Answer: The fact is that when I feel any kind of suffering and begin to understand that in this way the Creator guides me correctly, I already bless them and do not feel them as sufferings but as guiding forces. And then the suffering disappears. I may even want to suffer in some form, just as we pay a doctor for an operation in order to get rid of the pain.
But the desirable way is when we connect with each other and try to change the negative attributes and relations into positive ones. This is a much easier, faster way that brings us to the goal more than anything and absolutely annuls all the sufferings.
If we correctly interact with each other in the group, then all sufferings disappear or turn into positive sensations, even pleasure.
From KabTV’s “Fundamentals of Kabbalah” 11/18/18