When you gather in the ten and seemingly create one unique whole, although you are different from each other. Then you build inside you an attribute that is made of many different elements, which you do not even suspect exist because each of you is a huge complex system.
When you connect, one unique whole is created among you, but in fact the system is made of many different opposite parts. It is like every modern technical system, such as an electronic system or a computer system, in which there are many mutual and opposite combinations, but together they create a system that operates as one unique whole.
Without this system, you will not be able to advance in any way. So when you feel bad, only your ten can help you. If you are in a state of descent, the nine friends that are connected to each other can pull you out of this state.
This is the only way! There is no other way! This is the reason that each one is given a state of descent—in order to unite the ten. Today I am in a state of descent and tomorrow it will be you, and then him, and so on.
Everyone will go through these states and this is how we will create the Creator’s name, where each one pulls the others up. But you will not be able to do anything without a ten. All of spirituality is fulfilled only in the ten. There is nothing in an individual person. Make a note of that.
From KabTV’s “Fundamentals of Kabbalah” 2/24/19