New Life #759 – Proper Boundaries In Love
Dr. Michael Laitman in conversation with Oren Levi and Tal Mandelbaum ben Moshe
The wisdom of Kabbalah teaches how to relate to others in a balanced way, including one’s spouse.
For this we must study human nature, add limits to instinctive sensations of love and hatred, and make connections between us correctly, with a spiritual connection.
A person begins to feel the other when he reins in his narcissism, the desire to fulfill himself. He restricts his egoism, rises above instinctive drives, and develops a relationship toward others through internal effort.
In proper love between spouses and in general, there exists a balance between feelings and intellect. On the one hand, there is love, and on the other hand, there is a limit to revealing that love, a limitation on the giving to others depending on the response of the other side.
In order to build a loving connection, we must take the desire of the other and work on fulfilling it, the result of which is aspiring to become one.
From KabTV’s “New Life #759 – Proper Boundaries In Love,” 8/11/16
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