Question: You said that a good, strong group can solve any problem inside of it. If death is threatening a man, we unite, we do not give this person up, and something works out for us. However, what can be done if a man is threatened by a spiritual death due to breaking away from the group?
Answer: Here, it is his freewill. You can come to him, talk to him, convince him, and shake him up, in general.
You have the right to do it since you used to be friends with him. Nevertheless, he must give you some kind of a possibility for this, for the sake of the past.
However, if you see that it is useless, leave him be. Time will do its job, perhaps not even in this lifetime, but he will return the next time and complete it.
From the Kharkov Convention “Uniting to Ascend” 8/19/12, Lesson 7