How Can You Fill Your Friends’ Hisaron?

599.02Question: How do I fill my friends’ Hisaron (deficiency)?

Answer: By helping them, by your actions. Find out what they want and try to be with them in it.

You are a giver because you see what your friend needs and you help him achieve it. That is how it works.
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From the 3rd part of the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 6/22/2025, “Winning the War”

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Create a Common Kli

938.02Question: How is our making concessions toward one another in a ten related to a common Hisaron (deficiency) appearing?

Answer: In this way, you want to feel what the other feels, and he does the same toward you. This creates a common Kli.

Each of you tries to unite in the other’s desire to bestow: the first in the second and the second in the first.

Question: When we annul ourselves before our friends, we can receive from them. But what can we give them in this state?

Answer: You unite with them in order to create a common Kli. A friend bestows to me, and I bestow to him to the extent that we can unite.
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From the 3rd part of the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 6/25/2025, “Winning the War”

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How Can You Recognize a Spiritual Descent?

509What is meant by a spiritual descent? Sometimes people think that it is a consequence of some corporeal failures like being fired from work or problems in the family.

But in truth, a descent is the feeling of distancing from the Creator, and an ascent is approaching Him. That is how we should understand ascents and descents, and work accordingly.

Distancing from the Creator is felt like not understanding what is required of you, not understanding your state, and suffering from your incorrect connections with other people. The remedy is to rise above reason and connect with the desire for correction embedded in nature, with the force of bestowal and love, so that it begins to rule over you.
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From the 3rd part of the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 6/19/2025, “Winning the War”

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An Incredible Difference

938.04Question: Love for one’s neighbor is a great force with which one can overcome everything. Is the condition for its development mutuality? What is mutual love between friends?

Answer: Mutual love between friends exists when they know and understand each other and are united in their aspiration toward one another. Then they achieve unity, adhesion, and attainment.

There is a big difference between each person feeling their own individual place in the spiritual world and them uniting to feel a common place in the spiritual world.

This is an incredible difference! It means that each of them builds an entire world for himself.

In such unity, many in the group connect their desires in such a way that they feel the entire group as one whole.
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From the 3rd part of the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 6/25/2025, “Winning the War”

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The Creator Will Not Be Able to Refuse You

213Question: You said that we need to change our nature from reception to bestowal. Does this mean that on every desire to receive that arises in me I need to unite with my friends and bestowal to them?

Answer: I think so.

Question: In this action, when I connect with my friend’s desire and bestow to him, how can I make it so that the Creator acts?

Answer: When you unite with your friend and become as one, then you both turn to the Creator as a single person, and the Creator will no longer be able to refuse you.
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From the 3rd part of the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 6/22/2025, “Winning the War”

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Daily Kabbalah Lesson – 7/11/25

Preparation to the Lesson

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1st part of the Lesson — Writings of Baal HaSulam, Shamati #22Lishma (For Her Sake)” (10.16.2021)

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2nd part of the Lesson — Writings of Baal HaSulam, “Preface to the Wisdom of Kabbalah,” Item 47 (6.26.2006)

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3rd part of the Lesson — Lesson on the Topic “To be as an Ox to the Burden and as a Donkey to the Load”

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4th part of the Lesson — Writings of Baal HaSulam, “Introduction of The Book of Zohar,” “Lock and Key”

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Spiritual Battlefield

528.01Question: What should I do if I do not feel my evil inclination or, on the contrary, I feel it, but I do not mind, I enjoy it and want to receive more and more?

Answer: You must conduct your internal analysis. Everything that is in you and pushes you toward the goal of creation is the good inclination. Anything that isolates you from the goal of creation is the evil inclination.

Every time from morning to evening, and in the evening when you finish your day, imagine yourself under the power of the good inclination. This is what you do during the day, this is what you fight.

Question: You said that morning lessons are a battlefield. But in addition to them, during the day we also have workshops in the ten, meetings of friends, and group events. Is this also our battlefield?

Answer: Yes, this is your battlefield. It is not necessary to face the enemy, because you unite with each other so that everyone reveals even greater negative qualities in themselves. This is the battlefield.
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From the 2nd part of the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 6/20/2025, “Winning the War”

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528.04Question: To remain silent and restrain oneself is an opportunity to enter into an internal dialogue with the Creator. What happens to my desire when I see myself in this dialogue: does it decrease or increase, or does it shrink as if acquiring greater density?

Answer: We must try to get out of our desire to receive, rise to the desire to bestow, and unite with other similar desires of friends. To the extent that the desire grows and intensifies, I will be able to think more and more about how I can awaken the good force in the group and thus help the friends rise together with me.
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From the 3rd part of the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 6/19/2025, “Winning the War”

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Show the Creator the Readiness to Unite

938.04Question: Does the “strong hand” refer to the blows that fall upon Pharaoh?

Answer: Usually, it depends on the person who interprets these blows in one way or another. But the main thing is that we want to show the Creator how ready we are to overcome our evil inclination that separates us and to unite with one another. That is what truly helps us.

Question: Can the “strong hand” be revealed without prayer?

Answer: No, you will not feel that it is strong except in accordance with the measure of your prayer.
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From the 3rd part of the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 6/23/2025, “Winning the War”

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