Answer: This problem can be solved only in the correct environment. In the article “The Freedom,” in the section “Influence of the Environment,” Baal HaSulam writes that the very state of a person, his development and his future depend only on the environment he is in.
Therefore, the choice of the appropriate environment and the correct interaction with it is the most important thing in our development.
You must do everything in order to get under the influence of the correct environment and to become absorbed in it so much so that you literally dissolve in it.
From the Kabbalah Lesson in Russian 11/25/18