“Why is God angry at me?” (Quora)

Dr. Michael LaitmanMichael Laitman, On Quora: “Why is God angry at me?“

There is no such thing as God getting angry at you.

Some writings in the Torah could be misinterpreted that way because it speaks in the language of human beings, but the upper force has no anger. It is above human emotions. It is more accurate to think of God as a system that knows everything that is going to happen in advance.

Negative phenomena that enter our lives, such as natural disasters and pandemics, are not out of any anger on God’s behalf. Instead, they come in order to teach us how to better understand the system we exist in, and to organize ourselves in balance with that system: to become as integrally connected as the system.

How can we know for sure that not balancing ourselves with nature as an integral system is the reason for the misfortunes that befall us?

We see how nature is an interconnected and interdependent system, and the human being is the only part in this system that has free choice. Only we can push nature out of its balanced connection.

How does this work?

We humans were made with egoistic desires to enjoy ourselves at the expense of others and nature. Such an inclination is called “evil” or “bad” due to its opposition to the system’s functioning.

While starting out in this opposition to nature’s connected form, we need to balance ourselves with nature by entering into positive, kind and caring relationships with each other.

If we fail to motion toward changing ourselves from being negatively connected to each other, where we wish to benefit ourselves at each other’s expense, to a positive connection where we wish to benefit and serve others, then we invite various errors and negative responses to accumulate in the system, and the system accordingly reacts. We fill the system with more and more deviations, and then it boomerangs back to us accordingly. Its response targets the negative connections that we inserted into it, and such a response is aimed precisely at correcting us, i.e., at shifting us from negative to positive relations among each other.

It is important to emphasize that this single system of nature, God or the upper force—all of which are one and the same, i.e., a single force of love and bestowal—relates to us according to how we relate to each other, and not solely in terms of how we relate to the system on its still, vegetative and animate levels. Therefore, however you might think about this system, whether as God, the Creator, the upper force or as nature, it has the same demand toward you: that you positively connect with other people.

Based on the video “Why Is God Angry at Me?” with Kabbalist Dr. Michael Laitman.
Written/edited by students of Kabbalist Dr. Michael Laitman.

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Daily Kabbalah Lesson – 8/21/23

Preparation to the Lesson

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1st part of the Lesson — Writings of Rabash, “What Is, His Guidance Is Concealed and Revealed?”

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2nd part of the Lesson — Writings of Rabash, Explanation of the Article, “Preface to the Wisdom of Kabbalah”

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Selected Highlights

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Questions about Spiritual Work—8

528.01Question: Is the request of the lower ones to bring us closer to the Creator from the bottom up or to attract the light to us from the top down?

Answer: It is to lift us up to the Creator from the bottom up.

Question: When feeling joy, each of us also feels and sees the joy of our friends. How do we understand that we brought contentment to the Creator and that He enjoys our good connections?

Answer: You must reach a state where you feel how the Creator relates to you. And it will be felt by you as joy.

Question: The Creator gives us all the states. We either run away from the battlefield or run after the Creator. How can we make Him bring us closer to Himself?

Answer: Try to gather all your friends into one common whole where there will be no difference between you. In this, you will feel closer to the Creator.

Question: Before asking you about something, some friends feel such intense awe that they are afraid to ask questions. How can we work with this feeling? Is it necessary to overcome it so as not to hesitate to ask?

Answer: I think there is nothing to be shy about. Questions should be asked. You can first discuss them between you in the group and then ask.

Question: You recommended to rise above all contradictions and unite in one heart. How do we work with these contradictions?

Answer: You should try to get closer to the Creator yourself and drag all your friends with you.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 8/2/23, “Revealing the Glory of His Kingship”

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The Creator Understands Everything

942Question: Which efforts are more important: to love and see the greatness of the friends or to focus on love for the Creator?

Answer: The most important thing is to turn to the Creator and through Him try to solve all our problems, especially spiritual ones.

Question: So what is better: to the friends and after them to the Creator, or from the Creator to the friends?

Answer: It depends on what stage you are at. But it is best to turn to the friends, and with them to the Creator.

Continue to clarify your questions with the friends and with the Creator. Then everything will work out.

Do not worry about the fact that you may not be able to ask the right question. The Creator understands everything. It is said about this: “The Creator will finish for me.”
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 8/4/23, “Revealing the Glory of His Kingship”

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The Special Power of Psalms

168Question: When we read the Psalms of David, we feel their special power. Can we read them as preparation for the lesson, and how will this help us open our hearts even more?

Answer: Psalms in Hebrew are called Tehillim. You can read them; it is very beneficial because it attracts a person and brings one closer to the Creator.

Psalms were written by King David, who in the general system of souls corresponds to Malchut.

Therefore, if we read them, we very strongly influence our connection with the Creator through this. All over the world, Psalms are valued as a very serious ascent to the Creator, as praising the Creator.

Question: We have disagreements about the reading of Psalms. Some people think that it is necessary to read several Psalms at a time, but even one Psalm is difficult for me. How should we read them correctly together?

Answer: I think it is better to read one Psalm slowly from beginning to end, perhaps even splitting it into two or three parts. You can read it alone and see how it affects you.

You should not read several Psalms at once, read a maximum of one. Psalms are a great power; they have a lot of energy. I wish for everyone to feel it.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 8/3/23, “Revealing the Glory of His Kingship”

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Inside the “Black Box”

198Question: There is a common expression: “A thought came to mind.” Where does the thought come from?

Answer: We do not know this.

Comment: A person does not really think about this much.

My Response: Exactly, that is why a person does not think about it; a person does not know. A person cannot control it and is not capable of controlling it. And even if someone from the outside would tell him about it, it still would not help because he cannot exit the “black box”—himself.

Question: Within the framework of our material life, it seems to us that we formulate our own goals and decide for ourselves how to achieve them. Is it an illusion or not?

Answer: Of course it seems that way. After all, we cannot be certain about anything. We make mistakes, change our minds, and listen to other opinions. In regard to everything that happens, a person cannot say with 100% certainty that he is sure of something. There is no ultimate truth.
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From KabTV’s “Kabbalah Express” 7/31/23

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In All Languages of the World

276.05Question: If I can read Hebrew a little, but I make a mistake in pronunciation, can I read Psalms and the Torah? There is an opinion that if you pronounce words in Hebrew incorrectly, it can do harm.

Answer: Neither you nor anyone else can harm themselves no matter how they read and distort the text. Feel free to open the book in Hebrew and read.

Of course, it is better to do it in Hebrew, but it is also good to read in your native language. Psalms have been translated into all languages of the world. Everyone can find a canonical translation for themselves and read it.

Question: What translation of Psalms is in the archive of the Kabbalah academy?

Answer: I once translated them into Russian and did the adaptation of some Psalms, the way I think they should sound. I recommend you read it. But there is a perfectly clear official version of Psalms in Hebrew.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 8/3/23, “Revealing the Glory of His Kingship”

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Movement within Three Points

161Question: You often throw us from one end to the other. First you say we should be working on ourselves, then you say to work with people outside of our group, and then back to ourselves and round again. Is it done so that a person would not get stuck in one place?

Answer: No work should be left out for us because we are moving within the three points. It is like aiming a rifle when the eye has to be on the same line with the sight and the target; we should apply exactly the same principle. Our heart, meaning my desires, the desires of the group, of the world, and the upper stage of creation, which we call the Creator, have to be on one line. Based on this you should always look further.

For a person who is not yet even at the minimal attainment of the entire universe, his “me,” the entire humanity, and the Creator (the upper level of nature) do not align. He is unable to look in front of him at the nearest point and the farthest point simultaneously. He cannot! They are different for him; this is me and this is society.

However when he’s at least at the first rung he can see that “me” and society are the same thing, and then he can also see the Creator, the common force of bestowal that begets, holds, and fulfills the entire creation. That is when this is normal for him.
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New Life 232 – Happiness And Suffering

New Life 232 – Happiness And Suffering
Dr. Michael Laitman in conversation with Oren Levi and Tal Mandelbaum ben Moshe

Does the degree of our suffering depend upon the plan of nature? How can we influence it through an environment so that it will balance and direct us toward correction and a sense of eternal happiness?

Suffering is a feeling of a lack of fulfillment. It is a kind of empty place; if it were filled, I would be happy.
The feeling of suffering is necessary for our development as humans and the evolution of humanity. It currently appears that suffering is not due to material shortages, but rather from an essential lack of relationship between us. All dreams have collapsed—the communist, the capitalist, and the democratic.

None of them have ended suffering. The origin of suffering is to be found within a person, in one’s relationships with others. When we correct our nature, we will stop suffering. When a person has a higher purpose, even suffering on the way is felt as pleasure. And if there is no purpose, everything is suffering. Without suffering there cannot be any happiness; without darkness there is no light. It requires contrast, like minus and plus.

All of the wisdom of life is about making the right connection between a feeling of lack and a feeling of fulfillment, such that they don’t extinguish each other. We experience hunger for food and hunger for sex. Without an appetite, pleasure cannot be felt. Enjoyment from family is also not felt that much today.

It is necessary to awaken a desire for family in a person. If it were possible that appetite and its fulfillment would not extinguish each other, there would simply be perfect happiness. The Eastern approaches say that it is preferable not to desire; you will suffer less. But this doesn’t help us today. Women suffer more than men because they have the ability to endure greater suffering; they are much stronger.

We fear future suffering and picture bad things that are liable to happen. Nature is developing me so I can recognize that my egoism is doing bad things to me. Our nature is to benefit ourselves at the expense of others. Therefore all of us suffer. Many understand this, but nobody knows what can be done about this destructive nature. Instead, we resist change and are unwilling to go out of our comfort zone. We must anticipate what remedy will soften a blow and explain that there is a way to improve human nature, with the help of society.

Imagine a situation in which everyone loves you. There is nothing better than that. What must we do for this to happen? If we don’t advance toward a change in human nature, then a difficult future will be ahead for us. But there is room for optimism. If only we will want to change a little, then this will happen.
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From KabTV’s “New Life 232 – Happiness And Suffering,” 9/29/13
This summary was written and edited by students of Kabbalist Dr. Michael Laitman

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