Question: Should I imagine the point in the heart of a woman whom I cannot stand in my ten? I cannot find another way to justify the fact that she is the exact opposite of me. The fact that I depict a point in her heart is the only thing I can think of to get out of a state of rejection.
Answer: You said it remarkably: “I hate everything in her, except for one point in the heart. And I love the spiritual point in her heart.”
So imagine that you are against this point, and everything else does not matter. This is the most important thing we need to do.
From KabTV’s “Fundamentals of Kabbalah,” 12/29/19