Conflicts Within A Person

628.2Question: Is there a difference between the methods of solving external interpersonal conflicts and internal conflicts in a person? Or are they suitable for both cases?

Answer: In principle, yes. But inside a person, conflicts are resolved a little differently because one must see both sides of the argument.

Comment: Let’s say, I want to go outside and consider whether to wear a mask or not. There is an internal conflict. On one hand, I am a bit cautious about infecting others. On the other hand, it is uncomfortable to breathe and there seems to be no one around. So, a person constantly makes some calculations, conflicts arise in one every second.

Answer: With a mask, it is quite simple. The fact is that there are specialists who understand how the virus spreads. And if they say that you should wear a mask, then you accept it and put one on even if no one is around.

This gives me the opportunity to be honest with myself and with nature.
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From KabTV’s “Management Skills” 7/16/20

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Compass For Making Decisions

571.04Question: In order to make a correct decision, do you need to detach yourself from feelings and emotions? Is it better to try to find a logical solution to the problem?

Answer: You need both. Man is a complex system that includes the heart and the mind. We cannot be guided only by the mind neglecting the heart, and vice versa. We simply need to balance these two systems in the middle line, and then we will make the right decisions.

Question: A person should try to connect all decisions with the laws of nature. Can you give an example of how to make such a decision?

Answer: There are only two laws in nature, either reception or bestowal.

The law of bestowal is faith above reason, the quality of universal connection and love. Come to this level, connect yourself to this law, and then you can correctly solve the problem.

In other words, before making a decision, you must understand how the law of reception and how the law of bestowal works. And the harmony between them should become your compass when making a decision.
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From KabTV’s “Management Skills” 6/11/20

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Daily Kabbalah Lesson – 10/16/20

Preparation to the Lesson

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Lesson on the Topic of “Bereshit

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Writings of Baal HaSulam, “Ten Sefirot, Vol. 3, Part 8, Item 5″

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Lesson on the Topic of “The Law of the Arvut (Mutual Guarantee)”

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