Remark: Kabbalah speaks of the importance of the environment, which would support the view that only the revelation of the Creator can be the motivation for creating a family.
My Comment: But this environment should not be the same as in a village, in a country, or in a small town where the public opinion of a poorly educated mass puts pressure on young people and obliges them to start a family and exist this way.
Question: Is this an education process, where from school age, a person should receive an explanation about the difference between masculine and feminine, the purpose of creation, and what is the Creator? If so, this doesn’t seem simple.
Answer: Indeed, all this will need to be explained. It is thanks to this upbringing that we will return to the family again, but in a different form.
We see that we are leaving the state when we need a family. In the past, people at the age of 16 to 18 thought about it and created it; today this isn’t the case.
Question: Is the family, as the basis for the connection between people, the beginning of the path of a person’s spiritual development?
Answer: A person will grow spiritually mainly from the family. If we are talking about a Kabbalistic group, this is a completely different matter, and if about the masses, then the family is the basis.
Question: Is the family a model where I have a positive attitude toward my spouse and children because it is inherent in me by nature?
Answer: Not only. It will be such a model in which you develop spiritually. In addition, there will be male and female groups in which men and women develop separately where they receive upliftment, inspiration, and spiritual charge, and they realize them in the family among themselves.
Question: In principle, will these two cells remain two types of environment?
Answer: Yes. Male and female groups, man and woman in the family and their children, this will practically be the structure of society.
From KabTV’s “Fundamentals of Kabbalah,” 1/1/19