? I’m very “sensitive” to the use of language and my perception of it. I shouldn’t be, I just am. I want to learn, I want to know. Not about divisiveness. I’m simple minded; I was relieved when it was revealed the female/women’s role in Kabbalah. I’m going to continue to take classes online at this point. I don’t know what I’m going to do about being a woman. What do I do?

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