Answer: No. Hatred cannot be controlled. It can only be covered with love. It is written: “Love will cover all crimes.”
Question: Can I do this for someone else?
Answer: No. The only thing you can do is include everyone else inside of you and in this way turn all of their negative qualities into positive ones. There are no negative qualities. They are simply not balanced by positive ones.
From the Kabbalah Lesson in Russian 8/6/17