We Can Live Without Wars

963.4Igor writes:

Now I am reading the Baal HaSulam’s article “The Freedom.” Cool article! It is as if he wrote it today. And a lot of questions arise.

Here, for example, it is written: “…we must be watchful not to bring the views of people so close that disagreement and criticism among the wise and scholarly might be terminated, for the love of the body naturally brings with it proximity of views. And should criticism and disagreement vanish, all progress in concepts and ideas will cease, as well, and the source of knowledge in the world will dry out.”

Question: But isn’t it because of disagreements that all these wars are happening today? Wouldn’t it be better if there were no disagreements?”

Answer: No. Then everything would be very unilateral, one-sided. Without contradictions, humanity would not be able to move forward and develop.

Comment: So, in principle, all these wars are necessary?

My Response: I am not talking about wars. Everything can be settled by other methods. You do not have to fight right away!

Question: Why do we always want to resolve disagreements with wars and drastic decisions?

Answer: Like little children, this is what humanity looks like today.

Question: Baal HaSulam is talking about completely different solutions?

Answer: Absolutely about all disagreements! We need to decide everything when we sit together and discuss.

Question: Igor writes further: “But there are no people who would like criticism. People lie when they say the opposite. Is it possible to educate a person so that he will want criticism?”

Answer: Of course. Contradictions are where truth is revealed.

Question: So you can accept criticism?

Answer: Without criticism, how can a person develop?

Question: You even want it, it turns out?

Answer: I do want it, of course.

Question: And you do not resist it?

Answer: I do not resist at all. On the contrary. The more criticism, the more opinions and disagreements, the more can be revealed: who, where, how, and why in this way did the Creator create society, man, and us in such a contradictory form. And only in this way is the truth comprehended.

Question: So you are saying that what a person should desire is a result of criticism?

Answer: Truth is learned through argument.

Question: Next. “Why, having declared at the beginning that criticism is creative, we later come to the point of destroying it?”

Answer: Because everyone likes to put pressure on the other until he agrees. And if he does not agree, I will kill him.

You see how everything is done in the world. Our egoism prevails over all other opportunities to discuss and grow.

Comment: But on the other hand, we say that egoism is our nature. It must stick out.

My Response: After all, we have to correct it somehow.

Question: So our task all the time is to saddle it?

Answer: Yes.

Question: When is criticism constructive and when is it destructive?

Answer: You can see it from here. When it leads to mutual discussion and ultimately agreement, it is positive. And when it leads to contradictions, even to the point of war and destruction, then of course, it is harmful.

Comment: But humanity always comes after all the wars…

My Response: And that is egoism, which we do not work with. There is nothing you can do about it.

Comment: But after the wars, it comes to the conclusion that it is advisable to sit, talk, discuss.

My Response: This is because war still gives some kind of awareness of evil. But then again.

Question: “If you come to internal criticism, does the external one disappear?” asks Igor. “So we can say that external criticism is an indicator that internal criticism is absent? Is this true or not?”

Answer: Yes, yes.

Question: And the question: “What happens in a corrected world full of goodness, love, as you say? Is there criticism there?”

Answer: It all depends on a person’s upbringing and how he educates himself.

Question: Here we have come to a world that is full of love and kindness. We are heading there. Are there any criticisms there?

Answer: There is criticism, of course. Necessarily. There are a huge number of opinions and contradictions, but all this is discussed and constantly brought to some common denominator along which all of humanity advances.

This is what is called that everything is decided at the level of love.

Question: “Love will cover everything”—is this what they say? Is this how things work in a corrected world?

Answer: Of course. And only over disagreements, disagreements remain.
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From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman” 11/6/23

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If One Slanders, the Whole System Suffers

253“Do not let your mouth make your flesh sin.” One must not let one’s mouth cause the arrival of an evil thought, and cause the holy flesh—in which the holy covenant is imprinted—to sin.
(Introduction to The Book of Zohar “Laila de Kalah [The Night of the Bride]”, Item 131)

A person should watch his speech. He needs to understand that only good, real, and true can come from his mouth. In this case, he gets closer to the Creator.

Slander causes bad thoughts, which can cause the holy flesh to be involved in sin.

Holy flesh is not just our thoughts, but desires when we begin to strive for all kinds of fulfillment in this world. Therefore, one must be careful not to immerse oneself in such desires and pleasures and not to allow oneself to elevate them to the degree of holiness.

If a person has any internal complaints about other people or the Creator, then, in principle, this is normal. But if he spills them out with his mouth, then both he and the one to whom his words are addressed suffer because we are all interconnected.

Only in our physical world are we separated by distances and the inability to hear and feel each other, but in fact, there are no obstacles to this. Therefore, if one person slanders, then the whole system suffers.
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From KabTV’s “Introduction to The Book of Zohar” 11/12/23

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507.05Question: Is it preferable to work with the Creator when you have merged with Him through your efforts and you understand this, or when you are not in connection with Him but must make efforts and relate everything to Him?

Answer: What is better in the eyes of the Creator? It is when you make an effort.

Question: So is working in Lo Lishma (receiving for oneself) preferable in the eyes of the Creator?

Answer: On one hand, yes. Because it pushes you to make efforts toward correction.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 12/4/23, Writings of Baal HaSulam “From Lo Lishma, We Come to Lishma“

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Two Stages: Hanukkah and Purim

294.3Question: Why did the Creator reveal the miracle of Hanukkah, that the oil sufficient for only one day of candle burning lasted for eight days?

Answer: The oil symbolizes the light of Bina, which is the quality of bestowal. Therefore, on Hanukkah, we celebrate receiving spiritual correction.

When our egoistic desire turns into an altruistic desire to bestow for the sake of bestowal to others, this is Hanukkah.

The next stage is already receiving for the sake of others, symbolized by Purim, which represents the final correction (Gmar Tikkun).

Therefore, in Hanukkah, we ask for connection between us, i.e., to receive bestowing Kelim, and in Purim, we already connect with the Creator.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 12/7/23, Writings of Rabash Letter No. 53 12/7/23

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243.04Question: During Hanukkah should we connect all our desires aimed at bestowal to each other?

Answer: Yes, everything that is in us is given to us by the Creator. We want to turn this into bestowal to Him through our qualities, hearts, and desires.

Question: How are we, the Bnei Baruch group, ready to accept the light of Hanukkah into our common Kli?

Answer: We are ready. It all depends on us. We have sources that we study and discuss. In general, we can say that we are ready.

We have a whole week ahead of us. Let us load this week with the topic of Hanukkah to understand it as best as possible and to be close to this state. We will succeed. At least we can go through the first stage of correcting egoism.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 12/7/23, Writings of Rabash Letter No. 53

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The Value of Friends

942Question: We accept the value of friends as the beginning of the work and the value of friends as the whole path that we are going through here and now. How can we accept the value of friends as a miracle?

Answer: It is really a miracle that you have the opportunity to sit in a circle with your arms around each other, connect other hearts to this circle, and cling to each other and to the Creator with naked hearts, just like that. Include me as well in your circle.

If you constantly do such exercises, you will see how much your inner feeling opens up, and the Creator appears there.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 12/3/23, Writings of Baal HaSulam “What Is “The Lord Is High and the Low Will See”? – 1“

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When Will the Prophecy Be Fulfilled?

202.0Question: In the book of the prophet Isaiah (Yeshayahu in Jewish tradition) there is a well-known phrase that everyone repeats, “And they shall beat their swords into plowshares and their spears into pruning hooks. Nation shall not lift sword against nation, neither shall they learn war anymore” (Isaiah, Chapter 2, 2-4). It sounds like fantasy and completely unreal. If this is a prophecy, should it come true?

Answer: Of course.

Comment: It is said that this prophet has never been wrong.

My Response: No prophet makes mistakes because he sees the future as if it were the present.

Question: But it sounds fantastic, do you agree?

Answer: Yes.

Question: Then the question is what time period does this refer to?

Answer: The time when the entire true picture of the universe will be revealed and it is known that the Creator controls absolutely everything.

Question: Is the main thing to reveal it? Must everyone understand and accept this?

Answer: Everyone must understand, feel, see, and reveal it.

Question: And then “they shall beat their swords into plowshares, and their spears into pruning hooks.” So, will all wars be overturned?

Answer: Of course. There will be no need to fight, nothing.

Comment: And there will be a need for creativity, like using pruning hooks, building gardens, being at peace with each other.

My Response: Yes.

Question: Under what circumstances will this happen?”

Answer: This will happen when people reveal the Creator.

Question: Under what circumstances will He be revealed?

Answer: I would say this: He will reveal Himself to people when people wish for it.

Question: When will they wish for it?

Answer: When they wish for it, then He will reveal Himself. I am answering you absolutely accurately!

Question: What needs to happen to them? What needs to change? What cry needs to arise for Him to be revealed?

Answer: They must feel that they cannot do without the Creator! Because that is the only thing they lack.
Everything in the world is available to us, but we wish only for His revelation to us and that is it.

Question: Can you say, slowly but surely, people’s view is turning in that direction today?

Answer: I wish I could say that, but it is not in sight yet.

Question: Only suffering can make people turn to the Creator?

Answer: I think only suffering. I hope it will happen quickly. The main thing is quickly.
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From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman” 10/30/23

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In Search of Connection with the Creator

565.01Question: How can I find the thread on the sensory level that I can pull to directly feel the connection with the Creator and understand if I have awe of Him?

Answer: You do not have that thread yet because you are all within the ego. That is why we work in a group to get ourselves out of it with the help of our friends.

We do not deceive ourselves by saying we are here for the Creator. We really want to achieve this.

Question: Is awe the cause of love or the effect?

Answer: Awe is a person’s inner anxiety when he feels he can get closer to the Creator.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 12/1/23, Writings of Baal HaSulam “The Fear of God Is His Treasure“

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281.01Question: What does it mean to cancel your individuality?

Answer: If you give yourself fully to helping everyone in the world, then your desire and qualities connect with everyone’s and help everyone.

Question: What does it mean to be together in the ten so that the Creator raises us?

Answer: It means to be connected, and through the connection, to turn to the Creator so that He raises you.

Question: What is the correct reaction to accusations and slander from someone?

Answer: Show him that you accept it within a quality of goodness.

Question: I see my friends as great, but if someone corrects me, I immediately start blaming her internally and externally. In this case, how can I accept what my friend wants to correct in me? And in general, can she correct something in me?

Answer: No, your friend can only give you an example; only you can correct yourself or rather only the Creator, according to your request.

Question: What does it mean to go deeper into our studies?

Answer: To go deeper means to seriously study what Baal HaSulam writes.

Question: You have many more descents than all of us combined. How do you exit the state and go through a descent correctly?

Answer: I fly up, and that is it.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 11/29/23, Writings of Baal HaSulam “Descends and Incites, Ascends and Complains“

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