Answer: This is done only through your coming closer to each other. Everything is revealed in the fact that you get closer to each other, and then everything works out for you. Coming closer means to accept the desires of the friends as our own and to ask for the fulfillment of their desires.
Friends show an example and include all of you in a single system. Whether you want it or not, you enter into their actions, and you reach a common effort.
From the Daily Kabbalah lesson 9/15/23, “Rosh HaShana“