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Don’t Be Afraid of Obstacles

276.01Question: What is a spiritual obstacle?

Answer: A spiritual obstacle is something that hinders a person’s spiritual development.

Question: How can one come to a greater taste in Torah and in prayer so as to not be afraid of obstacles and to unite more with their help?

Answer: It depends on how much you invest in your spiritual path, and how much you ask the Creator to clear the path for you to allow you to advance and to give you the physical and mental strength to overcome everything that arises in front of you.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 8/15/24, Writings of Rabash “What to Ask of the Creator—to Be His Servant”

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Black and White

290Question: If the Creator is the goal throughout the journey and unification and love of friends are the means of revealing the Creator, then it turns out that this is an egoistic action. Will there be a moment when the means are more important than the goal?

Answer: Then what is special about the very action of unification if it is not aimed at achieving the result of merging opposite parts above your individual egoism?

Comment: But reaching adhesion seems rather selfish: I want, I desire, adhesion.

My Response: This is an action above the ego, which does not disappear. You remain divided into parts, and an even greater differentiation of egoism manifests in you.

At every moment, you feel the inner division and opposition growing between you, not as between primitive people, but as between developed people in whom there are disagreements about tastes in cooking, art, life, and so on.

At the same time, you begin to feel exactly how your mutual complement emerges above all this in attaining the Creator since He is comprehended in the difference between you and your correct unity. We have no other tool to sense Him, to model Him, in ourselves.

We must necessarily consist of opposite properties that can combine. Thus, from their combination we will understand what the Creator is; He belongs to another state above this world, which is something we cannot comprehend. But when we model this state in ourselves and arrange it, we begin to understand it, but still from the opposite.

In fact, we do not feel the Creator, but something we create in ourselves. Therefore, the Creator is called Boreh—”Bo – Reh,” “come and see.” Come, that is, create Him in yourself, and then you will feel Him, get to know Him.

We create this as black and white—two opposites that unite into one single whole and complement each other.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 2/24/20, “Preparation for the Convention”

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Without Personal Gain

608.02Question: I want to follow your advice and love my friend. But my egoistic nature causes repulsion, and I must rise to the level of love for him. So what is my prayer for the other?

Answer: When you try to rise above hatred to love and you make serious efforts to do so, such great egoism is revealed in you that shows you cannot do this. Then you begin to realize that only the Creator can help you, and you seek contact with Him. It is in this search that one can find the Creator.

Question: So what do I ask Him at this moment?

Answer: Ask Him to help you be in love above hatred.

Question: But it sounds like I am asking for help for myself?

Answer: Why is it for yourself? You want to show love for others! It appears above hatred, above egoism. We do not understand what the manifestation of the quality of bestowal is. It seems to us that I bestow and this is my gain. No, this is not my gain.

The spiritual property requires us to absolutely renounce and rise above egoism. You are making a restriction. We do not feel what the first restriction, the screen, or the reflected light are when you completely start working for bestowal. Then you want to connect to the Creator so He can help you with this. There is no personal gain here; it has long been left behind.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 2/24/20, “Preparation for the Convention”

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Fulfill the Creator’s Mission

929Question: When I need to connect with someone and I do not like that person, is it possible to see that the Creator is benevolent to me in this situation, even in an abstract sense?

Answer: I do not know what it means that the Creator is good to me. To the extent that I realize that the entire program works solely for me, for my benefit, I start to reveal that everything in the world exists only to help me correctly express myself within the overall creation.

I begin to discover that I am the only being capable of acting independently within all of creation, that there is no one else in the world except me and the Creator. Then, I realize what I truly need to do.

At this point, it is necessary to nullify my egoism to rise to the level of the Creator as a partner and constantly remain in this state. As it is written: “And his heart was lifted up in the ways of the Lord.”

We must feel that we are chosen, special, and capable of bringing the world to correction and a new state. The Creator has chosen us and we must be worthy of this choice and not beg Him to grant us some egoistic indulgences.

We must act in accordance with the mission He has entrusted to us, and under no circumstances should we lower our heads. On the contrary, we should elevate ourselves even higher so that the mission given to us truly fills and inspires us.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 2/24/20, “Preparation for the Convention”

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Ask for Someone Else

562.01Question: How does prayer help build a screen if we do not ask for it directly or we do not explicitly say in the prayer: “We ask to build a screen”?

Answer: You are asking for it because you are praying for someone else. By doing this, you build the screen.

Asking for someone else is the most reliable way to change yourself and your position regarding the entire Kli.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 8/11/24, Writings of Rabash “Laboring and Finding”

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Turn on Your Imagination

237Question: You teach us that ultimately everything depends on the correct request to the Creator. How can we ask correctly from the heart of the ten?

Answer: Try to imagine the pain the Creator feels when we are distant from Him and how much pleasure we can bring Him if we ask to draw closer to Him and to be included in Him. That is very important.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 8/13/24, Writings of Rabash “The Ruin of Kedusha [Holiness]”

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Unflattering Mirror

938.01Question: If I see flaws in others, it is as if I am looking at myself in a mirror. Is the right action to immediately turn to the Creator to correct myself? How can I make this action automatic, or would making it automatic be a detriment?

Answer: It depends on what you ask for. If you ask for the correction of this quality in yourself, naturally, you should expect yourself to change in some way. If you are asking for friends, you should see how much they are changing. But in any case, there will be changes.

Question: If the transgression I see is mine, do I need to say automatically, “This is me? Do I need to be corrected?”

Answer: Yes.

Question: Does this mean that any request is about correcting yourself?

Answer: This is how it is. Do not worry. The main thing is to ask.

Question: And if I ask for correction of a friend without seeing specific flaws in him, does it mean I do not have them either?

Answer: This also happens.

Question: So you do not always need to instantly attribute any flaw to yourself, right?

Answer: No, but when I ask for the correction of some flaw, I can ask for myself at the same time.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 8/11/24, Writings of Rabash “Laboring and Finding”

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Questions about Spiritual Work—163

281.02Question: While working within our ten we make great efforts to unite, but when we meet with other tens, the sense of unity is much stronger. There are no barriers, only the power, strength, and unity of thoughts and souls. How can we retain such a gift within our group? Does this mean we are ready for connection with the world Kli?

Answer: Perhaps you are already ready, but it still must be strengthened and developed.

Question: How should our efforts and love for the Creator be properly balanced? Sometimes it seems that one cancels out the other.

Answer: Try to connect everything, and from that place ask the Creator for closeness with Him.

Question: If some are interested in Kabbalah and listen to our materials a bit, but do not have the desire to make an effort to study on their own, should we encourage them? Or should we wait for their Reshimot to be revealed?

Answer: It is always worth encouraging them, even for your own sake.

Question: If the heart reveals not only love for the Creator, but also questions for Him, how can this be corrected quickly?

Answer: Try to ask questions while simultaneously expressing love.

Question: Is the desire to receive for the sake of bestowal the same as love?

Answer: In general it symbolizes a good relationship.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 8/11/24, Writings of Rabash “Laboring and Finding”

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Soften the Hearts

938.05Question: If the ten pray together and receive a response from the Creator, should we say that the ten did the work or that the Creator did a good deed for the ten?

Answer: No, the request comes from below, from the person or the ten, and the Creator responds from above through the ten and perhaps directly to each individual.

Question: In our harsh world, there is a feeling that all of us have hearts of stone.

But we so deeply want to ask the Creator to make these hearts soft, like clay, from which we could sculpt a vessel and connect. What can make our hearts soft, collective, and unified?

Answer: The light of the Creator; if He influences us with His light, we will instantly turn into very soft lumps of clay that are able to unite with one another and we will feel Him within us.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 8/13/24, Writings of Rabash “The Ruin of Kedusha [Holiness]”

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How Can We Attract the Force of the Ten into the Prayer?

528.03Question: We learn that the most powerful prayer is in the ten. How can I draw the power of the ten into my prayer when I ask for them?

Answer: When you invest in your friends in the ten, they can help you to the same extent. But if you don’t, in a way you separate yourself from them. Then what can you demand?

When you ask for them, you can draw the power of the ten into your prayer only if you have a certain preparation and connection with each other.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 8/15/24, Writings of Rabash “What to Ask of the Creator—to Be His Servant”

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