Answer: Only with the right interrelations because you and your friends are in ever-changing, very complex relationships.
Try to bring these states to the correct, mutual, and complete unification. Rise above your egoism, include your friends in your embrace, and help them despite all the problems (and the problems are interesting, permanent, and ruthless.) You will start from two mutually opposite states of absolute mutual separation, even hatred, and a state of love, attraction, and will build all kinds of bridges between yourselves.
A network of connections will gradually be interwoven from this, a spiritual vessel, then the Creator will appear.
From KabTV’s “Fundamentals of Kabbalah,” 3/1/20