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Answers To Your Questions, Part 129

laitman_604_04Question: How can we feel happy when we receive disturbances that the Creator sends us?

Answer: It is possible only according to the level of your ascent above the ego, when your intentions are truly in order to bestow and not in order to receive, which means only after the effect of the Surrounding Light and the appearance of the Masach (screen).

Question: How can one be your student and part of the system successfully without torturing himself by getting up early for the morning lessons?

Answer: You can watch them some other time during the day and do your best to participate in our events in a group near you.
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The Purim Holiday In The Light Of Spiritual Correction

laitman_572_03The Purim holiday symbolizes the future complete correction of all of humanity.

2,500 years ago, there was already a partial correction in the spiritual roots, but this was only a preparation because all that happens in the correction of human society must go through two stages.

The first stage was realized in a small group of people that Abraham took out from Babylon and guided until the destruction of the First Temple (Beit ha Mikdash). In fact, this group went through all of the stages of correction, and one of the stages was a state called Purim. Purim is from the word “Pur -Lot,” and today all of us must return to this together with the entire world.

As is told in the Scroll of Esther, Ahasuerus, the king of Babylon, made a big feast during which he discovered that two of his helpers were trying to depose him from his throne.

The one who exposed this plot was Mordechai, a Kabbalist, who was on the level of Hassadim (Mercy) or on the level of Bina in which a person doesn’t need anything for himself. He can correct himself only to this level and continue to ascend only if he attracts other people and transmits the Light of Hochma (Wisdom) through himself, meaning that he carries out the role of Bina.

Bina is divided into two parts. The upper part GAR de Bina (Galgalta ve Eynaim de Bina) operates only with bestowal without wanting anything for itself, and the lower part ZAT de Bina receives the Light from above, from Hochma, to transmit it to the Tachtonim (Lower Ones) if they require it.

If no one needs this, then it is said allegorically that “Mordecai was sitting in the king’s gate” (Esther 2:19) at the entrance to the city of Shushan. This is because he understood that if it was necessary to get something from the king—meaning from the Creator—in order to transmit it to others, it is possible to do this only by way of His characteristics, transmitting everything through Bina, the attribute of bestowal, and then the Ohr Hochma clothed in the Ohr Bina would pass to all of the creatures and would be a blessing for them.

However, when Mordechai exposed the plot of the two traitors and they were taken out to be executed, the king did not promote him and did not give him gifts fit for a king. Why was that? This is what is told in the Megilla (from the word “Gilui – Revelation/Discovery.”

The advisor of the King Haman was against Mordechai. In his opinion, the main thing was to draw the Ohr Hochma into the desire to receive, which means to attract the pleasures into the egoistic desires and become filled by them.

Mordechai understood that this was impossible because if the Light is inserted into the desire to receive, there would be a Shevira (Breaking). So there is an obligation to clothe the Ohr Hochma in the Ohr Hassadim, and only in this case can these two Lights be received within the desire to receive. So they disagreed.

Mordechai is the Kav Yamin (Right Line), only Hassadim. The main thing is the Hassadim, and the Ohr Hochma can be received only to the degree that it can be clothed in the Ohr Hassadim and complement it. The Kav Smol (Left Line) is Haman who wanted to receive Ohr Hochma directly.

The result was something interesting. Instead of giving Mordechai a reward for his rescue, he compensated Haman, raising him to a higher, honored, and very exalted position. Mordechai didn’t know what to do, but in spite of it all, he sat by the city gate and convinced everyone that it was impossible to behave like Haman.

Imagine a person who is found in an internal split. On the one hand, he wants to receive Ohr Hochma very much, and he can do this because everything that is derived from the Creator, meaning from the king, comes to him. However, on the other hand, Mordechai claimed that this was impossible, and one must act only according to the Ohr Hassadim, the attribute of bestowal. To the same degree that you acquire the attribute of bestowal, you can receive the Ohr Hochma.

Queen Esther, Mordechai’s niece, plays a big role in this story. She was taken to the palace of the king so that later she could be the linking factor between Mordechai and the king. This means that Esther is Malchut, a feminine desire that can attract the Upper Light. Then the Light is sure to pass through Mordechai, and after that Haman would be integrated in it, but only in the case where this would be accompanied by the correct reception of the Ohr Hochma.

So Queen Esther told the king about the plot of the two servants who wanted to kill him and that Mordechai exposed it. These servants symbolize the Klipa (Shell) of the Kav Yamin and Kav Smol, meaning the egoistic desires that wanted to exploit both the Ohr Hochma and the Ohr Hassadim for themselves only. The king hung them and, after that favored Esther even more.

The question can be asked, why did the king elevate Haman? After all, he should have compensated Mordechai for saving him.

However, Mordechai was a Tzadik (Righteous One). A Tzadik is a person who has no desire to receive for himself because he doesn’t want anything for himself. So, it is impossible to compensate him in any manner or form. In addition to this, it is impossible to use this characteristic as, with its help, it is impossible to attract the Light and rise from level to level. In a person, it is very passive.

So, when the king elevated Haman, he gave Mordechai a reason to ascend. In other words, when more egoistic desires arise in us, we begin to understand that we require correction, and then it is up to us to develop the characteristic of the Kav Yamin, the characteristic of Mordechai, within us, above the characteristic of the Kav Smol that is continuing to grow.

Even though we don’t agree with this, it is difficult for us to overcome it. However, our entire way is by performing good deeds. We come to conventions, study, disseminate, and then suddenly feel that we have fallen. The desire for spiritual work disappears from us. We are attracted to all kinds of things. We begin to quarrel among ourselves. The ego rises. So, what can be done? This is the elevation of Haman.

We must understand that all of this is done for our benefit, to elevate us so that we feel that, as much as the ego arises in us, it is up to us to complement it with the Kav Yamin, the attribute of bestowal. So, despite the events, it is up to us to be on guard all of the time and know how to fight against them.

Spiritual advancement is based upon treading on two legs, right – left, right – left, and so forth. That is, it is up to us to be both in opposing states between us and attempts to rise and connect above these states. It is very important not to forget in the male part, and especially in the female part, of the group that there must be a clear understanding that the group is always to be advancing, despite the attitudes that are revealed in it.

The main thing for us is to yearn constantly for connection, and under this connection, different currents are formed, egoistic leaps. All of this is correct and good. In this case, we see through the actions of Esther, the feminine part, how good it is that there is a strong woman in the group who is connected to the Creator—meaning that she understands advancement correctly, that she can help relax and balance the two forces of Haman and Mordechai. So, the book is called the Scroll of Esther in her name.

Esther doesn’t just work like that. She dresses in a special way. She goes out and sits in the king’s path. This means that when the Light arrives from above, she, the Malchut, sits in that place and attracts the Light through her desire. In this way, she builds the connection between the king (Keter), the Light (the source of Hochma) and Mordechai (the attribute of Bina).

That same small Light that passes from the king to her is called the “golden scepter” (Esther 4:11). As it is written, “And it came to pass when the king saw Queen Esther standing in the court, that she won favor in his eyes, and the king extended to Esther the golden scepter that was in his hand, and Esther approached and touched the end of the scepter” (Esther 5:2). So, a little of the Ohr Hochma passed to Bina, and Mordechai began to work.

To the question of the king, “What concerns you, Queen Esther” (Esther 5:3), Esther answers, “If it pleases the king, let the king and Haman come today to the banquet that I have prepared for him” (Esther 5:4), and the king and Haman go to her together.

There, Esther explains to the king that, if Haman uses his desires, then all of the Light will pass to the Klipot of Haman, the ruined desires, and then the king will have nothing left. This means that all of the servants of the king, meaning all of the desires, will not work to bestow to the Creator, but on the contrary, they will fall below. Then, Haman will rise above everything, including the king himself.

The king shouts angrily at Haman, how could he have thought such a thing? From great fear, Haman falls on the bed of Esther, and the king becomes angry at Haman, accusing him of wanting to lie on the bed, instead of himself! Since Haman wants to receive all of the Light that comes from above, this symbolizes a situation in which it is as if he would ravish Esther, take all of her desires, and fulfill them. So, Haman now expects a serious punishment.

It must be pointed out that the characteristics of Mordechai, the attribute of Bina, are dispersed all over the kingdom of Ahasuerus, the kingdom of Babylon, which includes 127 nations. Babylon symbolizes all of humanity since all of us came from ancient Babylon.

The king sends emissaries to all of the nations with the message that the day will come when it will be necessary to rise up and kill those whom he will order, but the first message doesn’t say exactly whom it is necessary to kill. Only in the second letter is it said that it is necessary to kill those who cannot connect with each other—meaning to kill the egoistic characteristics that are revealed in this gigantic desire.

So, the king shrewdly asks Haman, “What should be done to a man whom the king wishes to honor?” (Esther 6:6). Haman replies that he should seat him on a horse, clothe him in royal garments, and lead him throughout the city so that everyone would see his greatness. This is because Haman thinks that he will merit all of this himself since Ohr Hochma will be inserted into the Kelim de Kabbalah (vessels of reception) and not the Kelim de Hashpa’a (the vessels of bestowal) as Mordechai needs nothing.

Now, it is revealed that it is impossible to receive the Light within the vessels of reception directly because it would disappear immediately as a result of Tzimtzum Aleph (First Restriction). So, the king commands Haman, “Hurry, take the raiment and the horse as you have spoken and do so to Mordecai the Jew, who sits in the king’s gate; let nothing fail of all that you have spoken.” (Esther 6:10).

Haman goes through terrible suffering, yet nothing is left for him to do but carry out the orders of the king. That is how Mordechai realizes the necessary conditions by which the Upper Light comes from the king through Mordechai to all of the inhabitants of Babylon and ultimately to Esther.

Subsequently, a son was born to Esther who became the king of Babylon. He helped the people of Israel to return from the Babylonian exile to the land of Israel and build the Second Temple (Beit ha Mikdash). This is known to us from history since the Megillat Esther (Scroll of Esther) doesn’t talk about it. This allegorical story ends with Mordechai becoming the assistant of the king, meaning that all of the Light passes through him from above to below and extends to the entire large kingdom.

The events that are talked about in Scroll of Esther happened around 2,500 years ago between the destruction of the First Temple and the construction of the Second Temple. They belong to the end of the second period of exile in Babylon.

Today, we are at the end of the last exile of 2,000 years and are ascending to the building of the Third Temple.

The Temple is the general global Kli of receiving that was planned in ancient Babylon 3,500 years ago when Abraham began to explain to the Babylonians that they must all connect. However, no one would listen to him, except for a handful of a few thousand people. Ultimately, all of the inhabitants of Babylon became scattered all over the world.

In fact, today, we are in the same situation of Shevira (Breaking) as in ancient Babylon in the time of Abraham, and what happened to Abraham and his group in the time of Mordechai and Esther a thousand years after they left Babylon must now happen with us again.

It is up to us to understand that the revelation must happen, but only to the degree of the integration between us (that is what Mordechai was talking about). First, this will be accompanied by the rise of big egos, and these will be very serious obstacles. Second, the ascent must be realized with the help of the active participation of the serious feminine part.

No source talks about the importance of the feminine part in the completion of correction of all of humanity, except the Scroll of Esther The name Esther indicates Hastera (Concealment), and what this indicates is that, even though the work of the feminine part is apparently in concealment, it has a very great importance in correction.

There is no need to fear the revelation of the ego. Rather, it must be understood that it is revealed in order to be able to use it correctly. So, it makes no difference that it wants to rise up and dominate us, causing all kinds of disagreements among us. It is up to us to stop it in time.

So, it is clear to us that we can find a connection with the Creator, with the king, and with the help of Esther and Mordechai (the attributes of bestowal) that are found in us, we can adjust and correct everything so that we unite all of the desires together, including the most egoistic desires of Haman, and ultimately, we will bring the entire world to one shared Kli full of Light.

That is what is talked about in Scroll of Esther. The Purim holiday is dedicated to this.

Purim is from the word “Pur,” the lots that apparently are arranged between Mordechai and Haman because it is not clear with whom it is necessary to advance. A person is found in such a great internal split that sometimes he doesn’t know what to do.

Purim is preceded by another spiritual action, embodied in our world under the name Yom Kippurim (a day like Purim – Ke Purim) when we discover empty desires that we are able to fulfill because of a lack of Ohr Hassadim. So, on Yom Kippur (the Day of Atonement), we don’t eat and don’t drink as a symbol that our desires cannot be fulfilled because they lack the correction of the Ohr Hassadim, desire for the purpose of bestowal, intention for the sake of bestowal.

Between Yom Kippurim and Purim, there is another holiday, the Hanukkah holiday. On those days, we light a Menorah, and this activity symbolizes the Ohr Hassadim that rises from below to above in order to bestow. This means that the desires that we discovered on Yom Kippurim we correct on Hanukkah through Ohr Hassadim and prepare them for Purim when they still will become filled with Ohr Hochma. These three events continue one after the other and symbolize the discovery of the empty Kli, its filling through Ohr Hassadim, and after that, its filling through Ohr Hochma.
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From the Fundamentals Of Kabbalah 2/24/13

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Emptiness Is An Opportunity For Fulfillment

Laitman_003.jpgQuestion: Why do people begin to feel emptiness along with the thirst for spirituality?

Answer: Because this feeling of emptiness is an opportunity for fulfillment. All we need to do is to develop it and turn it into a feeling that draws and attracts the upper knowledge and feeling from the outside. A vessel will be formed in this emptiness, which means a sensor for feeling the upper world. Emptiness is the initial feeling necessary for attaining the next world.
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From the Kabbalah Lesson in Russian 1/10/16

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About The Outcomes Of The Convention

laitman_938_04The world convention that took place not long ago is a very serious phase, but it is over.

Unfortunately we don’t feel the pain of not being incorporated in others yet. I don’t feel any pain of not living in the heart of others; I have no feeling that I want to break away from myself and be in others, but cannot do so and so I feel pain. I don’t feel that it pressures me so much and worries me so that it is the reason that I ask for and cry out, but we are nearing that.

Still, it was a very serious effort in moving toward the goal. I don’t know how to measure it since we are moving along a path that has never been taken, and there are no examples we can learn from, but I believe that in another two or three such conventions, if people will hold on, if they feel a greater need to delve more deeply into each other, everything will be solved. This is what the coming conventions are for, and there is no going back. I have to live in the heart of the friend, inside it; I am not here. I exist there with all my soul.

Question: Will questions and workshops be only in this direction from now on?

Answer: Only in order to be as one man in one heart. This is a precondition without which we cannot reach spirituality. The point is not the Creator, but the friend’s heart. We have felt it now; we had access to it, and although there was not a clear demand for that yet, no attack and the accumulation of pain, it will happen.

Now we will work on it systematically and will hold a series of conventions in America and Russia and then in Israel again. A person should feel pain from not being in his friend’s heart. He yearns for that, but cannot. Something is holding him back, but he really wants to be inside his heart. He wants to work with his own desires like Malchut while the nine desires before him are the desires of his friends, their yearning for the Creator and not his own. The powers are his while the yearning is of the friends.
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From KabTV’s “News with Michael Laitman” 2/26/16

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Should One Be Sensitive To The Suffering Of Others?

laitman_528_01Question: If I don’t feel the suffering of others, am I insensitive or smart?

Answer: There is no need to feel the suffering of others, but the suffering of a group of people with identical opinions so that your shared pain and common desire to find a connection with the Creator will bring you to discovering Him between you.

There is nothing else. Either you want the Light or you will become ill from discovering darkness, one of the two. You call this by different names, suffering, pain, illness, and the like. A lack of Light is the origin of all suffering.

If you have a Kli, a desire that is ready to receive the Light, to absorb it into itself, to be filled with it, but you don’t make the effort to fill it, then that is felt as suffering.
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From the Kabbalah Lesson in Russian 1/3/16

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The Formula For Revealing The Creator

laitman_232_10Question: Einstein came up with the formula for energy. Can you give us the formula for the revelation of the Creator that everyone would understand and can you explain it so that we would constantly be able to remember how to do it and check ourselves?

Answer: You should think only that you are dealing with the good Creator, always and in all circumstances, and never leave this thought.
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A Cup Of Coffee Or How To Give Pleasure To The Creator

laitman_543_02Question: Can I determine independently which of the 125 spiritual levels I am on now?

Answer: It is possible, but the question is how will you measure your state? What do you know about yourself?

First of all, a person must acquire tools, measuring instruments, for these parameters. A unit of measure for a spiritual state would be one gram of bestowal, one gram of the force with which the person bestows. In this world, we don’t possess tools and instruments like these because we don’t have these units of measurement.

Let’s suppose that someone approaches me and wants to make coffee for me in my coffeemaker. At first, I am doubtful because I feel sorry about wasting electricity, coffee, and water, and after that, even milk, sugar or honey. But in the end, so I won’t appear stingy and so that I won’t be condemned and hated, and in order not to get treated the same way in the future, I agree.

However, even if I make an effort to arouse absolutely pure thoughts about people within me and want to give them pleasure without making any calculations, how much could I measure the amount that I bestow? Is it through the amount of coffee, sugar, milk, water, electricity, and the depreciation of my coffeemaker? How do I do it?

It follows that we don’t have the tools and instruments for measuring the force of bestowal, so we cannot understand where we are. However, if a person ascends the spiritual ladder, he can measure precisely where he is in relation to his ego, in relation to all of the conditions. There is no deviation in any direction there. All of the counting, the initial ones, the changes, further changes, and so forth are connected together to give a person an account of where he is.

Together with this, a person must always observe himself and see how he can use himself and for what. In the spiritual world, a person is no longer a puppet managed from above. Rather, he does everything consciously. The entire system is under him. He is included in it and gradually can run it. Instead of carrying out all kinds of automatic actions unconsciously, he must manage those actions, meaning that he thinks about them and makes decisions.

Question: Your example with the coffee impresses me. Suppose that I drank the coffee. It was very tasty, and I tell you that. How would you react then?

Answer: I would begin to get pleasure from your saying this to me, that you respect me.

However, the next time, it would be much more difficult for me to prepare coffee for you because another calculation would come. I would begin trying to clarify if I am giving you the coffee so that you would respect me even more, and it could be the other way around. I would not do anything for you when I get the feeling that I am working against my egoistic desires. So, when I clarify that I am doing this and discover that I am doing this so that you would begin to respect me, I would prefer not to do it, and you would not receive any pleasure. That is, I must oppose my egoistic thoughts and prepare the coffee for you in spite of everything. But on the next level, I must not take your attitude toward me into account. This is an entirely different matter.

Question: Where is the Creator in this entire scenario of calculations? There is coffee, there is you, and there is me. Where is the Creator?

Answer: The Creator is not in this scenario if I do not insert Him into it myself. Inserting Him into the scenario amounts to the meaning of life. If it weren’t for the Creator, I would never prepare the coffee for you. After all, this is talking about giving someone pleasure with no compensation. If I expect bestowal from you in return, it means that I am not bestowing.

For what would I want to attain a state of full bestowal? It is to give pleasure to the Creator. So, I am ready to make coffee for you, and I am not making the coffee for you, but to give pleasure to the Creator. This is a requirement for a spiritual level. What’s next?

Let’s suppose that I am doing this for the sake of the Creator, and now the Creator treats me well. Will I need to get that good attitude from Him? If I get that kind of attitude from Him, then we have a transactional relationship. How can I reach a state in which I bestow to Him, to you, or to any person with no calculation? Can I do this?

If I am an egoist, I cannot bestow without compensation. I need to fulfill my ego in the same way that one must fill a car with gasoline so that it will run. This means that I must insert a pipe into my ego and fill it. Only after I have filled it can I bestow. When I fill my ego again, I will be able to bestow again. However, if I bestow and am filled only after that, this becomes a problem.

I must be sure that I will be filled. If that succeeds for me, then good. If not, then that’s it; the pipeline of trust ceases to exist. If I truly want to bestow, the Creator must change my nature. I see that billions of people pray to the Creator, do everything that He says, each one according to his understanding, but there is no benefit from their actions.

How can we humans achieve a relationship with the Creator so that He will be able to change our nature so that we won’t depend on our ego? After all, somehow He can help us rise above ourselves since He created the creatures, meaning that only He can change our nature.

So, a person must begin to act in the direction of bestowal. In the meantime, since he cannot bestow without compensation, he asks the Creator to help him so that he would be able to bestow in one direction. If a person truly has a drive toward this, the Creator brings him to a group. It could be that the person was in it even before then, but he didn’t know how to use it and what to do with it. It could be that this same person even carried out everything that the Kabbalists say automatically, but there is no benefit in this.

Now, he is beginning to understand that when he is working with his friends, when he seems to be bestowing to them, he is receiving from them, and they all intend for the Creator to make it possible for them to operate in one direction without receiving any response in return, with no compensation, no future benefit, with no calculations. Then, the group has become a laboratory for him in which he is beginning to change and shape himself as an immaterial creature who can bestow without receiving anything in return.

But the person himself cannot do anything. He just receives energy from the Light that the Creator gives him. It is as if a pipe has been inserted into a person, like at a gas station. Through it, he becomes filled, and then he can bestow.

There is a normal cycle in nature: a person bestows to others in order to bestow to the Creator, and when the Creator sees that a person can bestow, in exchange, He gives him the energy there. However, this is not a payment, but the potential to bestow.

This energy is called the Upper Light. It comes and fills the person by making it possible for him to bestow. Eventually, the person begins to work without pay.

There is a very simple reciprocal relationship between the person and the Creator here. The person understands that if the Creator created him and the Creator created his ego, the Creator must make it possible for him to work with this ego, and this is not a payment, but the potential and opportunity to work.
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From the Kabbalah Lesson in Russian 1/10/16

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Answers To Your Questions, Part 126

laitman_571_03Question: How can we “attract” the Light that Reforms if it is at absolute rest? After all, it is said, “For I, the Lord, have not changed” (Malachi 3:6). So, all changes and movements are only on the background of the Light, which is permanent.

Answer: Movement is in our desires, not our thoughts, in the yearning to come closer to each other and to the absolute fixed Light and us.

Question: What does it mean to be connected with the friends throughout the day?

Answer: This is my constant internal dialog with them, not just by telephone, and this is my attitude to the world group.
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You Are Where Your Thoughts Are

Laitman_032_01Question: Can saying to yourself that there is only the Creator protect you from disturbances, or is this only a psychological self-deception?

Answer: No, it isn’t only psychological. This is how a person is built. If you repeat the expression, “There is none else besides Him,” all of the time in every situation you encounter in life, you cannot imagine what it can teach you.

It isn’t just a mantra that you say because you have been told to say “hocus pocus,” and you repeat that.

If a person tries to connect any situation in this world with its source, if he connects the group and the Creator to himself, it constantly keeps him in the right direction and helps him to advance.
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From the Kabbalah Lesson in Russian 1/3/16

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Painful Birth

laitman_284_06Question: Why is a person’s birth always in great pain?

Answer: It is written in the Torah, “…in pain you shall bear children.” Spiritual birth cannot take place without pain, so giving birth in our world is painful; this is the root and branch.

Even elementary particles that connect feel pain in the creation of a new connection. Each particle must diminish its influence and obey the opposite particle and thus create a kind of conglomerate, a connection of opposite attributes.

If a new life is created—which means that the transformation becomes you are for me and I am for you, alternately—it turns out that everything is based on painful concessions.

When it comes to the birth of the next spiritual level, it is always painful since you must ascend above yourself, above your ego.
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From the Kabbalah Lesson in Russian 1/3/16

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