Answer: This is really a problem. But you come to a state where you simply cannot take anything from the table. The attribute of shame develops in you.
This is not earthly shame but a great feeling that you cannot overcome. It binds you and does not allow you to accept anything from the owner.
Question: What should I do next with this shame?
Answer: What will happen next, we are yet to study. But it is the shame that leads and develops us.
From KabTV’s “Fundamentals of Kabbalah,” 2/16/20