My Response: The only correct algorithm regarding relations would be for each part of the system to exist only in order to support all the other parts and for itself, it would only get as much as it needed to function correctly in this way.
Question: How do the male and female parts of the system, literally husband and wife, relate to this?
Answer: Husband and wife should be focused on supporting each other as well as what is produced from their relationship.
Question: How can a woman support her husband as effectively as possible? In what way should this support be carried out in relation to his development, in terms of his existence in the corporeal world, and perhaps in terms of a spiritual goal?
Answer: I don’t think there is much difference between men and women or husbands and wives. They must both live according to an understanding of the meaning of their existence. What end should they come to? What is the most important thing in their lives?
They need to keep working on this. There are a lot of options here, but all of them should be aimed at achieving a common goal.
From KabTV’s “Kabbalah Express” 12/7/20