Answer: Nothing. Let her order him around, so what? What’s important is what a woman does with regard to her spiritual advancement.
There should be coordination and cooperation between the sexes, one for the sake of the other because one cannot break through to the upper world without the other.
It is just as my teacher Rabash used to say: Love is a domestic animal that has to be fed all the time, growing through mutual concessions.
From the Kabbalah Lesson in Russian 3/6/16