My Comment: Yes. Experience has to come, be born, from one’s own mistakes. If there are no mistakes, there is no experience. It cannot be that a person reaches any correct conclusions if he did not make mistakes.
Question: Is it possible that a person does not make mistakes?
Answer: No. A person cannot do the correct thing if he has not made a mistake in it before.
Question: Does he have regrets that he made mistake?
Answer: It is this regret that produces a correct action.
Question: Do we pass this experience to our children?
Answer: You want to pass it to your children, but they must make mistakes.
Question: Will they have their own experience?
Answer: Of course.
Question: Does it mean that our experience will not help them?
Answer: There is no need. Each generation must make mistakes and come to the correct conclusion and thus move forward.
Remark: That is, everyone has absolutely their own experience. It is the experience of mistakes.
My Comment: Without this, you do not receive clear information, data, sensations, anything, if you did not experience it in all these situations.
Remark: Quote: “If you accidentally got angry, give the anger a chance to stay overnight—just keep quiet until morning.”
My Comment: From our life, we see that this is good. This is called “the one who shuts his mouth during the conflict with the other.”
Question: How can a person do that?
Answer: Through exercises.
Question: What happens in the morning? Will I not be as angry as I was before with this person?
Answer: No, on the contrary, maybe you will be grateful to him.
Remark: Quote: “There are two methods to rise above your neighbor: the first is to rise above yourself, and the second is to put down your neighbor. It is not advisable to use the second method. Rather than digging a pit for someone else, throw these forces at creating a hill for yourself.”
My Comment: It is always worthwhile to rise above yourself. You are growing in this way. Thus, there is no need to pay attention to the other, even from the egotistic point of view. Instead, rise above yourself to some new, more perfect state.
Question: Is it possible to rise above myself at all?
Answer: Of course, every minute.
Remark: Usually, we do something very different, we put down the other.
My Comment: You use the other in order to rise above yourself by accepting his point of view.
Question: Is this called that I annul myself?
Answer: I annul my previous self in order to make an upper one out of myself.
Question: This quote has an interesting ending. It says that if you use the second method, that is, put down the other, you are building a hill for yourself. Does it mean a grave mound?
Answer: Of course.
Question: In other words, if you put down the other, is this in fact your death?
Answer: Yes. On the contrary, rise above others, use this opportunity. Use the other, his criticism, his attitude toward you, let go of yourself, bend down, and then you will rise above yourself.
Remark: Quote: “Do not be too sweet or they will eat you up. Do not be too bitter or they will spit you out.”
My Comment: I say what I think is right. This is what I have “on a platter,” as they say, this is what I give you. You choose: is this sweet or bitter for you, or you can throw it away altogether. Let people see that this is who I am.
Question: What about the fact that people want to see you sweet and you are bitter? A person needs to follow somebody. They are looking for someone to follow.
Answer: Well, it is not necessary to follow me. In any case, I am like this, I will not change! I believe that what I say anyone can understand.
Whether he agrees or not is up to him but at least he will understand. I speak my opinion, I do not alter myself to his opinion so that he will listen to me or respect me and make sure that he is right. I do not do that.
From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman” 6/22/20