From Enormous Pain to Enormous Pleasure
Comment: Empathy is the ability to feel emotions that correspond to the emotions of another person and compassion is the sympathy for someone else’s suffering.
My Response: It is as if you relocate into another person and feel their experiences.
Question: How can one develop this within oneself? As I understand it, if this feeling were cultivated, we would live differently.
Answer: Yes, then we would educate people accordingly. I believe this is possible. We simply do not engage in this. In general, from the age of 13 to 14, people are already capable of deeply sensing another person’s suffering. And they need to be educated for this.
Comment: This would absolutely, completely change the world.
My Response: Of course, without a doubt.
Question: So compassion can be cultivated in a person?
Answer: One can cultivate the understanding of compassion for another person and give a person the ability to comprehend how to perceive it to the point where in their compassion, a person will be able to share in another’s suffering, partially take it upon themselves, and thereby neutralize the suffering of the other.
Question: And will you not burn out from doing that?
Answer: No, because by neutralizing their suffering through your participation, through your empathy, and through your compassion, you gradually divide their suffering into many smaller parts, and in this way, the person calms down. And in doing so, you can lead the entire world to balance, to an inner state that can already be called bliss.
Question: So if compassion were shared equally among all the inhabitants of Earth, would it bring bliss to the world?
Answer: Yes, this is precisely what we must achieve in our unity. Because, in principle, we are certainly facing very serious problems ahead. After all, egoism is growing, and the upper light is being revealed more and more in relation to our egoism. That is, related to our egoism, we will feel increasing pressures to such an extent that if we cannot unite and share it all among ourselves, we will not be able to endure it.
Question: Now I understand the essence of what you always say: “Unity, connection, good thoughts, and good relationships.” The foundation of all this is compassion, is it not?
Answer: Yes, but it is practically not even compassion. It is the sharing of the enormous suffering: the opposition between the enormous desire and the enormous light that is meant to fill that desire, and the lack of intention “not for oneself,” which would allow the light to fill the desire.
Question: So fulfillment is only possible if it is for the sake of others?
Answer: Yes, that is why we need balance here. This can only happen through understanding how to learn compassion, how to share the opposition between absolute fulfillment and absolute emptiness among everyone.
Naturally, it will turn out neither less nor worse. But if we want it to be shared in this way, then the contradiction itself disappears. This is the special property of unity.
Question: And then, this bliss comes?
Answer: Yes, at that point, the sensation of opposition, impossibility, and inner cry transforms into satiation, into something higher, into pleasure. There is no longer any difference between enormous pain and enormous pleasure. They merge into one.
Question: And what, then, does pain become in this case?
Answer: It turns into pleasure because you have balanced them with one another.
Comment: That is something truly elevated.
My Response: That is how it happens, on a higher level.
Question: So pain is given to us in order to turn it into pleasure?
Answer: Yes, of course.
Question: And the greatest pain ultimately becomes the greatest pleasure?
Answer: Yes, if you know how to reconcile these opposites, you receive pleasure.
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From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman,” 8/15/25
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