Why Are We Given Unattractive Qualities?
Pride is one of the four animalistic qualities of our world. It is written that we do not need to work directly with these qualities.
There are four types of animalistic foundations within us, which are projections of fire, water, air, and earth onto our matter. They also exist on spiritual levels.
In relation to the Creator, I have a measure of laziness, a measure of passion, a measure of pride, and so on. But this is only in relation to the Creator when I use these properties to bring myself closer to Him.
All four types of properties are then transformed into the four Behinot (phases): Hochma, Bina, Tifferet, and Malchut. And what is written about a proud person, “He and I cannot dwell in the same abode,” refers to the most pronounced form of the desire to receive.
What is pride? It is when I feel that it is my entire essence and I cannot refuse it. My “I” is more important than everything else, more important than any other person, and more important than the Creator. This is what is called the “Pharaoh” within a person. “Who is the Creator that I should obey His voice?” It is me who rules, not Him, and not anyone else.
If a person possesses this quality, and it has not yet been corrected, that is, if the Pharaoh within him has not yet returned to faith, then that person cannot be connected with the Creator and adhere to Him. How can there be equivalence of qualities? How can there be bestowal? If the Pharaoh were to use his desire to receive for the sake of bestowal, he would become the holiest of all, and the final correction would come. The Pharaoh is all of our matter, our entire nature.
At the same time that you are the greatest egoist, you may also feel like the greatest nobody, a complete zero, utterly contemptible. One does not negate the other.
The question is why am I able to perceive these things. Because if I look only at my pride and do not examine it using a principle taken from the upper world, then I will not see that pride is something protruding, something interfering, and I will not realize that it is not me, but rather some quality that has clothed itself on me.
However, if, at the same time, the upper light comes to me and illuminates me, then I acquire several discernments. First, I see that I am a proud in comparison to His qualities. Second, I see that the quality of the light is the opposite of pride. Then I have these two points of reference in my hands.
This also does not prevent me from gaining an understanding of my other qualities. One must understand that these are forms of the desire to receive that exist within me and they cannot disappear.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 7/16/26, Rabash, “What Should One Do If He Was Born with Bad Qualities?”
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