Three Conditions of a True Request to the Creator

276.01Question: I heard when one of your students said that “I am trying, I am asking,” you responded: “You are asking poorly.”

What is the correct request to the Creator? What state must a person reach in order to truly ask the Creator for correction?

Answer: A true request consists of several conditions.

The first condition is that I am desperately missing something specific, and I know exactly what it is. At the same time, I cannot replace my request with anything else; it is so urgent that it would be better to die than not to receive it.

The second condition is whom to turn to, from whom to ask. That is, it is not enough that I lack something, I must know exactly who has it. In other words, there is a source from which I can receive. I need to identify Him and know precisely that exactly what I need is there, one to one.

The third condition is to be certain that this source responds to me. It is not just a wall that I will bang my head against and achieve nothing. It is a source that perhaps is even waiting for me to turn to Him. He has a kind heart, a kind attitude toward me, and He is just waiting for me to turn to Him. But first of all is to turn specifically to Him and secondly with the most urgent request.

In addition, it is possible that He has another condition, that I should rejoice at the opportunity to turn to Him because thanks to my realization that exactly He has what I desire, I have found Him. That is the most important thing! Because my entire hunger and what He has to satisfy my hunger is merely a reason to establish contact with Him.

That is when the request is genuine. That is, it is not for the sake of quenching hunger and getting something from Him but in order to connect with Him, above hunger and its satisfaction. Then this request will truly bring its result, the unification between us.
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From KabTV’s “I Got a Call. How to Ask the Creator Correctly” 8/27/10

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Achishena—The Method of Self-Directed Advancement

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Achishena (“hastening time”) means self-directed advancement. Each of us knows how we came to the wisdom of Kabbalah. At a certain point in time, a person suddenly receives a kind of awakening from an unknown source and begins to search.

He feels a lack of meaning in life, finds no taste in anything, and is driven somewhere without knowing what exactly he is looking for until he eventually finds it.

The sources say that it is the Creator who brings him to a special place, to a special society that is also engaged in searching for the meaning of life and tries to answer the question: “What is the essence of our existence? What is the meaning of the existence of the whole world, of all of nature, and even of what lies beyond it?”

Ultimately, these questions brought us to the point where we found our group, our organization, our society, in which the most important goal is to attain the meaning of life and the meaning of existence itself.

When we came to the group, we were ready to invest ourselves and do whatever was needed. We wanted to be accepted into the group, to integrate into it quickly, become one of them, and move forward as fast as possible. We were driven by our desire.

In this way, the Creator awakens a person, brings him to the right place, gives him the desire, the aspiration, the inner pressure, and as a result, the person does everything. He becomes involved in the group, studies, and applies all possible efforts just to realize this desire.

But then this desire suddenly fades away and disappears. Where does it go? We do not know. The Creator takes back the yearning that He previously aroused in the person so that the person can begin to create it within himself on his own.

But how can a person do this when he knows nothing? While he studies, reads, and absorbs the material, many years may pass. In Kabbalah, this latent developmental period may last 10 to 15 years, and this is considered normal. However, today we see an acceleration of this process, and now it takes much less time.

A person begins to realize that everything within him is just a desire, and that it is entirely governed by the Creator. The Creator holds him from above “by the scruff of the neck.” In Kabbalah, this is expressed very simply: “The heart of man is in the hands of the Creator.” “Heart” refers to our desires.

Therefore, whether the desire is greater or lesser, what it is directed toward, what we want in life—none of this is ours! Absolutely none of it! Our only role is to reach the awareness that all of this comes from the Creator, and that we are dealing only with Him.

Then we begin to feel that we are in a state of concealment. In fact, even the word “world” (Olam) comes from the word “Helem,” which means concealment. The world is the concealment of the Creator, and our task is to reveal Him.

For this, the Creator has only two systems of governance. One is called “Beito” (in its time), and the other is “Achishena” (hastening time).

If we want to work correctly, we must form a group. A person cannot have his own desire since his heart is in the hands of the Creator. But the group can create certain conditions that are above each individual friend, and they can operate in place of the Creator, seemingly even against the Creator.

That is, the group can awaken the Creator as the source of the upper force, the source of light, so that He arbitrarily changes our desires, if the group decides this together. The Creator will always listen to what happens within the group. For this reason the Kabbalists instruct us how to act.

But under all circumstances, we must not break away from the thought, and if possible, from the feeling that we are in total connection with the Creator, and that everything that happens within us comes solely from Him through absolute goodness. “There is none else besides Him.”

As soon as we tune ourselves to such a perception of the world, of ourselves, and of all circumstances, they begin to appear differently.

Just as at the beginning of our path when a person comes to the group because a desire was awakened in him to reveal the Creator—although he did not yet know that the desire was for the Creator, for that singular force of nature that governs everything—and then that desire disappears, this repeats over and over again.

The Creator arouses an impulse in each of us, and we rejoice in it. We think it comes from us, or that we received it from Him. But when the desire fades, we do not think it came from Him; we do not recognize His “flirtation” with us, we do not feel that He simply withdrew a bit from us, as we do from a small child when we want to teach him to walk. We forget this; we do not feel it.

Here, great help is needed from the group to remember it. This is where the path of Achishena begins, when we—on our own initiative and with clear intention—do not let go of the Creator. He distances Himself from us, and we, as a group, like little children, take a step toward Him. Despite His retreat, we take another step. He steps back; we take another step. This is how we learn to walk.

But one person alone cannot do this. He must be within a group to receive support from it, to avoid forgetting that everything is happening for a reason, that nothing is accidental. It is not fate, events in the world, the family, or at work that affect him to the point where he forgets everything and loses all motivation.

None of that exists! There is only one upper governance; the Creator withdraws the excitement that came from Him and wants us to awaken ourselves with a yearning for Him. This is the path of Achishena, the method of self-directed advancement.

We cannot implement it alone, but only through the group. Through the group, we can awaken upon ourselves the influence of the Creator’s force and begin to communicate with Him. Because within the group, with the correct relationship and connection between the friends, we detect this force, we reveal it, and then we begin to move on our own.

What does it mean to move on our own? The Creator distances Himself more and more, and we try each time not to fall into concealment of the Creator, and continue to affirm that He did this to us, that “there is none else besides Him,” and that everything is only from the perspective of absolute good.

This is how we advance.
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From the Convention in St. Petersburg 7/29/2016, Lesson 1

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Foundation for the Spiritual Structure

165Friends must strive for connection between them and from that point turn to the Creator and demand adhesion (Dvekut). In this case, the teacher is the messenger of the Creator leading you to Him.

Adhesion with the teacher is a solid foundation (Yesod) upon which a spiritual building can be erected. Yesod is the upper quality in relation to Malchut. Therefore, when a person stands on one hand in Yesod, and on the other in Malchut, a connection forms between one’s current state and the future one.

The foundation (Yesod) is built when a person attributes it to a higher degree and is willing to exert efforts to detach from one’s present state and rise upward to a more elevated state. A person must ask the Creator for the ability to ascend higher and higher.
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From the 2nd part of the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 5/5/2025, Writings of Baal HaSulam “Things that Come from the Heart”

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Why Did the Concept of “Mutual Guarantee” Disappear

511.01During the period of the First Temple, the leaders of the people were prophets, individuals who were in close connection with the Creator on a very special level.

The entire nation was in contact with the Creator, but the prophets were connected to Him in a unique, revealed way, corresponding to their Aviut (spiritual coarseness). They attained much more than what the Aviut developing and being corrected in the people at that time allowed.

But when the nation returned from Babylon, a different period began, called the period of the sages. There were no longer any prophecies, but there was a different connection with the upper, on the level of Mochin deNeshama (mind of the soul), yet the mutual guarantee within the nation was no longer all-encompassing. Part of the people were in mutual guarantee with one another and therefore in attainment of the upper, while another part of the nation no longer was.

This lasted until the time of the Second Temple, until even that declined and reached the level of unfounded hatred. The desire to receive had grown so much in people that they were no longer able to carry out the necessary corrections, and so the law of mutual guarantee simply ceased to exist.

The Second Temple was destroyed, and on the material level, the flaw that had arisen between souls was revealed, and the nation went into exile.

Exile is a special state in which it is impossible in practice even to carry out or desire mutual guarantee. The very concept that one must be a guarantor for another became concealed, and this idea seemed to disappear.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 5/4/2025, Writings of Baal HaSulam “The Arvut (Mutual Guarantee)”

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Exercise: “In Connection with the Creator”

938.02Let us do a small exercise of trying to internally attune ourselves to an absolute, perfect connection with the Creator.

The Creator is completely governing us now, is opposite our feelings, thoughts, intentions, and actions, in everything that is within a person. There is nothing left in us that is not in complete connection with the Creator.

And now let us try to maintain control over this state and try to guard it constantly so that it does not become blurred, but instead becomes ever sharper. If some interference arises and a thought runs away somewhere, we still try to draw it back in such a way that, thanks to the disturbance, we further strengthen the connection with the Creator in our feelings, in all sorts of sensations, and we constantly keep ourselves in this.

We try to feel that the friends are also in the same inner concentration on the Creator and we all together wish to support each other in this. Even more, even more effort—to try so that everyone is just as focused on the Creator as I am.

And then we imagine Him as something common, one for all. We are constantly directed only toward Him alone, and we help each other focus only on Him.

We unite among ourselves in mutual help so that we no longer feel that it is I who am constantly holding the Creator in front of me as “there is none else besides Him” and “the good that does good,” but that we all together are striving toward Him. And if He is one for everyone, then we are one.

And if this is not yet possible, then I must care even more that a friend does not break their connection with the Creator. I want to be inside him, to help him in this.

In principle, we should constantly be in such exercises. Baal HaSulam writes in his Letter 17 that “Israel, the Torah, and the Creator are one,” that we must be directed straight toward the goal and try not to deviate from this path in any case, because otherwise a growing error will occur and we will find ourselves away from the goal.

Such constant striving is precisely the realization of the method of Achishena. We must think about how every person who comes into the group integrates into it. And to integrate into the group means to renew our efforts every day, to elevate them to a higher level, to direct them more precisely toward the Creator, toward oneself, and among each other.

The main thing is not to disconnect from this. That is, all my thoughts and discussions with friends must be included in the same intention—to be together facing the Creator—and in no case should I deviate from this. All disturbances must only increase the connection between us and with Him.
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From the Convention in St. Petersburg 7/29/2016, Lesson 1

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Kabbalah Is the Language of Feelings

275Question: How should we deal with a reluctance to study “The Preface to the Wisdom of Kabbalah” (“Pticha“)?

Answer: Just as in our world there are scientists and poets, those who favor humanities or technology, the same applies in Kabbalah. Some people are emotional by nature.

They come to the wisdom of Kabbalah, and for them the connection with the Creator is expressed through more emotional texts, expressions, possibly songs, dance, and certain sensations.

And then there are people who approach the world technically. They need a blueprint: draw it for them, and they will understand. Or they want everything to be strictly structured and systematized, and so on.

That is why it is so important for us to study both aspects. Over time a person will naturally lean toward their own specialization. In every group, there will be those who are more emotional and those who are more practical, but we all need to follow a common path.

The common path is the one given to us by the ARI and Baal HaSulam. You look at the diagrams and see not just a graphic representation, but a representation of feelings.

I can sketch some squiggle, and instead of talking about it for ten minutes, you just look at it and it becomes clear what it is about, just like we convey our feelings through words.

In essence, all of Kabbalah is a language of feelings because the foundation of creation is desire.
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From the Kabbalah Lesson 4/4/19, Q&A with Dr. Michael Laitman

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