BIEN: “Basic Income Should Benefit Mothers First“


The largest portal Basic Income Earth Network published my new article “Basic Income Should Benefit Mothers First“:

There is no controversy about the benefits of breast milk, but its politicization is giving us food for thought. The New York Times claimed that the US government unsuccessfully threatened to retaliate against nations backing breastfeeding to favor the $70 billion-dollar infant formula industry, an accusation fervently denied by the current administration. Beyond the sensational headlines, the key factor is that such an important health-related topic for mothers and children has been put back on the table. It is also time to open the discussion about practical measures to encourage breastfeeding to benefit society.

Breast milk is rich in nutrients and includes antibodies to fight off viruses and bacteria protecting the baby from infections and allergies. It boosts the immune system, reduces infant mortality, and helps for a quicker recovery from common childhood illnesses. A Harvard study in 2016 estimated that 3,340 premature deaths a year among both mothers and babies could be prevented in the US alone given adequate breastfeeding. It also lowers a mother’s risk of breast and ovarian cancer, and osteoporosis.

Besides the physical benefits and what laboratory experiments show, breastfeeding is one of the best ways of bonding with a baby. It releases oxytocin, which is the hormone responsible for other loving behaviors that make us feel good about a person.

Extended breastfeeding for the first two years of life allows for the child’s proper development, and women express more maternal sensitivity well past the infant and toddler years, according to a study by the American Psychological Association. Beyond such findings, there is also a natural inner connection between the mother and the child that allows for positive biological and internal development, which starts inside the womb.

The Need to Support Stay-at-Home Mothers

Considering the vital role mothers play in each individual’s development from the earliest of ages, it stands to reason that stay-at-home mothers should be given all the support possible to raise the next generation. They need to be entitled to receive financial assistance that will let them perform their remarkable duties without worrying about how to make ends meet, giving them a sense of freedom and control of their lives.

In today’s world, however, this is not the case. The bulk of the burden falls on the mother, who is usually expected to prioritize her career over her family, juggling tasks and becoming increasingly exhausted and unsatisfied. With the massive rise in cost of living, mothers in most societies struggle to manage a balanced life, considering work as an economic necessity rather than liberation and personal progress and fulfillment. Mothers get caught in an ever-tightening entanglement of commitments at work and home with very little restitution at any level. In extreme cases, there have been situations where work-stressed mothers abandoned their children while they rushed to work, e.g., a hospital CEO forgetting her child in a hot car where the child died, or a McDonald’s employee leaving her child alone in a public park while she worked her entire 9-hour work day.

Moreover, childcare can be extremely expensive and many women usually work just to cover its costs, challenging the whole purpose of going to the workplace. The so-called advancement of women’s rights to choose is in practice an oxymoron. At the end of the day, women who decide to fulfill a traditional role as stay-at-home mothers do not receive enough recognition, value, and economic support from society, as if raising a new generation were not the most important enterprise of all.

The same way science has been unable to create an artificial uterus that brings an embryo to life, a mother’s role of nurturing and educating the child is irreplaceable. We cannot pretend to be wiser than nature. If we really want to empower and foster women’s self-determination, society should create conditions for a comfortable motherhood.

Why UBI Should Prioritize Mothers

This is precisely where UBI can enter to encourage mothers who wish to raise their children full-time. UBI should benefit women first and foremost, particularly mothers who based on their own personal preference choose to leave the workplace in order to raise their children. Basic income should be provided for mothers without preconditions: not as welfare or charity, but as a remuneration for a crucial job in society.

Prioritizing UBI for mothers would be a win-win situation: it not only would help mothers, it would directly boost support for the entire next generation of society that mothers are now raising. Many personal and social problems, such as depression, anxiety and mental illness later in life, can be traced back to phenomena such as childhood neglect, stress, and traumas. Therefore, UBI would let mothers live with reduced economic stress, freeing them up to focus on caring, bonding with, and raising their children.

Likewise, as I’ve mentioned before, basic income for mothers would allow their participation in pro-social, connection-enriching activities, such as groups for pregnant women, parenting and home economics, among others, to enhance their motherly abilities with a supportive social climate. Naturally, such engagement in society would also positively influence their children.

Instead of treating mothers as second-class citizens, they should be recognized as “society’s CEOs”—the ruling force in creation, the only ones capable of giving birth to and nurturing a whole new generation. Keep in mind that the world is our roof, humanity is our home, and women are the pillar of this structure. Motherhood plays a critical role in giving birth to a new humanity. Therefore, taking a step forward in promoting UBI as critical support for mothers is a decision of utmost importance for a more promising future to all.
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Daily Kabbalah Lesson – 7/26/18

Lesson Preparation

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Lesson on the Topic “Gratitude for the Revelation of the Creator as the Source of Everything, and full Confidence that our Prayer for Connection was Answered” (Preparation for the Convention in Italy 2018)

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Lesson on the Topic “One Group. One Europe” (Preparation for the Convention in Italy 2018)

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My Thoughts On Twitter 7/25/18

Dr Michael Laitman Twitter

When our actions engage the light, we feel changes. By studying and disseminating the wisdom of Kabbalah and working in the group, we notice that we grow worse, see evil in ourselves and around, have ups and downs with respect to the properties of bestowal, connection, love, the Creator.

Ordinary #egoism is not an evil inclination, but our nature, in which we are born and grow. If a person does not engage in Kabbalah, he has neither a good, nor bad effect on his nature. After all, a change in one’s nature occurs only with the help of the light that created it.

Baal HaSulam, “The Peace”: Each state lasts until the evil in it ripens to the extent that it becomes unbearable, at which point it will have to be destroyed, and a better one built in its place. Thus the states alternate, until they become evil-free.

Baal HaSulam, “The Peace”: Each state has a strictly defined length of time, required for the growth of the degree of evil contained in this state, to such an extent that society can no longer bear it.

#BaalHaSulam Evaluation of good and evil depends on the goal of creation: every state nearing the goal is positive and distancing from the goal—negative. The law of development says that a defect and sin included in a certain state cause the appearance and construction of a good state.

Baal HaSulam, “The Peace”: The law of development embossed in mankind by the Creator pushes us forth. Incorrect behaviors themselves engender and create positive states. In fact, each good state is nothing but the fruit of the labor of a previous negative state.

Baal HaSulam: The Creator made the world for people so that with His help they reach the exalted goal of merging with Him. All that the Creator predetermined in the creation and gave to people was not given as a gift. The Creator secured our reaching His goal with a guarantee.

#BaalHaSulam, “The Peace”: Circulation of souls. Although it seems that everything that exists disappears, there are circulations; and no particle is at rest, for it is in constant motion in the circulation of the change of form, all the while losing none of its essence along the way.

#BaalHaSulam—Souls don’t disappear, but change the desire-bodies until final correction. There are no new fulfilled souls that get renewed like body-desires. A certain number of desire-souls undergo incarnations in a changed form, dressing in new desire-bodies in a new generation

The Galei TZAHAL radio station issued an apology for broadcasting 2 news stories in January 2017 in the “Good Morning, Israel” show slandering the non-profit Bnei Baruch—Kabbalah L’Am Organization.
From Twitter, 7/25/18

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Transferring The Knowledge By Word Of Mouth

laitman_232.08Question: Do we consider our lessons to be acquiring knowledge by word of mouth?

Answer: No. To convey something by word of mouth is the highest degree, a spiritual action called a “kiss” (Neshikin), when two people obtain a common screen.

It has no connection to the physical human body, to our lips or kisses; it is only described using these terms because there are no words in spirituality—we use all the words from our world.

If we achieve this conjugation, when both our screens connect and work precisely in unison at the level of the highest part of our common Partzuf, our common soul (HBD), then we are in a relationship “in a mutual kiss.”

This is an interconnection between two people: a student and a teacher, two students and two teachers, between anyone, at the highest level of their attainment (HBD).
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From the Kabbalah lesson in Russian 3/11/18

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Everything Is Relative To The Observer

laitman_276.02Question: What does it mean to rise to the level of the governance of our world? Does Kabbalah rule our world? What is it about?

Answer: Kabbalah does not rule our world.

The fact is that everything we perceive is what we call our world. This is my world. I do not know what the world really is and what it consists of. I only know what I feel and perceive. This is a very important point with which we have to start talking about a person and about where he is.

We have to understand that our world is one that we build within. Therefore, this concept cannot be objective. Everything is relative to the observer. For example, today one might comprehend some things a certain way, and tomorrow interpret them differently. There are, of course, general laws, rules, and methods, but in the end, we are only speaking of a person’s individual comprehension.
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From the Kabbalah Lesson in Russian 3/11/18

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New Life 21 – A Warm Relationship At Home

New Life 21 – A Warm Relationship At Home
Dr. Michael Laitman in conversation with Oren Levi, Nitzah Mazoz and Orit Dolev

Happiness stems from positive relationships. A warm atmosphere at home brings emotional and material security. In order to maintain this type of atmosphere, family members should smile at each other, show warmth, radiate joy, and support one another. Parents provide the example for the family. Criticism should be shared only at a specific time. Society needs to promote positive relationships through public campaigns similar to the “stop smoking” campaign that was so successful in changing attitudes and behavior around the world. Let’s build society together!
From KabTV’s “New Life 21 – A Warm Relationship At Home,” 6/26/12

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Daily Kabbalah Lesson – 7/25/18

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Lesson on the Topic “In an Effort to Connect the Hearts, the Evil Inclination is Revealed” (Preparation for the Convention in Italy 2018)

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Writings of Baal HaSulam, “The Peace”

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Audio Version Of The Blog – 7/24/18

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According To The Highest Plan

laitman_942Rabash, The Social Writings, “Concerning Love of Friends”: What is the reason I chose specifically these friends, and why have the friends chosen me?

On one hand, we came together accidentally because we were looking for the meaning of life, the possibility of understanding existence, and we are guided by our common goal.

On the other hand, everything happens from above. As we later understand, it was the higher plan that led us to come together. It unites and brings us closer to each other despite the fact that we are egoists, especially those who come to study Kabbalah. These are people who have never really been drawn to each other or to others, everyone felt themselves as individuals.

Therefore, when they come together, they have a special job: to show love to each other, to organize meals and various activities together, and so on. Generally, this is not for them because such behavior is contrary to their nature. But they have to do this in order to become closer to each other.
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From KabTV’s “The Last Generation” 1/18/18

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