Question: How can you help a friend prevent himself from leaving the spiritual work?
Answer: Get closer to him, talk and consult with him, and involve him more and more in spiritual work.
Question:What is “a Mitzva (commandment) induces a Mitzva”?
Answer:When a person strives to fulfill something of the Creator’s desires, it is called a commandment. And if he realizes it, he gets involved in it and fulfills the next commandment, and then the next, and so on.
Question:What can one do when feeling that no matter what you do and how hard you try it is still not enough? Is this a manifestation of egoism?
Answer: Yes, this is a manifestation of egoism. On the other hand, this is good because you need to strengthen your drawing closer to the Creator.
Question: It says that faith at the previous degree is checked by falling. What kind of test is this?
Answer: A test is when you receive a feeling of how disconnected you are from the Creator.
Question:How are Kelim of bestowal given? Is it to each according to the actions or the whole group?
Answer: Everyone is given what they must go through now. [327543] From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 4/3/24, Writings of Rabash “The Meaning of Exile”
Comment: A family nucleus has an interesting structure. People meet, get to know one another, sense one another in some way, and suddenly, you come to the point when you see yourself completely differently through your partner.
Precisely in this nucleus, you cannot escape anywhere and cannot hide anything. It is like work with myself.
Answer: Absolutely, you have to work against yourself. Spouses in a family are like a mirror for one another. Your wife reflects your essence to you. Therefore, you have to take into account what she says.
Question:Sometimes when I yield to my spouse, I feel like a man. However, sometimes the opposite happens, it is like I lose my dignity and self-respect. Is this still correct or is there something wrong here?
Answer: You need to concede almost always. But at the same time, you have to watch so it does not lead to excess. [327331] From KabTV’s “Man and Woman” 3/19/24
Question:According to Kabbalah, all structures are built according to the four stages of the development of desire. Does this apply even to works of fiction and movie scripts?
Answer:If we want to fill a desire, we must treat it the way the light that created it treats it, according to the same four stages of development.
Any literary work develops in four stages. I am sure that all playwrights, writers, and even journalists who seek to attract the reader’s attention, understand that their work must be built on four stages, including the climax and the ending.
Otherwise, if it does not correspond to the structure of our desire, then a person simply will not understand what they want to sell to him, what they want to fill him with. Therefore, all writers should create in the same way as the Creator, according to the four stages of direct light.
There is such a formula when pleasure, in order to create a desire for itself that would feel it precisely as pleasure, must contact this desire for four consecutive and opposite stages, when intention and desire, pleasure and hunger, play with each other until they become completely opposite and at the same time can be together.
People instinctively understood that it should be built in this way, because they themselves consist of four stages of the development of desire. Psychologists subconsciously felt this when they saw such states in human relationships.
Let’s say I’m with a child when I am teaching him something, and see how I play with him and beat him so that he has a desire to be for or against so he will understand his mistake. He must identify all the erroneous states and only then agree with me. In principle, this is a natural thing that does not relate to Kabbalah at all.
Question: How can a Kabbalistic touch be added inside any work of art?
Answer: This is a completely different action when Malchut becomes Keter, and the Keter of direct light becomes Malchut. That is how the reverse light works! That is, the giver and the recipient switch roles when the recipient initially turns around in such a way that proves to the giver how by receiving from him, he actually gives to him. This is the whole trick between us and the Creator. In other words, the recipient, the object, the goal wants to compensate themselves in some way in relation to their Creator.
This exists even in human relationships. Only everything depends on what kind of relationship there is between them, and then receiving and giving are purely conditional. For example, between a mother and a child, between friends, between spouses, between any events in the world, the main thing is that behind them there are feeling, understanding people who are in some kind of state of connection with each other.
Another example is that they bring me a lot of gifts and sometimes fill me up with all sorts of nonsense. And I have to accept all this and thank them because the giver feels that he is giving. He is pleased with this, because in fact he receives.
Therefore, I act out how much I need it, how pleasant it is, and so on; that is, I increase the action itself many, many times. A gift can cost a few shekels, but I make it feel like it is worth millions and that it is exactly what I wanted.
We see that neither the amount nor anything else matters here, but only the relationship between people, when the giver feels fulfilled, receives, and enjoys it. This exists around us at every moment, only it is a very small fraction of receiving and giving. [326522] From KabTV’s “I Got a Call. The Mystery of Art” 1/16/12
Yielding is not regarded as love in wholeness, for the one who yields always waits for when he will regain the power of control (Rabash, Article 240, “Discernments in States”).
Question: On one hand I yield more to my husband. On the other hand, thoughts come to me that there will come a time when I can retaliate for giving in and I will begin to dominate. How can I reach a state where I do not wait for the moment when I have the power to dominate?
Answer: The power to dominate can manifest in opposite actions for both parties. Therefore, there is no need to strive to mirror each other in the sense of “as much as you are, so am I,” and be sure to put them in the same form in a “common box.”
The most important thing is always to yield. Who yields to whom is irrelevant. For example, if a wife takes a step toward her husband, he will feel ashamed of himself. Or conversely, he will feel proud that she treats him this way.
The main thing is to respect each other and strive to always leave a pleasant impression on each other.
Question: What if I feel like I am disrespecting my husband?
Answer: Then you should replace it with love, as it is said: love covers all crimes. You must show love otherwise nothing will work out.
Is it difficult? In my opinion, it is the easiest thing to do.
Comment: Sometimes it is difficult. I understand that I offend and humiliate my husband and treat him improperly, but I cannot stop.
My Response: Then kiss him. In such cases, it helps best.
Question: Will that stop me?
Answer: Absolutely! Kiss each other more and calm each other down. Get closer to each other! [327379] From KabTV’s “Man and Woman” 3/19/24
Currently, we are in a state where we need to think about what forces our development is based on and whether we can replace bad, painful forces with those that are better and more comfortable so we can quickly come to our correction.
Comment:The fact is that when you get hit, you become softer, and you try to do good things in life. But as soon as these sufferings subside, you forget about everything.
Therefore, we can conclude that there should still be two paths together: the path of Torah and the path of suffering.
My Response: Yes, only the path of the Torah is impossible. We are such selfish creatures that we still need to “get hit on the head.”
Question: But is it impossible also only to receive?
Answer: Yes, you will not educate a person in this way. Therefore, we need to learn how to walk in the middle. [327263] From KabTV’s “Spiritual states” 3/14/24
Comment: I have a friend. He is 40 years younger than me, but is a very close friend of mine. He is currently fighting in Gaza—he is a paratrooper. From time to time he listens to our broadcasts. He left me a message on WhatsApp and asked me to ask you a question. Generally, his feeling is close to the feeling of all those who are at war.
Here is what he says: “We have become different, there has been a shift in thinking. There are 300,000 of us who have fought and are fighting, and we do not just talk about national unity, we really want it.
Whoever has not experienced what unity is like will not understand. It is when your brothers are next to you, and you can calmly give your life for them. We are all different, and we are brothers.
Then we come back to civilian life and nothing has changed there. Nothing! The same false patriotism in the Knesset, on television, the same shouts in the streets, in traffic jams. And it turns out that we are returning to the same country as it was before October 7th before the war.
There are many of us, a million with our families, those who really want unity. We are a force! This is happening for the first time ever. This cannot be missed! What to do?”
These are indeed a million people who are completely involved in this. It is like a call to some movement.
My Response: This should be a socio-political movement specifically of those who have fought.
Question: Specifically those who have felt what unity is like?
Answer:Yes, typically, such people are the ones who create new movements.
Question: What advice do you have about where to start? Something step by step. They have this desire, they are all passionate about it. The war is still going on. It is still unknown how long it will last. And they do not want to see this disorder, the instability that is here. They want to feel unity. They have felt what it is like and they want to live like that!
Answer: They want to live like that because there is a lack of an idea in our life.
Comment: Exactly! They have been captivated by this idea of unity. He feels brothers! He knows what mutual guarantee is. From the heart, not just with words.
My Response:My hands drop when I look at what is happening and when I think about them.
Comment:This is the country’s gold reserve. Probably the most precious thing that has been created during the entire existence of the State of Israel! How can we not squander this precious thing? If you could hear how he talks! He says this choking. He left a voice message on WhatsApp.
My Response: I believe that the only thing we have is to create a new Israel from these guys. That is all. Exactly from them.
Question: So must there be some will from the politicians to meet the guys like that? Or should there be the will of the people for these guys to replace all the old folks, replace all the politicians?
Answer: I think we would find all this among these guys.
Question: Would we find both politicians and everyone else among them?
Answer: Yes, we should not bring anyone from the old guard, from the outside. We must not. Look at what they babble on television!
Question: Yes, that is why there is this outrage among these guys that you come back home and it is like you are returning to pre-war times with demonstrations and everything. So do we need to build a new country from them?
Answer:Yes.
Question: Who will let them into this structure? Or should they themselves create such a movement; what do you think?
Answer:They should create such a movement themselves, socially and politically. They all need to come together and outline a clear plan of action.
Question:Do they have the mind for this?
Answer: I do not know, it is very difficult. Because they have to stand up to our “wise” politicians.
Question:Yes, and they are very wise to just take and play everything like that. Under the carpet, as they say.
So, is all this wisdom of a politician and wisdom of an economist largely unnecessary? The wisdom of a Knesset member…
Answer: No, only mutual connection is needed.
Question: And then wisdom will come?
Answer:Then everything will come.
Question: So if they carry this flag of unity further and further, then specialists in economics, diplomacy, and politics will be born here, right? From their movement, they will be able to put forward such guys?
Answer: Yes.
Question: And professionalism, years, experience is not important here?
Answer:Nothing.
Question: Do you attach such importance to simply this state of unity, which is the basis for everything?Can the country be built on this foundation?
Answer: Yes.
Question: One more question. We always talk about the higher power, about the Creator. Where is the Creator in all this?
Answer: The Creator is in people.
Question: So this desire for unity…
Answer:This is the Creator within them.
Question: Then it will happen that trouble will recede, sooner or later peaceful times will come, etc. Do you think they will be able to maintain this state?
Answer: No one knows. No one knows if they will achieve anything let alone maintain it.
Question: Is this unity in the face of an enemy? Is this unity against someone?
Answer: Yes.
Question: You always talk about unity, which is above egoism, above everything. Not just against someone, but unity for the unity of the country, for peace. Can this combat unity evolve into the unity you are talking about?
Answer: No, I don’t think so. They will not have the foundation for that.
Question: What foundation should there be?
Answer: The foundation should be that they strive in their unity to rise to a spiritual level. Otherwise, they will not sustain this unity.
Question: Does this come with the will of the Creator?
Answer:This is the will of the Creator, but for this, they must be able to understand it, join it, and accept it. It is possible! And it is with us, somewhere nearby, within these guys. But can we realize it?
Question:Should this fear be constant? Right now, as you speak, I feel a tremor, hoping that this will happen to them, that they can!
Answer: I don’t know. We need leaders, serious leaders, who can uplift them.
Question:Those who know that there will be conflicts and how to rise above them, and so on?
Answer: Yes, wise leaders are needed for this, leaders who will come and work with these guys. [326661] From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman” 2/19/24
Question:What does the land of Israel mean for the entire world group?
Answer: Naturally we are not talking about the physical land of Israel. We mean the place in the world of Atzilut from which we receive the upper light.
Answer: It means not including any egoistic desires in your request to the Creator.
Question: You mentioned the need to be cautious not to make mistakes. What does that mean, and what mistakes can we make?
Answer:When you feel the Creator or turn to Him, you must clearly direct yourself to the desire to be only in the quality of bestowal.
Question: What is the common deficiency of the ten and how can we awaken it?
Answer:The common deficiency is when friends collectively aim with the entire ten toward the quality of bestowal, toward the Creator.
Question: Does “the inheritance of the land” receive only those who have accumulated spiritual experience from previous reincarnations, or is it a privilege of the Creator to reward some and not others?
Answer:In the spiritual realm there are no privileges, favors, or connections. Everything is solely based on merit.
Question: Where does the need to strive for truth come from? Is it from the point in the heart or from the environment that is working on it?
Answer: Most likely it comes from the point in the heart. However, sometimes the point in the heart develops under the influence of the environment. [327450] From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 3/31/24, Writings of Rabash “Inheritance of the Land”
Question:Over the years of working on spirituality, we have accumulated stacks of notebooks in which we write down lessons and leave notes in the margins. When making notes, you feel a special taste in it and at the same time an effort. What is the value of taking notes during the lessons?
Answer: Once we were not allowed to take notes; we had to remember everything. And this was welcomed. Today everything is recorded; there is no end to it.
Initially, I also took notes. I wrote a lot, but eventually I stopped.
First of all, it is best to pay attention to the heart. That is why it says to write it down on your heart; this is is very important.
Even if later your heart changes and what you wanted to remember leaves, still the fact that you brought your heart closer to what you read, heard, and wanted it to remain in you remains, although not that you can always use it. But when you need it, you will remember everything. [327463] From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 3/29/24, Writings of Baal HaSulam “Looking in the Book Again”
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