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Pharaoh And The Group

laitman_528_02Question: We discussed the point that Pharaoh is the force that keeps us apart in the group, that he is the cause of our being divided and of all the quarrels between us. Pharaoh is a force of nature.

How can we actually work with this force in the group? How can we work with such powerful forces? What can we do with them and what can’t we do?

Answer: Pharaoh, egoism, stands in your way when you want to get closer to each other. You have to get closer to each other to start feeling it. First you will feel that he is the good Pharaoh, the seven years of satiety, and then the evil Pharaoh, the seven years of hunger, at the end of which the ten plagues attack the egoism, by which you will be thrown out of egoism so you come out of Egypt. All the work is only to get closer together over all the disturbances.
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Questions About Work In The Group – 1

laitman_934Question: What is the difference between connection among the friends and unity? What should we yearn for when we are in the group of ten?

Answer: We reach actual unity by yearning for connection.

Question: I am in a group of several men. Three to four of them participate in all the activities, while three to four other men don’t come to the group activities regularly. Such a group doesn’t bestow unto me, but I don’t want to “pull the train” by myself. The way I see it a group should operate in synergy.

Is it possible to enter the spiritual world without a group or should I teach others and thus create my own group?

Answer: Try to do it while being a member in your group.
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Touching Hearts

laitman_943Question: What do we lack in order to form the correct prayer?

Answer: Our hearts still do not feel that they can touch one another. They are enclosed in the egoistic layer called our body.

In this case, our body is not the physical flesh but rather egoism, which does not allow us to touch hearts. As a result we cannot form a prayer.
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From Convention In Moscow, Day One, Lesson 3, 5/2/16

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The Outcomes Of The Convention Have Not Been Revealed Totally

laitman_214Question: What else do we lack in order to build the spiritual embryo after the series of powerful conventions we have been through and the work we have done to nullify ourselves?

Answer: We are not connected as an embryo yet, as well are not connected in order to form a womb in which the embryo can develop. We only need to connect; that’s all. We must connect as one body and be as one man in one heart. After all, you don’t want it yet. You are only studying.

Question: How can I want something that I don’t want all of the sudden?

Answer: We receive such a deficiency indirectly through the actions we perform. We cannot do anything against our ego directly, but indirectly we can spur the Light that Reforms that changes our nature.

Question: Can a small group in our bigger group connect and be as an embryo, or does everyone need to connect in order to achieve that?

Answer: At the moment, it is impossible to say for sure how it will happen because this situation has never been realized before. We must digest this principle thoroughly. We mustn’t be sure that something somehow would happen if it hasn’t yet been fulfilled.

There are infinite options in spirituality. Therefore, I don’t know what the internal group should be like in order to become an embryo that exists in the womb, the external group.

We are nearing this state gradually and very quickly. I am amazed each time by our sudden new leaps. However, there are no exceptions. We all must become an embryo according to our attitude to the desire to receive, and we all must become a womb in our attitude toward the desire to bestow. We build all of that of ourselves.

We must build the womb first, the level of bestowal, and raise it to the heavenly heights. Then, below it, we can build the level of receiving, which means the ground under our feet. There is always a right line first, bestowal, before the left line, receiving. This is what it says in the book Shulchan Aruch, which describes the commandments. This book gives us many practical instructions as to our internal work if we interpret them as spiritual concepts.

Question: What should we work on today?

Answer: We should work on the exaltedness of the attribute of bestowal and on building the connection between us in the form of an embryo. We must build the connection between us, which is the Creator, and the connection, which is the created being. Then, we will see that these are two sides of the same coin.

Question: But we cannot tie these two opposites together!

Answer: The Creator will arrange this oppositeness in the form of the middle line. Don’t worry. There isn’t much time left. We have made a great leap, and we will feel it soon. We don’t see the outcomes of the convention yet, but we will see it in the future, and we are advancing constantly toward it.
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From the 4th part of the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 12/12/14 Writings of Baal HaSulam

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Egoism And The Plagues Of Egypt

Laitman_049_01Question: How does the ego feel the plagues of Egypt?

Answer: The Egyptian plagues are felt once the ego is built in the form of Egypt and Pharaoh,which is opposite from the nation of Israel and Moses, is created in a person. These blows are needed to tear us away from the ego and to prepare us to break away from it.

Question: I don’t understand how we can ascend above the ego and love it at the same time. We are used to suppressing our ego, to eradicating it in every possible way, so what does it mean to ascend above it?

Answer: It means that you should focus your desires on filling others and receiving pleasure from that.

Question: How can I understand that the ego is evil if the groups don’t talk about it and try to blur it by playing games of love?

Answer: We should talk about it!
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The Purim Holiday In The Light Of Spiritual Correction

laitman_572_03The Purim holiday symbolizes the future complete correction of all of humanity.

2,500 years ago, there was already a partial correction in the spiritual roots, but this was only a preparation because all that happens in the correction of human society must go through two stages.

The first stage was realized in a small group of people that Abraham took out from Babylon and guided until the destruction of the First Temple (Beit ha Mikdash). In fact, this group went through all of the stages of correction, and one of the stages was a state called Purim. Purim is from the word “Pur -Lot,” and today all of us must return to this together with the entire world.

As is told in the Scroll of Esther, Ahasuerus, the king of Babylon, made a big feast during which he discovered that two of his helpers were trying to depose him from his throne.

The one who exposed this plot was Mordechai, a Kabbalist, who was on the level of Hassadim (Mercy) or on the level of Bina in which a person doesn’t need anything for himself. He can correct himself only to this level and continue to ascend only if he attracts other people and transmits the Light of Hochma (Wisdom) through himself, meaning that he carries out the role of Bina.

Bina is divided into two parts. The upper part GAR de Bina (Galgalta ve Eynaim de Bina) operates only with bestowal without wanting anything for itself, and the lower part ZAT de Bina receives the Light from above, from Hochma, to transmit it to the Tachtonim (Lower Ones) if they require it.

If no one needs this, then it is said allegorically that “Mordecai was sitting in the king’s gate” (Esther 2:19) at the entrance to the city of Shushan. This is because he understood that if it was necessary to get something from the king—meaning from the Creator—in order to transmit it to others, it is possible to do this only by way of His characteristics, transmitting everything through Bina, the attribute of bestowal, and then the Ohr Hochma clothed in the Ohr Bina would pass to all of the creatures and would be a blessing for them.

However, when Mordechai exposed the plot of the two traitors and they were taken out to be executed, the king did not promote him and did not give him gifts fit for a king. Why was that? This is what is told in the Megilla (from the word “Gilui – Revelation/Discovery.”

The advisor of the King Haman was against Mordechai. In his opinion, the main thing was to draw the Ohr Hochma into the desire to receive, which means to attract the pleasures into the egoistic desires and become filled by them.

Mordechai understood that this was impossible because if the Light is inserted into the desire to receive, there would be a Shevira (Breaking). So there is an obligation to clothe the Ohr Hochma in the Ohr Hassadim, and only in this case can these two Lights be received within the desire to receive. So they disagreed.

Mordechai is the Kav Yamin (Right Line), only Hassadim. The main thing is the Hassadim, and the Ohr Hochma can be received only to the degree that it can be clothed in the Ohr Hassadim and complement it. The Kav Smol (Left Line) is Haman who wanted to receive Ohr Hochma directly.

The result was something interesting. Instead of giving Mordechai a reward for his rescue, he compensated Haman, raising him to a higher, honored, and very exalted position. Mordechai didn’t know what to do, but in spite of it all, he sat by the city gate and convinced everyone that it was impossible to behave like Haman.

Imagine a person who is found in an internal split. On the one hand, he wants to receive Ohr Hochma very much, and he can do this because everything that is derived from the Creator, meaning from the king, comes to him. However, on the other hand, Mordechai claimed that this was impossible, and one must act only according to the Ohr Hassadim, the attribute of bestowal. To the same degree that you acquire the attribute of bestowal, you can receive the Ohr Hochma.

Queen Esther, Mordechai’s niece, plays a big role in this story. She was taken to the palace of the king so that later she could be the linking factor between Mordechai and the king. This means that Esther is Malchut, a feminine desire that can attract the Upper Light. Then the Light is sure to pass through Mordechai, and after that Haman would be integrated in it, but only in the case where this would be accompanied by the correct reception of the Ohr Hochma.

So Queen Esther told the king about the plot of the two servants who wanted to kill him and that Mordechai exposed it. These servants symbolize the Klipa (Shell) of the Kav Yamin and Kav Smol, meaning the egoistic desires that wanted to exploit both the Ohr Hochma and the Ohr Hassadim for themselves only. The king hung them and, after that favored Esther even more.

The question can be asked, why did the king elevate Haman? After all, he should have compensated Mordechai for saving him.

However, Mordechai was a Tzadik (Righteous One). A Tzadik is a person who has no desire to receive for himself because he doesn’t want anything for himself. So, it is impossible to compensate him in any manner or form. In addition to this, it is impossible to use this characteristic as, with its help, it is impossible to attract the Light and rise from level to level. In a person, it is very passive.

So, when the king elevated Haman, he gave Mordechai a reason to ascend. In other words, when more egoistic desires arise in us, we begin to understand that we require correction, and then it is up to us to develop the characteristic of the Kav Yamin, the characteristic of Mordechai, within us, above the characteristic of the Kav Smol that is continuing to grow.

Even though we don’t agree with this, it is difficult for us to overcome it. However, our entire way is by performing good deeds. We come to conventions, study, disseminate, and then suddenly feel that we have fallen. The desire for spiritual work disappears from us. We are attracted to all kinds of things. We begin to quarrel among ourselves. The ego rises. So, what can be done? This is the elevation of Haman.

We must understand that all of this is done for our benefit, to elevate us so that we feel that, as much as the ego arises in us, it is up to us to complement it with the Kav Yamin, the attribute of bestowal. So, despite the events, it is up to us to be on guard all of the time and know how to fight against them.

Spiritual advancement is based upon treading on two legs, right – left, right – left, and so forth. That is, it is up to us to be both in opposing states between us and attempts to rise and connect above these states. It is very important not to forget in the male part, and especially in the female part, of the group that there must be a clear understanding that the group is always to be advancing, despite the attitudes that are revealed in it.

The main thing for us is to yearn constantly for connection, and under this connection, different currents are formed, egoistic leaps. All of this is correct and good. In this case, we see through the actions of Esther, the feminine part, how good it is that there is a strong woman in the group who is connected to the Creator—meaning that she understands advancement correctly, that she can help relax and balance the two forces of Haman and Mordechai. So, the book is called the Scroll of Esther in her name.

Esther doesn’t just work like that. She dresses in a special way. She goes out and sits in the king’s path. This means that when the Light arrives from above, she, the Malchut, sits in that place and attracts the Light through her desire. In this way, she builds the connection between the king (Keter), the Light (the source of Hochma) and Mordechai (the attribute of Bina).

That same small Light that passes from the king to her is called the “golden scepter” (Esther 4:11). As it is written, “And it came to pass when the king saw Queen Esther standing in the court, that she won favor in his eyes, and the king extended to Esther the golden scepter that was in his hand, and Esther approached and touched the end of the scepter” (Esther 5:2). So, a little of the Ohr Hochma passed to Bina, and Mordechai began to work.

To the question of the king, “What concerns you, Queen Esther” (Esther 5:3), Esther answers, “If it pleases the king, let the king and Haman come today to the banquet that I have prepared for him” (Esther 5:4), and the king and Haman go to her together.

There, Esther explains to the king that, if Haman uses his desires, then all of the Light will pass to the Klipot of Haman, the ruined desires, and then the king will have nothing left. This means that all of the servants of the king, meaning all of the desires, will not work to bestow to the Creator, but on the contrary, they will fall below. Then, Haman will rise above everything, including the king himself.

The king shouts angrily at Haman, how could he have thought such a thing? From great fear, Haman falls on the bed of Esther, and the king becomes angry at Haman, accusing him of wanting to lie on the bed, instead of himself! Since Haman wants to receive all of the Light that comes from above, this symbolizes a situation in which it is as if he would ravish Esther, take all of her desires, and fulfill them. So, Haman now expects a serious punishment.

It must be pointed out that the characteristics of Mordechai, the attribute of Bina, are dispersed all over the kingdom of Ahasuerus, the kingdom of Babylon, which includes 127 nations. Babylon symbolizes all of humanity since all of us came from ancient Babylon.

The king sends emissaries to all of the nations with the message that the day will come when it will be necessary to rise up and kill those whom he will order, but the first message doesn’t say exactly whom it is necessary to kill. Only in the second letter is it said that it is necessary to kill those who cannot connect with each other—meaning to kill the egoistic characteristics that are revealed in this gigantic desire.

So, the king shrewdly asks Haman, “What should be done to a man whom the king wishes to honor?” (Esther 6:6). Haman replies that he should seat him on a horse, clothe him in royal garments, and lead him throughout the city so that everyone would see his greatness. This is because Haman thinks that he will merit all of this himself since Ohr Hochma will be inserted into the Kelim de Kabbalah (vessels of reception) and not the Kelim de Hashpa’a (the vessels of bestowal) as Mordechai needs nothing.

Now, it is revealed that it is impossible to receive the Light within the vessels of reception directly because it would disappear immediately as a result of Tzimtzum Aleph (First Restriction). So, the king commands Haman, “Hurry, take the raiment and the horse as you have spoken and do so to Mordecai the Jew, who sits in the king’s gate; let nothing fail of all that you have spoken.” (Esther 6:10).

Haman goes through terrible suffering, yet nothing is left for him to do but carry out the orders of the king. That is how Mordechai realizes the necessary conditions by which the Upper Light comes from the king through Mordechai to all of the inhabitants of Babylon and ultimately to Esther.

Subsequently, a son was born to Esther who became the king of Babylon. He helped the people of Israel to return from the Babylonian exile to the land of Israel and build the Second Temple (Beit ha Mikdash). This is known to us from history since the Megillat Esther (Scroll of Esther) doesn’t talk about it. This allegorical story ends with Mordechai becoming the assistant of the king, meaning that all of the Light passes through him from above to below and extends to the entire large kingdom.

The events that are talked about in Scroll of Esther happened around 2,500 years ago between the destruction of the First Temple and the construction of the Second Temple. They belong to the end of the second period of exile in Babylon.

Today, we are at the end of the last exile of 2,000 years and are ascending to the building of the Third Temple.

The Temple is the general global Kli of receiving that was planned in ancient Babylon 3,500 years ago when Abraham began to explain to the Babylonians that they must all connect. However, no one would listen to him, except for a handful of a few thousand people. Ultimately, all of the inhabitants of Babylon became scattered all over the world.

In fact, today, we are in the same situation of Shevira (Breaking) as in ancient Babylon in the time of Abraham, and what happened to Abraham and his group in the time of Mordechai and Esther a thousand years after they left Babylon must now happen with us again.

It is up to us to understand that the revelation must happen, but only to the degree of the integration between us (that is what Mordechai was talking about). First, this will be accompanied by the rise of big egos, and these will be very serious obstacles. Second, the ascent must be realized with the help of the active participation of the serious feminine part.

No source talks about the importance of the feminine part in the completion of correction of all of humanity, except the Scroll of Esther The name Esther indicates Hastera (Concealment), and what this indicates is that, even though the work of the feminine part is apparently in concealment, it has a very great importance in correction.

There is no need to fear the revelation of the ego. Rather, it must be understood that it is revealed in order to be able to use it correctly. So, it makes no difference that it wants to rise up and dominate us, causing all kinds of disagreements among us. It is up to us to stop it in time.

So, it is clear to us that we can find a connection with the Creator, with the king, and with the help of Esther and Mordechai (the attributes of bestowal) that are found in us, we can adjust and correct everything so that we unite all of the desires together, including the most egoistic desires of Haman, and ultimately, we will bring the entire world to one shared Kli full of Light.

That is what is talked about in Scroll of Esther. The Purim holiday is dedicated to this.

Purim is from the word “Pur,” the lots that apparently are arranged between Mordechai and Haman because it is not clear with whom it is necessary to advance. A person is found in such a great internal split that sometimes he doesn’t know what to do.

Purim is preceded by another spiritual action, embodied in our world under the name Yom Kippurim (a day like PurimKe Purim) when we discover empty desires that we are able to fulfill because of a lack of Ohr Hassadim. So, on Yom Kippur (the Day of Atonement), we don’t eat and don’t drink as a symbol that our desires cannot be fulfilled because they lack the correction of the Ohr Hassadim, desire for the purpose of bestowal, intention for the sake of bestowal.

Between Yom Kippurim and Purim, there is another holiday, the Hanukkah holiday. On those days, we light a Menorah, and this activity symbolizes the Ohr Hassadim that rises from below to above in order to bestow. This means that the desires that we discovered on Yom Kippurim we correct on Hanukkah through Ohr Hassadim and prepare them for Purim when they still will become filled with Ohr Hochma. These three events continue one after the other and symbolize the discovery of the empty Kli, its filling through Ohr Hassadim, and after that, its filling through Ohr Hochma.
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From the Fundamentals Of Kabbalah 2/24/13

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Should One Be Sensitive To The Suffering Of Others?

laitman_528_01Question: If I don’t feel the suffering of others, am I insensitive or smart?

Answer: There is no need to feel the suffering of others, but the suffering of a group of people with identical opinions so that your shared pain and common desire to find a connection with the Creator will bring you to discovering Him between you.

There is nothing else. Either you want the Light or you will become ill from discovering darkness, one of the two. You call this by different names, suffering, pain, illness, and the like. A lack of Light is the origin of all suffering.

If you have a Kli, a desire that is ready to receive the Light, to absorb it into itself, to be filled with it, but you don’t make the effort to fill it, then that is felt as suffering.
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From the Kabbalah Lesson in Russian 1/3/16

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Answers To Your Questions, Part 126

laitman_571_03Question: How can we “attract” the Light that Reforms if it is at absolute rest? After all, it is said, “For I, the Lord, have not changed” (Malachi 3:6). So, all changes and movements are only on the background of the Light, which is permanent.

Answer: Movement is in our desires, not our thoughts, in the yearning to come closer to each other and to the absolute fixed Light and us.

Question: What does it mean to be connected with the friends throughout the day?

Answer: This is my constant internal dialog with them, not just by telephone, and this is my attitude to the world group.
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The Higher Intelligence Of The Group

laitman_947Question: What is group intelligence?

Answer: In an organized collective, there is an eclipse of reason, a relinquishing of thought and criticism, an intoxication in the collective setting, a pleasure derived from the numbing of the senses and the herd instinct of the masses. We lose independent judgment and become stupid.

So as not to become thrown into the will of the masses, of society, a small group must have a goal and a sincere desire to achieve it.

In our group, which consists of those who are studying the wisdom of Kabbalah, each person’s energy is directed toward complementing the others with Arvut (Mutual Guarantee). When we realize our aspirations in the framework of the group, the group of ten, no one’s voice is silenced. Instead, it becomes an addition to the group. Then, what appears is not just a collective animal intelligence, but the higher intelligence of the group.
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Let’s Ascend Without Descents

laitman_608_01“What the Concept of Suffering Is in the Work,” Rabash: What can a person do so that he doesn’t need to come to a descent, called “suffering,” when he feels that he is far from the Creator….How could there be a reality in which he doesn’t need to fall to a state of humility? The advice about this is when a person takes stock of himself and through his thought and desire he sees how he is still far from adhesion with the Creator. It means that even during a time of ascent he takes stock of himself and begins to feel his shortcomings. So then he apparently doesn’t need to fall from his state because he was given thoughts of humility until he feels as if he is in a deficient state. So even during an ascent, he already begins to seek advice about how to ascend a level.

We begin our way from below to above from a tiny shortcoming, from lacking the point in the heart. The lack in this point doesn’t give a person any direction and he has no power, for this is just a point. I continue toward something, but I don’t exactly understand toward what. But when I am brought to a group, my desire begins to take shape. I already know what to wish for and toward where. A few years pass until I finally understand that this aspiration must be directed toward connection and not just toward a higher power.

I am already aware that the higher power is not somewhere in the heavens, but that it is revealed within me: it is the power of bestowal and love that fills all of the higher reality. If I acquire the characteristic of bestowal and love, with this I feel the upper force, the higher dimension and the upper world.

Quite a while passes until this approach stabilizes in a person. And this time doesn’t just pass without a trace. Great changes happen every moment, and lots of time is required for it. Just like in our world, the period for stabilizing the still level of nature, the creation of the universe, was the longest and took billions of years. The vegetative world stabilized even more rapidly, the animate world stabilized even faster, and the human stabilized very quickly relative to the previous levels.

So we also went through thousands of years of regular physical existence, passing through a multitude of incarnations. And when we are finally granted an Itaruta de La’ila (awakening from Above) resulting in the awakening of the point in the heart in us, so this account has already been going on for years. In spite of everything, it took years.

From that moment, I am already placed facing the goal and know how to advance toward it. I come to a group, find a teacher and books. I realize that this is the purpose of human life in this world to which I have finally been brought after many incarnations in order to implement the goal and get some kind of result in my life without having to waste it in vain. I have already been given freedom of choice here, to go in the way of Torah or the path of suffering.

The path of suffering is when an unconscious desire is awakened in me and I start to figure out why I feel bad. Time passes until I find the cause of evil and clarify how to correct it and to transform it into goodness. The way of Beito (in its time) is very long and includes many stages within it. So then, in the way of Achishena (I will hasten), in the way of Light, time becomes accelerated. I must search for the shortcomings myself, the means for advancing.

I can get the stimuli for advancement from the environment. The main thing is that this push toward advancement initially stabilizes me in the right direction and I know for what I am looking. It is always necessary to search for a lack of the characteristic of bestowal and love, for connection, for oneness, for Arvut (mutual guarantee), for adhesion with the upper force, meaning love for others.

If I search for shortcomings like these, then I am no longer in some kind of point with a single desire that has no direction. Instead, I already know the goal that I must reach.
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From the preparation for the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 2/10/14

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