Spiritual Development Can Be Learned From Babies

new A question I received: How can I find the inner qualities that The Zohar describes if I don’t understand any of it and can’t connect to it?

My Answer: We are like babies who don’t know what kind of world they exist in, but are in the loving hands of their mother and relatives who provide them with everything necessary for their growth. A baby just has to desire to grow up, and nature helps by providing him with this desire.

In our world, meaning on the animate level, this desire exists in babies naturally. Even on the still and vegetative levels, as well as the animate level, which includes a person’s physical development in this world, there is a natural desire to grow. However, if we want to grow on the human level – in spirituality, then the desire has to come from us.

Development happens naturally on the still, vegetative and animate levels of nature. Thus far, we – the people in this world – have developed on all these levels, and our desire has also developed on the same levels throughout all of history. But now we have to ascend to the “speaking” or “human” level. The human level means that we have to develop and attain the goal on our own. Based on all our bodily desires (for food, sex and family) and our social desires (for wealth, fame, power and knowledge), we have to develop our own aspiration to spirituality. We start with a point in the heart, but then we have to continuously push it to develop using the help of our environment.

To do this, we need the group because only it can give us the desire to develop the point in the heart. Armed with this desire, we begin to read The Book of Zohar together with the group. While we read, we have to desire to develop, where “development” means finding our future state or sensation in The Book of Zohar. This is the only thing we are looking for now.

Besides this, all we have to do is wait. Therefore, just desire to grow, like a baby who naturally wants to become an adult. See if you can calm him down, convince him not to grow, or not to desire and demand it. You’ll find that it is impossible to stop him because nature pushes him to develop with an insurmountable force. That is how tirelessly we must work in spirituality. We must always be searching within ourselves, and we must never calm down and never stop changing. Then we will indeed grow up. This is the only condition and the only thing required of us.

The system exists, but we have to set it in motion with our desire, our inner aspiration. Without this inner pressure coming from us, that system will not influence us. That is to say, it will influence us through suffering, in order to awaken us, but we won’t advance an inch this way, by means of suffering sent to us from Above. We can only advance by means of our own desire, which comes from below, from us.

We may be receiving perpetual difficulties and problems, yet be stuck in the same place because these problems are insufficient for us to desire to unite with the correct group and to acquire a desire to develop. Despite the difficulties, we will be standing in the same place. By themselves, the difficulties are not a sign of development, but on the contrary, a sign that we have not made a single step forward yet.

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  1. My name is Jimmy Clay and I have been studying Kabbalah for about 8 months. The wisdom of Kabbalah seems to resonate within by being yet I find myself more confused than ever. As Anthony said, “you may feel like you are going nuts but you aren’t”. I have lost my will, my desire to excel. In my depths I sense a deeper yearning for God… the point in the heart, yet at the same time I am finding myself and family (wife and two children) struggling financially.

    For many years I have viewed life as a paradox and now Kabbalah has revealed it as so. I am completely overwhelmed, hence, the purpose of this letter, and I am seemingly clueless as to what direction to take. I have not been to a congress and I have had very little communication with others that study Kabbalah. I am trying to understand how to bestow yet at the same time still support my family. I am fiercely gripped by the point in the heart. It is as though I have found what I have been searching for my entire life and yet I am perplexed from every side. It is totally incredible how the world looks so different, (it has very little meaning other than the place needed to make contact with the soul… i.e., spiritual beings living in a corporeal world). Simply put, I sense a great need to physically speak with someone who has walked this path. My desire is strong but getting to a congress is very difficult.

    Looking forward to hearing from you,

    Jimmy Clay

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