Answer: There are people who are like this and people who are like that. A person is a very complex, multifaceted creature, and often is one way and then another.
At one moment, he is suddenly overcome with romantic feelings and is almost in tears. And then, everything becomes irrelevant to him and he treats everything with disinterest. And all of this can happen within the same day. That is why we must give everyone the possibility to participate in a congress, and ultimately, the surrounding Light will influences everyone.
From the Kabbalah Lesson in Russian 2/19/17