Comment: A writer asks, “I want to understand how I can cope with myself. I cannot help telling the truth to people. I feel bad if I hide it and, therefore, I constantly break up relations; I speak the truth. I do not know what to do.” This is such a heartfelt cry.
My Response: This is not a heartfelt cry. It is a cry of egoism because he wants to impose his opinion on others. He believes that he understands the state of others, their wrong state, their possible correct state, and he wants to impose his understanding on them. This is absolute egoism that must simply be destroyed within oneself.
Who gives you the right to impose your opinion, your feelings, and your tastes on others?! Do they expect this from you?! Even if you think that this will make you better, it still does not give you the right to approach them and start filling them with your reasoning, tastes, goals, and so on.
Comment: I must say that there are a lot of people who think so.
My Response: This is such upbringing.
Question: Is there, generally speaking, such a truth that needs to be told to a person?
Answer: Truth is only in giving a person freewill so that he chooses his truth and that’s all. This is the most important thing in raising children and in relationships between adults as well.
Question: How can we do it?
Answer: Teach a person the technique of the correct revelation of life. If it were so, then we would all live perfectly, and so it will be someday.
Question: What if a person has a 100% belief that he is right and is simply obliged to pass it on to another?
Answer: Then he must shut himself up and swallow himself in order not to choke on his own truth!
What egoism he has! This egoism does not even allow him to feel it. The only thing that a person can do is to simply understand how selfish he is, that he is obliged to fill another with his opinion.
It’s horrible! This is stated very simply: “The highest limit of wisdom is in silence.”
Question: That is, you are better off keeping quiet at this moment?
From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman” 3/15/21