The Nature Of A Person Is To Imitate Others

567.04Question: There is this concept called a “Challenge”—a special type of video, where its creator demonstrates something and gives the task to others to repeat. For example, he douses himself with ice-cold water and says, “Repeat after me.” It can be smart, stupid, complex, and simple things.

This happens every day, and hundreds of millions of people around the world repeat it. Why do people like to follow after others?

Answer: I do not know if they like to follow after others, but it is our nature. We learn from others. This is our monkey nature—the primates we evolved from. In general, it is natural for a person to repeat after others since he is a social animal. There is nothing new in this.

In the end, this integrates us, brings us closer. In some ways, we begin to understand each other better. That is not bad. It depends on what we imitate.

Comment: There is a trend: do a good deed and put it on the Internet, show how you did it. Help someone.

My Response: That is a different story. Then I am all for it.
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From KabTV’s “Kabbalah Express” 2/16/21

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New Life 1299 – Coping With Failure In A Connected World

New Life 1299 – Coping With Failure In A Connected World
Dr. Michael Laitman in conversation with Oren Levi and Nitzah Mazoz

In a connected world, failure is not an individual matter but stems out of the connection between an individual and society. A successful society is one in which each of its members contributes to the protection and success of every citizen. There will always be malfunctions and they will actually lead us to success if we use them to learn how to work more closely together. Anyone can be like the king of the world if he has the right support from his environment.
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From KabTV’s “New Life 1299 – Coping With Failure In A Connected World,” 2/21/21

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Asking For Correction

938.05Question: If when you do good you are given only evil, do you need to do evil to receive goodness?

Answer: You do not need to inflict harm on anyone. Evil appears inside us. We just need to try to change its form, to come to the group with it and ask for correction through the group.

All our work is basically asking the Creator to correct the evil into good. It is because evil is determined not by the evil itself but by its inability to fit into the connection between us in the ten. Suppose something appears to me as a huge evil but can actually help me integrate in the ten correctly, then it does not seem to me as evil. It is felt as much smaller and perhaps even not as evil at all. I must evaluate myself this way all the time.
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From KabTV’s “Fundamentals of Kabbalah” 12/16/18

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Discovering Abraham In Yourself

740.02Question: The 12th century Kabbalist and philosopher Rambam wrote: “When the people gathered to Abraham and inquired about his words, he told everyone according to the extent of their understanding, until he brought them back to the right path. So, thousands and tens of thousands gathered to him—they are the people of the house of Abraham.”

How did Rambam, who lived 2,000 years after these events, know that this was how it happened?

Answer: When a Kabbalist is engaged in research, he himself goes through all these states within himself. The fact is that we see the world that exists in us. There is nothing outside of us.

Question: Is it possible for a Kabbalist to see it that way, but an ordinary person sees a world that is outside of him?

Answer: An ordinary person sees the supposed surrounding world. It only seems to him that this world exists. The Kabbalist understands that all this exists in his properties. So, if he changes his properties—and a Kabbalist can change them—it is like traveling through time.

For example, both Baal HaSulam and other Kabbalists write about what Abraham said. How do they know that he was speaking at such and such time under such and such circumstances? They sort of robe themselves in him.

Question: So, did Rambam find Abraham in himself?

Answer: Of course! All these properties! I seem to play these states in myself, find Abraham inside me, experience the same circumstances, connections, relationships as he does, and look at the world the same way he does.

The quality of Abraham begins to collect properties similar to it in me. With the property Nimrod, they have a conflict. All this in one person.

This is how resistance begins within him, when he discovers in himself a split into Nimrod and Abraham, the property of receiving and the property of giving.
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From KabTV’s “Spiritual States” 5/13/19

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“Honor Your Father And Your Mother”

546.02Question: The fifth commandment is “Honor your father and your mother, in order that your days be lengthened on the land that the Lord, your God, is giving you.” What is it about? Who are the father and the mother?

Answer: Father and mother are the forces of Hassadim and Hochma.

The Creator is the upper force. He is followed by two lower ones: Hochma and Bina. Hochma is the force of the father and Bina is the force of the mother. Then there are another six derivatives that compose Zeir Anpin: Hesed, Gevura, Tifferet, Netzach, Hod, Yesod.

The last Sefira is Malchut, and this is the complete creation.

The phrase “honor your father and your mother” means that we should give Hochma and Bina the opportunity to build, to create, so that everything that exists in them would appear in the six Sefirot of Zeir Anpin, in six forces.

Question: What does “to honor” mean?

Answer: To honor means to wait when they are revealed in creation because Hochma and Bina, father and mother, are above the created being and above creation. The Creator creates through them. Therefore the six Sefirot of Zeir Anpin are created by the father and the mother, which practically shape the creation.

“Honor your father and your mother” means to give these forces the opportunity to act within you. It is like in our world: can the fetus do anything? Even a small child? Everything is done for him by his parents. And here we are talking about the correct attitude of the lower one to the upper one. A person in our world must allow the upper forces to act, to form him.
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From KabTV’s “Spiritual States” 12/26/19

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“Women Can Repair The World” (Thrive Global)


Thrive Global published my new article: “Women Can Repair the World

If women express a desire for humanity’s unity above all of its divisions and if they unite as a major force with this desire, they will urge men in the direction of unity.

Casey Cawthon, 32, Public Relations Director for Well Done Marketing, is shown working from the home office space she has created during the COVID-19 pandemic, Friday, Oct. 23, 2020. Cawthon, a single mom and diabetic, is considered high risk and has been working from home since mid-March.Casey Cawthon, Public Relations Director for Well Done Marketing

Whether our global home stands or falls apart in complete destruction depends on women. The celebrations of the International Women’s Day this year should be a reminder of the fact that the female force is a unifying power and is the kind of leadership so needed in these critical times as the world slowly tries to get back on its feet from a long bout of COVID-19. Women have been at the epicenter of the pandemic, in the frontlines of healthcare services and particularly hit hard by job losses. But this could be used as an opportunity for a new start to shape a more balanced society.

When men receive such a strong impetus to unite from women, they will work to fulfill those demands and will strive to unite and balance with the unified form of nature that functions with altruistic connections between all of its parts. Therefore, women’s strengths should be directed to female unity so they could contribute to society’s prosperity and happiness through unifying their efforts into building a new, comfortable and welcoming home for human society.

Studies on the socio-economic impact of the pandemic show that women have been nearly twice as likely as men to lose their jobs as a result of the COVID-19 outbreak. As a palliative solution, the UN recommends a Temporary Basic Income for six months, the amount would vary depending on each country’s standard of living. We have reached a critical point where these measures should already be implemented and considered for a longer period of time.

On one hand, help should be provided to both men and women in a way that allows them to live with dignity, without excess but covering their basic needs. On the other hand, we need to make sure that every woman also has the opportunity to continue her work from home. If we thus use the time when we are bound to our homes in order to upgrade our awareness of nature’s unifying principle and to implement it in our relationships, we will then see far-reaching positive impacts of the COVID-19 crisis—a shift into a completely new and harmonious state among humanity, the likes of which we have never experienced before.

Through the pandemic, nature is trying to wake us to our need to make a further step in our evolution: to exercise positive, supportive, encouraging and considerate relations. Our selfish makeup is what led us to create a society that functions with each one trying to profit off everyone else; operating this way throws us all off balance. Essentially, we now need to reach a state where we care about others to the same extent we care about ourselves.

If we know the right place for men, women, parents, and children as components in society that complement each other, we will progress nicely in support and in mutual strengthening. According to nature’s structure, the female represents the desire to receive while the male represents the intention to give. Therefore, if women express a desire for humanity’s unity above all of its divisions and if they unite as a major force with this desire, they will urge men in the direction of unity.

Then, when men receive such a strong impetus to unite from women, they will work to fulfill those demands and will strive to unite and balance with the unified form of nature that functions with altruistic connections between all of its parts. Therefore, women’s strengths should be directed to female unity so they could contribute to society’s prosperity and happiness through unifying their efforts into building a new, comfortable and welcoming home for human society.

We will all feel as if we share a common home, like we live among a giant loving family in a completely new and upgraded kind of awareness of the laws of nature and the world we exist in. Now is the time to repair the world as only women know how to do.

I wish you success!!
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— Published on March 8, 2021

“What To Do With Vocal, Antisemitic Academics” (Linkedin)


My new article on Linkedin “What to Do with Vocal, Antisemitic Academics

Professor of Political Sociology David Miller of the University of Bristol recently referred to Jewish students on his campus as “pawns” of Israel, “a violent, racist, foreign regime engaged in ethnic cleansing.” Such accusations are baseless and absurd. However, the more interesting point about this statement is that while more than 100 MPs [Members of Parliament] and peers from every big political party called on the University of Bristol to act against Prof. Miller, some 200 academics from the United Kingdom and the United States signed a petition defending him. This petition demonstrates that Miller’s views are not only his own, that many people share them, even if some of them hide their antisemitism behind the “free speech” cloak.

The more we stall with implementing our ancient union and our ancient task, the more the world will hate us. The more international relations deteriorate the world over, the more the world will blame it on the Jews, and particularly on Israel. We should not take this lightly; it is our chance to carry out our mission, and we must not miss out on the opportunity. If we shun this invitation to be “a light unto nations,” the world will not forgive us, and we will have no one else to blame but ourselves.

Because Miller’s views are so pervasive, I think it is time for us to realize that silencing antisemites will not stop antisemitism. Instead, we must use such incidents as levers to explain our place in the world as a nation and as a state.

First, we must agree that no matter how badly we want to be like everyone else, Jews are not like other nations. If the whole world singles you out for condemnation, simply telling the world that it is wrong will not convince anyone. Even if the facts are in your favor, hate filled people do not listen to facts; their feelings are the only justification they need. Therefore, if the world hates us, and it does, we should try to understand why.

Take any nation, besides Jews, and you will find a common origin. Every nation started with a nucleus that had some biological affinity. The Jewish people, from the very beginning, were different. We began when people from different places, different faiths, and no biological affinity whatsoever, found a common tenet that they shared and wanted to implement in practice. That tenet was union above division, affinity over enmity, or as King Solomon put it, “Love will cover all crimes” (Prov. 10:12). Rabbi Akiva stated it even more explicitly when he said that the tenet “Love your neighbor as yourself” is the great rule of Jewish law, the Torah.

Through their efforts to practice this hitherto unthinkable idea, our ancestors created such a tight bond among them that they united “as one man with one heart” and formed a new nation out of countless prior enemies. In a sense, the ancient Israelites implemented among themselves the idea of world peace before anyone had thought of the idea.

Indeed, right from the very beginning, it became clear that the unique union the early Jews had established should serve as a role model for the rest of the world, that this is how nations should live with one another. But no one, besides the Jews, had ever done it, or tried it, or even thought of the idea. Clearly, it was up to the Jews to spread the idea and the method for implementing brotherhood above differences and hatred. This is why the Torah writes that the Jews were intended to be “a light unto nations,” that their task was to show the way for achieving peace and harmony throughout the world, as they had achieved among themselves. Acclaimed historian Paul Johnson eloquently captured the essence and vocation of the Jewish people in his book A History of the Jews: “At a very early stage in their collective existence they [Jews] believed they had detected a divine scheme for the human race, of which their own society was to be a pilot.”

While we were in exile, we were dispersed among the nations and could not be that pilot society. But now that we have returned to our land, the ancient duty has become valid, and accordingly, the demand of the nations that we implement it has grown more pressing.

The State of Israel, the state of the Jewish people, is therefore the place where Jews should unite above their differences and cover all the crimes of mutual hatred with love. If we do this, the world will justify our existence as a sovereign state. If we do not, they will use every pretext to deny our legitimacy until they finally resolve to terminate the existence of the Jewish state.

The more we stall with implementing our ancient union and our ancient task, the more the world will hate us. The more international relations deteriorate the world over, the more the world will blame it on the Jews, and particularly on Israel. We should not take this lightly; it is our chance to carry out our mission, and we must not miss out on the opportunity. If we shun this invitation to be “a light unto nations,” the world will not forgive us, and we will have no one else to blame but ourselves.
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“Equality Ad Absurdum” (Linkedin)


My new article on Linkedin “Equality ad Absurdum

Recently, six of the popular children’s books author Dr. Seuss were banned from Amazon for ostensibly containing “racist” content. As a child, Dr. Seuss, who came from German descent, was himself a victim of prejudice after suffering from anti-German aggression following the outbreak of World War I in 1914. Ironically, now his own books have been banned for ostensibly containing racist phrases. This accusation is so absurd that people responded with buying so many of Dr. Seuss’ books that they have soared to the top of Amazon’s bestseller list, occupying nine out of the marketplace’s top 10 books.

Only if we try to build closeness, care, and appreciation of each other will we put an end to bigotry in our society and form truly healthy and enjoyable communities to live in.

The absurdity of the quest for equality doesn’t stop with Dr. Seuss. In many high-tech companies, as well as in other areas, it has become a requirement that a certain percentage of executives will be women, regardless of their skills. In some cases, women must attend meetings even if they’re not in their areas of expertise, take part in decision making processes, and even cast their vote despite everyone’s awareness that they are completely clueless on the topic, but if no women are included in the vote, the decision will be invalid.

Another place where the pursuit of equality has gone beyond the boundaries of reason is computers. Terms such as “black list” and “white list” have been replaced in many cases with “deny list” and “allow list,” and the terms “master” and “slave” in computer networks have been replaced with “primary” and “secondary.” Indeed, the quest for equality has reached absurd proportions.

We can’t help it; people always have been, are, and will be different. This is what they should be! Differences do not make people better or worse, superior or inferior, but striving to make them the same does make them miserable. People are not born equal because we are all unique! Erasing our uniqueness is exactly what harms us. Instead of trying to cut everyone according to the measurements of the moral Procrustean bed, so everyone is seemingly the same and equally unhappy, we should embrace our differences because what one person contributes to society, no other person can contribute.

We shouldn’t be working on installing equal status for everyone in society, but on cultivating equal appreciation and care for all members of society, on appreciating everyone’s unique contribution. If we value one another, we won’t need to worry about discrimination or inequity since our concern for one another will generate positive relationships among everyone.

Think of a mother with two children: She does not think that both her children are the same or equal, but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t love them equally. If one of them is a slower learner than the other, she might hire a tutor to help the struggling child. This doesn’t mean that she discriminates one of her children. She is simply tending to her children’s different needs equally. Since one child needs more help than the other, the mother responds accordingly.

Therefore, if we want to live in a society where people are happy, we needn’t try to make them equal, but to make them caring! Mutual care is the only guarantee we can provide to the well-being of society and the people living in it. Fighting against racism, antisemitism, chauvinism, or any kind of discrimination has never solved any of them. Only if we try to build closeness, care, and appreciation of each other will we put an end to bigotry in our society and form truly healthy and enjoyable communities to live in.
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