Question: My intention to act should come from the desire of others. It happens that the person next to me wants to talk, but I promised another to do important work for him. What should I choose if the people around me have different or even opposite desires?
Answer: It depends on specific cases. But, in principle, the most important thing is that what you promised to a person must be fulfilled.
Question: You said that Kabbalists are very obliging people. What does it mean?
Answer: They feel what is important to the other and try to help him in this action.
From KabTV’s “Blitz Of Kabbalah Tips” 5/18/23