Their desire [husband and wife] must be as one, without coercion (Rashbi, Zohar for All, Beresheet – 2, “Reconciliation and Receiving Permission”).

Question: What is one whole desire? After all, we are so different, and our desires are different.

Answer: The Book of Zohar means husband’s request to stay the night with his wife. Therefore he ensures that this desire is for them as one whole.

Question: Still men and women are very different. I always try to understand how to come to the same desire in our everyday life. It this not about fighting less, but to achieve a single movement in our relationship?

Answer: Now we are talking about daily practice. Life itself directs you so you would treat each other more correctly.

Question: What is it based on: respect, compromises, love?

Answer: On respect. I do not know how appropriate it is here to say “respect,” although it has to be such an attitude. But in general, one has to consider the desires of the other.
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From KabTV’s “Man and Women” 7/30/24

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