People understand that they cannot find the meaning of life in marriage. They cannot find the meaning of life in work either.
Comment: And, it seems, not in friendship either.
My Response: And in friendship, of course. Meaning—nowhere. So what is the point? I’m lying in bed, why should I get up? There is no reason, simply no reason to move, to think, to speak, to do anything at all. That is how a kind of world-freezing happens.
Comment: And today, more and more so.
My Response: Yes, of course.
So what is the point? It is only if we reveal the meaning of life, which is above this state. And if at least somehow, we can talk about it, show it, and shake people up, stir them. Otherwise, of course, it will all end with someone eventually starting to sell pills that put you to sleep forever.
And people will buy them. Oh yes, they will! They will happily throw them in their mouths, wash them down with a glass of water, lie down peacefully, and that is it. And what happens to them afterward, what difference does it make?
Comment: But that sounds illogical. If a person feels really bad, in theory he should be looking for how to…
My Response: But what can he do if he sees no way out? What is there to live for?!
Comment: In connection, at least in some kind of connection with someone else, some kind at all?
My Response: That exists. So they gather in some clubs. But in general, even that comes to an end.
Question: That isn’t a solution, you’re sure?
Answer: No, of course not.
Question: So not until a person breaks through to the meaning of life. Is such a breakthrough happening, and that is why this trend is here?
Answer: Yes, a person must break through such a barrier, which is absolute unwillingness toward anything at all. And only afterward does one discover a completely different life. In a certain sense it is death. After crossing this boundary, one discovers that there is life, but it is different, and now I can begin to exist in it.
Question: So you’re saying that a person really must go through death in order to start living?
Answer: He must understand, agree, and want to renounce this life, the egoistic life, the chasing after something and somehow. When he agrees to that in some form, it can be done in different forms, then he will be ready for the next life.
Question: What is your advice to a lonely person who is so lonely that his soul aches with despair?
Answer: My advice is to go to our website and read. Nothing else. Truly, I really don’t want to say this, but I have nothing else to suggest.
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From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman,” 8/23/25
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