Comment: There is a personal, touching story on the Internet about someone’s grandfather who died. The grandfather was in the hospital and before leaving forever, he slowly removed his oxygen mask and put his hand to his mouth. We thought he did it because of pain, but it turned out that he sent three air kisses to his wife,  and he left.

How does this happen? When there is nothing left in front of us, we can perform some kind of an act so that another person feels good. Many people say that before death confessions of love are made that people  leave with such a feeling of gratitude toward someone. They pass warmth to someone. But in life, it does not happen. Why?

My Response: It is because of egoism. As long as egoism lives, prospers, and flourishes, it wants to fill itself, and you have no opportunity to think about somebody else.

Question: Can I do anything selflessly?

Answer: No.

Comment: And here egoism says that it already understands that it is ending.

My Response: But here there is no egoism anymore, you no longer feel yourself in your body; you gradually leave it, and you feel light and free.

Question: Is this a moment of freedom?

Answer: Yes.

Question: And all my life I was just a slave to egoism?

Answer: Yes. Therefore, a person who dies is called Niftar, liberated from egoism.

Question: Is it possible to live all the time as if you are leaving?

Answer: That is the way to live!

Question: Like on this border?

Answer: Yes.

Question: And then you will be able to give, to bestow, and to love?

Answer: This is what is called to constantly adhere to the Creator.

Comment: That is, I must live as if in a moment I will not exist.

My Response: Not even that you will not exist in a moment. It is as if you have already disconnected from your body, from its concerns about everything, and you only want to be connected with the Creator.

Question: Then I do not care about my future and do not care if it will return to me somehow, right?

Answer: It does not exist anyway.

Question: Is it liberation all at once?

Answer: Of course, that is why it is called Niftar, liberated. Or as they say: “The dead are free.”

Question: Can you learn to live this way throughout your life?

Answer: Surely.

Comment: Then we will learn to give, to love, and to bestow.

My Response: Of course.

Comment: And we will not live in this constant, black care for our life.

My Response: Yes.

Comment: It would be nice to learn this.
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From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman” 1/12/23

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