How Can I Get What I Lack?
Question: I have studied many websites that speak about how to be happy or lucky, how to become rich or have many friends, or how to find yourself. But lately, they all have a common theme. They all claim that you need to learn how to give, and everything will happen. You will have friends, money, peace, and happiness, pretty much everything.
What is this trend suddenly manifesting in this way?
Answer: This is a correct observation of the human psyche. If a person is so attuned to bestowing and coming closer to others, he feels better and easier. He feels good.
Question: You keep saying that these are the laws of the spiritual worlds. Is this some kind of wave?
Answer: It is a wave. You are causing a positive wave. And it brings you what you really lack.
Question: What about the fact that now it manifests more and more?
Answer: Times are getting much tougher.
Question: In tough times, do we need to learn how to bestow?
Answer: Yes.
Question: Is there some kind of illumination coming from above?
Answer: This is the law of the world. That is, the world lacks the qualities of bestowal, love, care, and connection. Those who cultivate this in themselves feel it.
Comment: There is one more thing: they recommend doing it selflessly.
My Response: Naturally. Otherwise, what kind of bestowal is it?
Question: Is it possible?
Answer: It is possible to the extent an ordinary person understands selflessness. If a person wants things to be good in the world, naturally, he assumes that it will be good for him, either in this world or in the future world, no matter what he thinks, but it really makes him feel good.
Question: So let him assume that it will make him feel good?
Answer: Yes.
Question: I see. Then, let us move on to the spiritual worlds. What is pure selfless bestowal?
Answer: It is without any intention for your own sake.
Question: And for whom, for what?
Answer: For the sake of humanity, for the sake of everyone, or for the sake of the Creator.
Question: Is there not even a grain of me there?
Answer: As much as a person can take this into account.
Question: Let us say an absolute, full bestowal.
Answer: Then this is really the greatest action!
Question: Is it when I am not there at all? Am I just a bestowing one and that is it? Is it possible to purify yourself to such an extent?
Answer: Yes, before death.
Question: What death are you talking about now?
Answer: About the death of a person.
Question: Even just the death of a body?
Answer: Yes.
Question: Is this when luck, success in work, and money are not waiting for you ahead?
Answer: Yes, when you do not expect anything anymore, then you can expect that if you give everything here, you will get a little there!
Question: But do you still hope to get it there?
Answer: Yes. Subconsciously, a person always thinks so.
Comment: When, for example, a clinical death occurs and a person returns and says: “Such cleanliness, such peace, such open spaces there! I am flying!” Is it because a person cuts himself off from egoism?
My Response: Of course. He gets rid of egoism a little bit, and he feels good.
Question: And during his lifetime, what about during his lifetime?
Answer: Do the same in your lifetime.
Question: So, can I try it?
Answer: Of course. Cut yourself off from egoism so that you are not striving to receive anything; you are ready to accept everything that you have, everything that the Creator gives you every second, and that is it; you are happy.
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From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman” 12/11/23
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