Answer: The wisdom of Kabbalah is a science that is attained through practical experience. Nothing in it can be spelled out in advance.
Even if there were such cases in the past, then they were recorded in any form, on any level: the still, vegetative, animate, or spiritual, and so we can use them.
When we pass through the Machsom (barrier) and feel all of the spiritual states from personal experience, then everything will be clear and known to us in whatever states Malchut is found with Zeir Anpin, which Reshimot (reminiscences) must be brought up and whatever Light we get from this.
We understand the relationships that appear between us, one relative to another. This one is the receiver, the female. The other in relation to the first is the male. And that is how it is mutually. There are no men and women here in regard to physical sexual characteristics.
A spiritual sign is only one of mutual integration: I am within him and he is within me. And who are he and I? We are simply two souls. Male or female, it makes no difference. Contact is contact. All kinds of physical considerations vanish here.
The wisdom of Kabbalah doesn’t talk about there being some wondrous city where the Kabbalists gathered together and decided to establish, let’s say, a new society of free Kabbalists. It doesn’t talk about how they connected with each other or on what basis they built their community. There is nothing like this!
There are spiritual laws that are written mostly in the articles of Rabash, although they are found in other sources as well, but infrequently. You should try to adapt to these laws, apply them to yourselves.
We have regulations, and then everything depends on how much I am constantly thinking about how to elevate the importance of spiritual work, how through all of my inner drives I summon movement to the Creator or movement from the Creator to me, and this determines everything that I do.
So all of us must very clear in directing ourselves toward the right connection between us, regardless of age, gender, or seniority in our participation in the world group. Everyone must be identical, completely equal, and felt as another small part of our collective soul.
Accordingly we build all of the individual conditions.
From the Sochi Convention 6/9/14, Lesson 1