Answer: The property of connection is when we try to unite above our egoism despite everyone’s ego. You are an egoist, I am an egoist, but we try to suppress our egoism, and we set ourselves up for connection between us instead. Tuning to connection is the spiritual Kli (vessel).
What we receive above our egoism is called “faith above reason.” Only in this way can we receive the upper light. The upper light cannot enter into the desire itself, but it enters into the intention to unite.
From KabTV’s “Fundamentals of Kabbalah,” 2/16/20