Entries in the 'Conventions' Category

Blitz Of Kabbalah Tips – 2/13/19

laitman_942Question: During the convention, must the tens constantly mix, each lesson with a new ten?

Answer: What difference does it make? Shut your eyes as if you do not see and do not know which ten you are in: permanent or temporary. It is all a mirage. They are showing you one version of your soul, and then another one, and the third one. You must connect and merge with it and with the Creator who is inside it.

Question: How can you use happiness correctly? Should I awaken the left line more so that I am not carried away with too much happiness?

Answer: Happiness must be balanced with the goal, the precise approach, and the purpose for which you use this excitement. It is not about just being in a state of joy and having fun.

Question: I am very connected with my regular ten. Is it normal to imagine my permanent ten when I participate in a temporary ten? Or is this a bad approach?

Answer: It makes no difference. Imagine anything you want. The main thing is to connect everything together.

Question: Outside of the lesson when my ten and I are not in a lesson, in a common meal or on duty, can I be connected with the general ten in some way?

Answer: Certainly. What difference does it make if you are sitting with a part of this group or together with the entire group? A person should constantly be together with everyone in his thoughts and not become disconnected anywhere.
[253652]
From KabTV’s “Fundamentals of Kabbalah,” 2/13/19

Related Material:
Blitz Of Kabbalah Tips – 2/12/19
Blitz Of Kabbalah Tips – 2/3/19
Blitz Of Kabbalah Tips – 1/27/19

The Role Of Women In The Correction Of Nature

laitman_591Question: You often say that it is harder for women to connect than it is for men. But if we take a closer look, we will notice that a woman today, even with three children, wants to go beyond the boundaries of her home.

She organizes all kinds of workshops, women’s circles, sees the value of connection, understands that we are living in a common field.

A woman gives birth; this is already some kind of experience of exiting herself for the sake of another person. A woman, in general, wants to make the entire world one big family, one home.

Do you agree that a woman is naturally more suited for connection than a man?

Answer: Nowadays everything is changing dramatically and I really see that there is a need to somehow revise everything. Suddenly, it turns out that there are more women in our circles than men.

At first, we explained it by the fact that women are not satisfied with their lives. After all, they have a family, a husband and children, and everything around them must be good and calm. This is very hard to achieve in our time. Therefore, we thought that perhaps women are dissatisfied and that this brings them to Kabbalah.

However, in principle, we see that today they do not really want a family: “Why do I need a husband and children? In general, it is possible to live without them. The Creator, spirituality, the soul, and the upper light!”

As for the fact that a woman is more down to earth and wants everyone to be connected, that is because her egoism is arranged in such a way. She feels that this will give the greatest fulfillment to her egoistic desires.

I think that today it already does not matter whether it is a man or a woman. Everything happens so equally that all gender differences are no longer differences.

At least the tendency is that more and more women are coming to Kabbalah. They are getting more serious, they are leaders. I must say that it has always been so: women lead humanity to serious goals. And men play. They go wherever a woman pushes them.

A woman is freer in her egoism than a man. Therefore, I really hope that we will have even more women and that they will show men how we should treat connection. It will be clearer to them.

Men can hug each other, walk, go to the sauna, and it seems to them that this is a connection. They are confused. Women are more sensitive to the meaning of real connection because they cannot even turn to each other without a need.

Therefore, we may yet see very serious changes in humanity regarding the role of women in the correction of nature.
[254746]
From Lesson 5, World Kabbalah Convention in Moldova 9/7/19, Turning to the Creator

Related Material:
The Role Of Women In Spiritual Work
Women’s Task In Spiritual Correction
Mysterious Power of Woman

Advancement Through Questions And Answers

laitman_219.01Question: Is a question the most important element of practical work in studying the wisdom of Kabbalah?

Answer: Yes. A question is of utmost importance to our spiritual advancement. However, it is unnecessary to ask a question and wait for its answer. You study it, want it answered, then you ask the Creator through the group and receive an answer.

All our advancement is comprised of questions and answers. The Passover tale about four sons speaks about this: even when you are in a state when you do not know how to ask a question, you must look for opportunities to have it. There is no advancement without it.

Question: Is a question considered a spiritual action?

Answer: Yes, of course. It is the left line, which is necessary for movement.

Question: Can a question be a real gift for a teacher or for a friend, an example of bestowing to the group?

Answer: In principle, yes.

Question: Is it worth asking a question if the methodology teaches us that questions that arise in us are revealed and clarified naturally in the course of our work in the group?

Answer: When you ask a question or do something in general, you should think about how you are helping others.
[254544]
From Lesson 4, World Kabbalah Convention in Moldova 9/7/19, Rejoice in What We Lack/Work in Concealment

Related Material:
What Is A “Question” in Spirituality?
A Kaleidoscope Of Questions And Answers
Platform For Discoveries

Cancel Self-Love

laitman_938.02Rabash, Article No 6, 1984, “Love of Friends (2)” Everyone should think that he has come to the group to cancel his self love, that is, he should not think about how he can fulfill his desire, but as much as possible think only about love for his friends—because only through it he can acquire the desire and need for the new property—the desire to give.

And from love of friends, one can come to love of the Creator, to desire to give contentment to the Creator.

We must not forget that precisely this is what we should think about all the time and aim all our aspirations toward. No matter how much it is opposite to our nature, we still have to position ourselves this way.

I am aimed at rising above my self love for the love of friends because through such an attitude toward them I begin to perceive the Creator, the upper world, the property of bestowal, I rise above my nature. It is the exact condition, that lever, which can lift me.

At first, these are, in general, selfish desires: I want to rise, I want to find, I want. If I need to love another for this, then I am ready. Good. There is nothing to be done if it is necessary.

Then, when we work with this, I suddenly begin to feel that I do not need anything else. I do not even need myself. If there is such a property as bestowal, if there is such a state called the Creator, that is all, that is enough for me, I do not even need to exist.

A person feels the influence of the upper light so much that he does not even ask for himself; on the contrary, he is ready to completely annul himself, to not exist. This is how the next stage of our development begins.

To the extent of the similarity to the Creator—to give Him pleasure just as the Creator wants to give us pleasure—we gain the Creator’s quality, merge with Him, and rise to His level.

There are two stages here. We can acquire a new property, a desire to give, only by working with friends. And only then do we we gain the desire to give pleasure to the Creator, and thus rise to similarity with Him.
[253571]
From the Convention In Moldova “Day One” 9/6/19, “Dissolving in the Friends,” Lesson 1

Related Material:
Two Stages Toward The Goal
The Black Point Is The Germ Of The Soul
About the Value of Love for Friends

Convention In Bulgaria “Day Four” – 11/10/19

Convention in Bulgaria 2019, “A Prayer of Many — Common Appeal to the Creator,” Lesson 8

[media 1] [media 2]

Convention in Bulgaria 2019, “Bnei Baruch — Spiritual Pipeline to the World,” Lesson 9

[media 3] [media 4]

Convention In Bulgaria 2019 “Day Three” – 11/9/19

Convention in Bulgaria 2019, “Hardening of the Heart — Invitation to Ascend,” Lesson 5

[media 1] [media 2]

Convention in Bulgaria 2019, “Preparation for the Lesson 6”

[media 3] [media 4]

Convention in Bulgaria 2019, “Love Covers All Crimes,” Lesson 6

[media 5] [media 6]

Convention in Bulgaria 2019, “Arvut — The Network of Connection Between Us,” Lesson 7

[media 7] [media 8]

How Not To Be An Idol Worshiper

laitman_938.07Question: There is a certain duality: on one hand, uniting with the Creator, on the other hand, connecting with friends.

I can’t manage to put an equal sign between these concepts. I have the feeling I am either with my friends or I am with the Creator. Is this some kind of idolatry and at the same time it carries you there?

Answer: This is true. Indeed, if your egoism draws you to the Creator, it is idol worshiping. It seems to the ego that it can be filled there. It wants you to relate to the Creator in this way: I want the Creator, I love the Creator, I will be filled with Him, unite, I will do everything for Him, we will succeed with Him.

Remark: Yes, but the Creator is in my friends, He is behind them, He is in this connection. But I only understand this, and very rarely feel it.

My Comment: That is your problem.

Question: Can we solve this together?

Answer: No, you will solve this problem with your ten and with the Creator. There is no other way.

Question: What do I personally need to add to my ten so that I can finally stop focusing on this “mythical figure”?

Answer: Explain to them that the Creator is attained only within the ten itself. Otherwise, you will not find Him, otherwise it will be idol worshiping. This is called “creating an idol,” some statue.

Only within the ten, only in their right relations does the general image of bestowal between friends, called the Creator, manifest itself. Therefore, the Creator says: “You have created Me.” Indeed, with the help of the correct mutual relationship with each other, we create an image of the Creator. And before that, He does not exist. Therefore, the Creator is called Boreh: Bo u-Reh (Come and See).
From the Convention In Moldova “Day One” 9/6/19, “How Can I Affect the Society,” Lesson 3
[253613]

Related Material:
You Create Me
Do Not Make Yourself An Idol
The Method of Revealing The Creator

Convention In Bulgaria “Day Two” – 11/8/19

Convention in Bulgaria 2019, “Preparation for the Lesson 2”

[media 1] [media 2]

Convention in Bulgaria 2019, “Living in the Deficiency to Bestow,” Lesson 2

[media 3] [media 4]

Convention in Bulgaria 2019, “Preparation for the Lesson 3”

[media 5] [media 6]

Convention in Bulgaria 2019, “Building the Image of the Creator in the Ten,” Lesson 3

[media 7] [media 8]

Convention in Bulgaria 2019, “The Benefit of Moving Into a World Ten — Contraction and Expansion,” Lesson 4

[media 9] [media 10]

Connection Based On Concessions

laitman_939.01Question: What is a connection based on concessions?

Answer: This is when I am ready to give way to my friends in everything in order to unite with them because without it I would have no opportunity to influence my fate, to influence the Creator, who is the master of my destiny.
[253696]
From the Convention In Moldova “Day One” 9/6/19, “Dissolving in the Friends,” Lesson 1

Related Material:
Based Upon Mutual Concessions
Concessions Are A Sign Of Strength Not Weakness
Learning To Make Concessions

Convention In Bulgaria “Day One” – 11/7/19

Convention in Bulgaria 2019, “Awakening the Point in the Heart to Despair in Our Own Strength,” Lesson 1

[media 1] [media 2]