We can never truly unite our desires and our intentions. We can connect only within the Creator. There we interconnect and become a ten. That is why it is necessary to constantly speak about the greatness of the Creator, without Whom we will not complete our construction of the ten. We can talk endlessly about unity, but nothing will happen.
The end of the action must already be laid in the initial thought, that is, in adhesion with the Creator; therefore, it must be involved in the beginning of each action.1
From the 2nd part of the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 5/10/18, Talmud Eser Sefirot, Part 4,Chapter 1, Item5
1 Minute 35:20