Question: The need for the women’s desire, without which men won’t come to the goal, was not felt at the seminars. Why is that?
Answer: In order for a man to feel a need for something, he has to realize that without that need or desire he won’t reach the goal. It means that they haven’t reached that state yet.
Assume I try doing something and see that it doesn’t work out. What do I miss? Aha, I need another tool. I start working with it and see that I lack some other device. Meaning, only to the extent I see myself not reaching the goal do I look for the ways to reach it.
Then I see the lack of a clear strong support. It must exist for sure! This is what is written in Kabbalistic sources and we see that in a real life as well.
Men have their own somewhat baseless pride. They forget their dependency on women due to their nature. That’s a man’s nature.
But by moving forward, they begin realizing how weak they are. And then feel a strong need for female support.
That is not a weakness, it’s just our nature; when we depend on each other with just the right combination, together we achieve the common goal.
By the way, I’m sure many men have this feeling—I see that in them. They really feel it.
From the Vilnius Convention 3/23/12, Lesson 1