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I Wish Love To All!

Laitman_632_1Question: It is unclear what love toward friends and love toward the Creator are. What is love?

Answer: Love is a desire to fill another person with something that is good for him.

Everything else is a pure egoistic use of others. Everything we see around us is the use of one person by another one. We call it love.

In fact, love is a state when you take another person’s desires above your own and begin to fulfill them endlessly without giving to yourself. This makes you happy because you fulfill him.

Try and see that it is worth doing! The pleasure we will receive when we do this is perfect because it is not connected to the egoism. I wish this for everyone.
[197982]
From the Convention In Prague, Day One 9/10/16, Lesson 2

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Men And Women In The Spiritual Work

laitman_259_01Question: Why do women study separately from men?

Answer: Men and women should study separately so that they will not engage in corporeal forms of communication instead of in spirituality. The wisdom of Kabbalah doesn’t consider people to be angels, and so love and sexuality should not be mixed with spirituality. This is very important. This is the reason that men don’t study with women in a group of ten, and don’t sit together at the same table.

A group has to be made of two equal subgroups: the men’s group and the women’s group. Other than the study itself, they should help each other in preparing meals, cleaning, the maintenance of the facilities, etc.; the main thing is not to interfere in each other’s spiritual intentions. Wherever there are no spiritual intentions involved, there should be the usual mutual cooperation.

Question: Are there men and women in the world today whose level of development enables them to be in a group of ten together without interfering with each other’s spirituality?

Answer: There are many groups of ten men and many groups of ten women and each works wonderfully and advances, but it is still too early to combine them. They have to be behind a Masach (screen) above the Tzimtzum (restriction), in the attribute of bestowal, outside themselves, and this state has to be permanent. The groups should not be mixed during the spiritual work because if they are, their attention would be drawn to the sexual differences.
[197056]
From the Kabbalah Lesson in Russian 6/26/16

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To Go Straight To The Goal

Laitman_631_3Torah, Deuteronomy 13:06: And that prophet, or that dreamer of a dream shall be put to death.

A person can’t trust any of his qualities and senses: neither thoughts nor calculations. He should annul himself to zero, adhere to the upper governance, and begin to receive everything from there.

Disclosure of the upper governance gradually enters his system and only to this extent can a  person conform to the upper force. They are ready to work with the bestowing, and then with the receiving desires.

Therefore it is written: “put to death a dreamer” in you, who will constantly instigate you to go in a different direction. You should eradicate all the qualities that lead you away from the path.

Dreamers are the basis of a person’s lack of trust in the Creator, in faith above reason. After all, all one’s thoughts, knowledge, and experience can change very rapidly to the radically opposite, to such an extent that it is hard to believe.

For example, the results of modern discoveries in quantum physics already prove that there is no time, movement, space, and so on.

Everything in this movie happens in such a way that a person in his macrocosm absolutely does not agree with the microcosm. Nevertheless, he has to agree because the frontier experiments with the microcosm obliges him to do so.

He can’t get away from these results, and, therefore, although he doesn’t understand them, he accepts them. And later he tries logically to attach his mind to it. However, he succeeds only partially and for a short period of time.

Scientists will soon reach a dead end and understand that it is impossible to advance this way further. After all, in our senses we can’t imagine events that take place outside of time and space, and are closely interconnected with each other even though they are billions of light years away from each other.

It is a terrible state when you see the whole cosmogonic picture and compare it with the earthly one: what have we done here with our little animal egoism?
[197784]
From KabTV’s “Secrets of the Eternal Book” 7/13/16

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How Does One Attract The Upper Light?

laitman_939_02Question: How can I call the Upper Light for another person when I am indifferent toward him?

Answer: Gradually, by practicing together, you will begin to realize that if there isn’t any connection with others, it will not be possible for the Upper Light appear in the circulation between you.

And so you have no other choice but to be integrated with them and to create a system of connection between you in which the Upper Light will be manifested. The Upper Light is not revealed in a person himself but only in the connection between us.
[197882]
From the Kabbalah Lesson in Russian 8/28/16

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“For The Lord, Your God, Is Testing You…”

laitman_603Torah, Deuteronomy 13:2 – 13:4: If there will arise among you a prophet, or a dreamer of a dream, and he gives you a sign or a wonder, and the sign or the wonder of which he spoke to you happens, [and he] says, “Let us go after other gods which you have not known, and let us worship them,” you shall not heed the words of that prophet, or that dreamer of a dream; for the Lord, your God, is testing you, to know whether you really love the Lord, your God, with all your heart and with all your soul.

The Creator does everything that happens in the world. And He is very jealous. He constantly sends us all sorts of temptations so we can prove that we are still committed to Him. Moreover, the temptations are sent in such a way that we are sure that we are doing everything correctly and can’t disagree with them.

For example, I am told, “What is wrong with you? How can you act this way?! It can’t be that the Creator did this! Look, we have proof from Him! How can we listen to you? Sorry, but we’d rather listen to ourselves.”

And who says this? Not even strangers, but my own qualities within me. At this point, exactly these qualities and forces have the evidence and the authority that lead me sideways. It seems to me that this isn’t egoism but seemingly the right desires.

Did people know that they were going by the egoistic way during the destruction of the First and Second Temples?! Now we read about it in historical documents, but they thought that they were acting correctly, that there was no other way, and that this way they would be doing good and getting closer to the Creator! They were on a high spiritual level and were called the militant part of society.

We need to understand that the Creator plays with us seriously, and we must try to enlist external support in advance.

But today we are in a different tendency. The tendency at the time of both Temples was to bring people to a shattering, a dissipation, and a mixing with the rest of the nations of the world. Now, on the contrary, it is gathering and shaping people into one single system and distributing the force of connection from it outward. The connection gradually begins to emanate and spread to the rest of the nations of the world.

All of us together and each of us personally must change the direction, the paradigm, and correct many things. This is the choice of the spiritual path instead of the egoistic earthly existence.

Comment: We are used to direct evidence, experiments, and science that shows us the real results.

Response: Now, thanks to this same science, we are reaching a dead end, we’re up against the wall. Science throws its hands up and doesn’t know what to do. And it will occur on all levels.

Agricultural engineering, zoology, biology, and other simple earth sciences that people are engaged in will suddenly stop working. We’ll find ourselves in the world where we not only gradually lose the reins of control, but even the understanding of where we are and what we want to control.

First of all, we will see that we don’t have the reins in our hands, and secondly there are no “horses,” meaning the system that we used to control. There are none, we don’t see it; something revolves around, but everything is like in a dream.

Only in the wisdom of Kabbalah can we find an answer to the question of what is happening to us and what we should do in order to really take the system of control into our hands and become the creator of our destiny and the goal to which we must come.
[197365]
From KabTV’s “Secrets of the Eternal Book” 7/13/16

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Be Rich!

laitman_600_01Question: What is the spiritual meaning of money?

Answer: The word “money,” in Hebrew “Kesef,” from the word “Kissufim” stems from the root to yearn (which also implies a cover, a coating Masach, a screen), which means that we can build a screen in order to regain the Upper Light. and this is actually the way to get it back.

Therefore, in the spiritual sense of the word “money” is the power of reforming our ego and of attaining the revelation of the upper, of the Creator, by the Returning Light. This is the spiritual meaning of money.

The more anti-egoistic the screen a person has, the more he can reveal the upper world, the Creator, and thus become greater, attain more, and thus be called “rich.” It is because richness is measured by the degree of bestowal, by the degree of the attainment.

If I can receive the Upper Light and convey it through the screen to others, I am rich! It is because by conveying the Upper Light through me to others correctly, I receive a double portion of the Light. I have to receive it to perform an internal action of conveying to others and then I receive twice as much.

Not bad arithmetic, a good business! So engage in the wisdom of Kabbalah and be rich!
[196795]
From the Kabbalah Lesson in Russian 6/9/16

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What Does My Soul Want?

laitman_534Question: How is it possible to know exactly what my soul wants?

Answer: A person feels this when he begins to “hear.” While studying the wisdom of Kabbalah, he begins to feel that it is speaking about him. Something inside of him begins to happen, nothing more than this. It is not possible to work with the intellect here.

Question: Does that mean that logic will not help here at all?

Answer: The logic is very simple: You have encountered a method that creates a reaction within you that says this is right, but you don’t have egoistic, emotional, or intellectual evidence for this. After all, this is talking about the soul, about some kind of upper force that corrects you, reveals new possibilities for feeling that exist within you. All of this is too empyreal.

So only those people who truly want to discover the true, eternal, and perfect state for themselves will remain in the wisdom of Kabbalah.
[197088]
From the Kabbalah Lesson in Russian 8/28/16

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Everything For Spiritual Ascent

laitman_236_02Torah, Deuteronomy 12:29 – 12:30: When the Lord, your God cuts off the nations to which you will come to drive them out from before you, and when you drive them out and dwell in their land, beware, lest you be attracted after them, after they are exterminated from before you; and lest you inquire about their gods, saying, “How did these nations serve their gods? And I will do likewise.”

Nations are the internal qualities of a person. When he enters the land of Israel, he reveals terrible problems —his evil qualities called the nations of the world that pull him apart. Therefore, he should be very careful. On the one hand, a new level of attainment is revealed to him, but on the other hand, at the same time, it is the level of a curse.

As it is written, “I give you elevation and descent, either rise or fall, either blessing or curse.” All this runs in parallel because you can’t climb the spiritual degrees if you don’t discover terrible, unpleasant, vast egoistic layers within you and correct them. The ascent is built exactly on their correction.

A person that advances in the attainment of the spiritual world must rejoice that his egoism is growing and he is feeling he becomes worse. He loses the desire for spiritual elevation. He doesn’t want anything and becomes harder and rougher with others. All sorts of problems appear in his life. He sees the entire world, including himself as ugly and can’t do anything about it.

It reveals an egoistic level internally on himself and externally on everything else, up to the Creator. This is the egoism that has become much bigger than before the entrance into the egoistic level called the land of Israel. Now, on this level, a person will have to work seriously on himself.

The most important thing for him is to realize that all the falls, adversity, problems, and assaults from everywhere are required for his spiritual elevation. Suddenly, he is blamed for something, subjected to all kinds of claims from the surrounding society, pouring out his dislike, hatred, and disrespect. All this seriously hurts him, gives blows to his “I.”

Moreover, the problems also come from his family: wife, children, friends, and relatives.

Therefore, the most important thing is to understand that the Creator does all this, who out of love for us, He sends us adversities, wishing to attract us to Him. And we must learn to “kiss the stick.”

When it goes over our flesh, we can’t do anything. But later a person begins to think, to compare one with the other, to slowly come to understanding, and to make a small step forward. And so he moves in small steps. Every time the revelation of evil indicates that there is a rise ahead.

Question: Can you justify what is happening at this point?

Answer: No way! It is written, “There is no righteous man on earth who has done good and did not sin first.” The Creator prepared all the sins in advance and is only revealing them to us.

From the feelings inside “transgressions,” you realize that it is your whole world and you are in it, so you can’t see them from the side. People can talk beautifully about it, but when they get into such states they become absolutely complete participants and it is impossible to say anything to them.

By sinking into so-called sins, we can’t do anything, we don’t have any freewill in this.

The freewill is only in creating such an environment, such an atmosphere, that, despite the fall, would help us with its illumination from the distance to rise quicker and to start the spiritual ascent.
[197306]
From KabTV’s “Secrets of the Eternal Book” 7/13/16

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Don’t Withdraw Into Yourselves

laitman_947Question: Although I study the wisdom of Kabbalah, I encounter disappointments, worries, fears, and emotional turmoil. How can I cope with it correctly?

Answer: You have to be in the right environment, to study in a group of ten friends, a ten, to constantly be connected to them. Thus, you will not feel any descent and even your ups and downs will be smooth and moderate because they will immediately integrate into one system of ten Sefirot, which you build together with the friends.

If you withdraw into yourself and study by yourself, the states you undergo will be spiritually pointless. During the study we reach positive peaks and negative peaks, which need to be discharged just like an electric charge, and this happens in your relationship with the ten.
[194763]
From the Kabbalah Lesson in Russian 6/19/16

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What’s In A Name?

laitman_628_4Question: Is my name (the collection of letters) the seal of my life? Does a person’s name have significance?

Answer: A name doesn’t bear any particular characteristics. It doesn’t matter what a person is named. When a person is born, he or she is arbitrarily given a name and that is what he or she lives with.

Question: So a name doesn’t reflect a person’s fate or influence one in some way?

Answer: If a person changes his desires, so he changes his vessels. This vessel is already indicated by a different set of letters and this is one’s name at the moment.

Suppose he carries out some particular spiritual effort tomorrow and completely different forces appear in him with a different combination of Hassadim and Hochma. So again a new name appears for him. Therefore a person is new every day. He seems to be reborn with a new name, meaning with a new level.
[197078]
From the Kabbalah Lesson in Russian 7/17/16

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